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HelenA

Hi hammy, hope you're feeling OK today??

I have a question for you, one i have puzzled over for years - when you get of with someone what are you getting off???????? :-5

HelenA

<t>wow koan can you read my cards? it sounds fascinating - i had a pack when I was younger but never worked it all out, it's s complicated! 
 
I think this girl is maybe trying to impress someone else and fit into another group and so is making fun in order to show she fits in and is ...

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Hey Hammy sorry I'm a bit late with this one but lots of love and hugs - hope you're feeling better. Baby on the way!!!! Yay!!!!:guitarist

HelenA

<t>Sounds cool Gallbally! You're right memory is like that - one thing triggers another. It good if it's a good memory - painful if it's a nostalgic or bad memory. songs make me remember times places and people.......I hate mambo number 5 becasue of my ex.............I'm definately better off out of ...

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<t>i hate it when people assume you aren't happy when you're single - as silennce said take your time and all will happen. i am holding firmly to the belief that the right person will come along - my godfather only ever had 1 girlfriend until he met his wife and had 2 kids and they were blissfully ...

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It's really sad isn't it? i was really ucky as mym mum was a teacher so she was always thre

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I've been on blood pressure pills since I was 18 - it's a real pain. By the way is PrincessNicky Nicky from BB????????????:wah:

HelenA

Has to be Dancing Queen - when that music's going I just can't sit down! Wish I was young and sweet, only 17 though!!!! :wah: :guitarist

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<t>i know - and what I want to know when I see these teenagers hanging around bus stops is - where are their parents???? My parents would never let me or my sister go out without knowing where we were going and who with and they certainly wouldn't have been happy if we wre just hanging around in the ...

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<t>oh why does this all have to be so difficult????? Why can't relationships be simple? And it's so haard to meet someone these days - in the past you could go to arranged dances which were safe and chaperoned so there wasn't that presure - young people just got to know each other and it went from ...

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<t>Sorry but what a w****er! Yes he was only after one thing. i had a similar experience with a dutch guy I met through emailing at work. He came over and we got on fine, I went over there and we got on fine. Kissed each other on the cheek at the airport that sort of thing but nothing happened at ...

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I wish everyone would think like that! My new years resolution is to do more exercise, which so far I have....

Happy New Year and continue spreading your philosophies around so more people benefi!!

H

xx

HelenA

<t>I don't know what exactly I believe in - I think there is something but I am uncomfortable with the organised religion side of it all. whether we believe or not, we're all going to find out in the end!! My grandpa used to hedge his bets so to speak - he used to say he believed so that if there ...

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<t>Diuretic;455417 wrote: Yes weber. I always thought the word was a synonym for "non-theism". I'm not a language expert but it sort of reminds me of the word "amoral" meaning "not oral". So a-theism for me means, non-theism, meaning not religious. 
 
 
I think the pre-fix "a" means ...

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<t>The good news is you're 19............the bad news is you're 19! As a fairly mature and responsible (cough cough) 32 year old, i would say go and talk to some one - when i was feling really bad about some stuff that was going on, i went to my dictir and they had a counselor who i went to for a ...

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<t>You know it's funny what kids think isn't it? i remember the thoughts I had when i was 4 - my mum had just got pregnant with my sister and I'd either asked or she'd told me "the facts of life". It didn't do much good though - all i could picture was mum and dad lying in bad and this worm thing ...

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theia;486100 wrote: Same here Abbey and Dubs :-6

Me too - It's distinct to being scottish or irish or welsh - though I can claim a bit of them too...........

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jennyswan;505692 wrote: A good sense of humor is important, no boozing please.

i agree with you Jen - a man who can make me laugh can laugh me into bed any day!! But he's got to have nice eyes to - and be tall and well built - a must if you're just 5 ft!!!

HelenA

<t>Pinky;492129 wrote: OMG!!! Br, that would be so fantastic! Nice and warm in Georgia, huh?:-6 
 
Hugh's pic makes me fancy fried egg on toast..in fact that's what I'm going to have for dinner seeing as only I'm here at the mo. 
 
Thanks for the warm hugs Bezzy, and Rapz, it's ...

