What Is It To Be Down Low?

Derryck · Post by **Derryck** » Tue Sep 20, 2005 5:10 pm

What Is It To Be Down Low?

My Definition:

A person who ellects to be on the Down Low, is trying to protect him/herself from being discovered indulging in activities (sexual in nature), that he would not like his/her family, relatives, friends or peers to become aware of!

With that definition in mind, let us explore all or most of the different concepts of being Down low.

a. Some Men & Women who are having sexual relationships or affairs outside of a relationship or marriage.

b. Some men who prefer that their spouse or woman does not get wind that they are Bisexual, and is indulging in sexual activities with men.

c. Some men who are Bi-sexual in nature, but refuses to accept it as a biological fact with them. Some are married with children, or in a relationship/s with women. But still crave the company of men sexually, and seek it out whenever they can quietly.

d. Some men, (though few in numbers), who have taken the responsibility upon themselves to notify their sexual partner, wife, woman or mate, that they are Bi-sexual, and is also having sexual affairs with a man or with other men.

Now these are just a few categories of the Down Low concept. But it is not hard and fast in nature. I have found in my enquiries, that if you ask fifty individuals who admits that they are living on the Down low, to give their perspective about the life. You will get as many answers as the number of persons asked!

This Life Style is still evolving and re-inventing itself. In time I guess it will be properly understood for what it is. Until then, don't hold your breadth.

Om Shanti.

Derryck.

actionfigurestepho · Post by **actionfigurestepho** » Tue Sep 20, 2005 5:38 pm

Why Derryck, I sense a theme in your posts...

Usually when I refer to being on the Down Low it just means I'm keeping a secret. It's rarely sexual in nature. If I ask someone to keep something we've discussed on "the DL" it means to keep it just between us.

orangesox1 · Post by **orangesox1** » Tue Sep 20, 2005 6:00 pm

actionfigurestepho wrote: Why Derryck, I sense a theme in your posts...

Usually when I refer to being on the Down Low it just means I'm keeping a secret. It's rarely sexual in nature. If I ask someone to keep something we've discussed on "the DL" it means to keep it just between us.
Derryck you need a wife, I think you're obsessed with sex, and if you are nice to her and treat her fairly, your desires will be fulfilled.

If you want to do a poll for research you need to select randomly from an electrol roll or your sample is biased.

nvalleyvee · Post by **nvalleyvee** » Tue Sep 20, 2005 6:12 pm

Hey Derrick -- you never responded to your 22 post - I doubt you will reply to this one,,,,,,,,,go figure someone who wants to make upset in the garden with people who truly care..........go away.

orangesox1 · Post by **orangesox1** » Tue Sep 20, 2005 6:15 pm

I think he's only posting to get reactions out of us, he's enjoying it. If he posts about sex again we can choose to ignore it.

BabyRider · Post by **BabyRider** » Tue Sep 20, 2005 6:40 pm

After some intensive research, I've found that Derryck is actually a Jerry Springer wanna-be in real life. *yawn*

BabyRider · Post by **BabyRider** » Tue Sep 20, 2005 7:17 pm

Derryck wrote:

Until then, don't hold your breadth.
Then should we hold our width?

Jives · Post by **Jives** » Tue Sep 20, 2005 7:24 pm

Hey! Babyrider is posting on this thread!!

Then......SEASON'S OPEN ON DERRYCK!

lol. You guys, I'm betting he's about 13 years old, has a pile of Playboys mixed with the occasional Hustler under his bed or in the clubhouse and is beginning to feel the pangs of hormones raging!:wah:

robinseggs · Post by **robinseggs** » Tue Sep 20, 2005 8:45 pm

Jives wrote: Hey! Babyrider is posting on this thread!!

Then......SEASON'S OPEN ON DERRYCK!

lol. You guys, I'm betting he's about 13 years old, has a pile of Playboys mixed with the occasional Hustler under his bed or in the clubhouse and is beginning to feel the pangs of hormones raging!:wah:

Yeah! Either that or he is over 80, homebound and had "a few"............lol