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<r>Belladonna;504176 wrote: Small world indeed! About that snow....I confess! <E>:)</E> I had it all in my pocket, it melted..that's why we've been getting all the rain...But, I know where I can get some more though, lol..maybe I'll throw it up by the end of the month, lol!:wah: 
 
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<t>Bill Sikes;503220 wrote: It's an interesting feature of the law, not a royal whim. Do you doubt that the 
 
result will differ from the conclusions of the Froggies, and Lord Stevens? 
 
 
who knows - as long as the truth is told.......lets face it any other accident and the ...

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<t>acousticide;503701 wrote: Maybe your problem is that you are falling for him because he is SAFE. Meaning that you know that he is not going to be interested. Perhaps, you should not be looking for someone just like you, but someone who can complement you. No, I dont mean things like "you look ...

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<t>SnoozeControl;155540 wrote: I just finished "A Breath of Snow and Ashes" by Diana Gabaldon. If you aren't familiar with the series, then its nearly impossible to describe it without it sounding inane. Its sort of a romantic time travel story, with lots of historical background on the 1700s in ...

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<t>lots of good points - I really think that something was going on - not sure what. If they had really wanted her dead a car crash is surely not a good way to kill someone - too hit and miss. 
 
Another point though - why was the enquiry not held until recently? Why did the French embalm ...

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<t>DesignerGal;494256 wrote: FagHag!!! Hi honey! I was one of those for a LOOOOOONG time!!!! You know what to do. Go on some dates. Maybe he can set you up with someone!!!!:) 
 
 
i know,it's wonderful being a fag hag!!!!!! I went out to GAY for New Year - it was so amazing! We had the ...

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Imladris;493143 wrote: I just wonder which of us has the 'face to launch a thousand ships'!!!:)

Me obviously as I am so totally gorgeous - just look at all the men i'm having to fight off...........:wah:

Oh by the way how do you get the moving thingies????

HelenA

<t>Thanks for all your replies - you're all right. I need to just enjoy being his friend and it certainly is less stressful than a full on relationship! i guess I'll just carry on and see who turns up - at least i know now tha there are times that you can really, really connect with someone - and it ...

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<t>That's right - just tell him what you're thinking. If you like him but not that much,tell him. I guess I'd want to know if I was being too intense too soon. It's a shame because maybe he feels a connection that you don't, but you can'y humour him........show hiim the door - tell him you've met ...

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and me! I hate the whole dating thing- it's excruciating, like you're sitting an exam and someone is judging you! I always worry that he's bored or I'm going on or being stupid and "girlie"....in guess though you do know immediately if there is a connection.

HelenA

Thanks, that's a good idea - but who! I'm not exactly inundated with offers - never been good with men..........

HelenA

<t>help! What do I do! As I said in my introduction I have recently met a wonderful man - the male equivalent of me. we have so much in common, think the same way, like the same things, read the same books - even our families are similar (maybewhy we are) 
 
The huge problem is this - he's ...

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<r>Silence;490638 wrote: Again thanks for all the replies everyone. I will answer as many questions as i can remember. Firstly no i don;t work at a racing yard, i work at a riding centre so the clients and my colleagues are practically all female. It is long hours and yes horses are all consuming ...

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Wendybird;492139 wrote: Hi HelenA!

Welcome to the garden :-6

There are lot's of 'good' men around here! Just watch them form a queue!

Birdie

HI there! Thanks! nice to meet new people!

HelenA

<t>AussiePam;492378 wrote: G'day HelenA !! And welcome to the Garden! Lots of fine folk here. 
 
I read your profile. We have other Terry Pratchett fans, I think. And you like France. 
 
Me too. Heading over in April, part work, part family stuff, part a bit of late skiing.<br ...

HelenA

<t>Hi everyone just wanted to say hi - I've just joined and there's a lot going on! I live in Feltham, London, I'm a typical libran, I work for UPS as an administrator and i love reading watching TV, cinema and good food..I love seeing my friends and am having a blast.............the only thing I am ...

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<t>do you think so? I think the adult books just keep getting better as he adds more and more depth to the characters and world. Did you read Thud? That's pretty good and he's brillliant at making a story unfold. 
 
One of the saddest stories I've read was about a child brought up in a ...

HelenA

Hi thanks! i know it's a kids one but I hope to get the new one Wintersmith for Xmas!

HelenA

<t>Sheryl;303830 wrote: It took me awhile to get through the book too, but it was worth it. It picks up toward the end. 
 
Right now I'm reading Jody Picoult's "The 10th Circle" 
 
 
Hi I know this was a while ago but I've only just joined! I love Time Traveller's Wife and The ...

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