Husband Turned GAY...

Agnes · Post by **Agnes** » Wed May 18, 2005 5:41 pm

i have a close friend who realized a few years ago her husband was GAY. we always went on vacations together, we all attended high school & he never seemed unhappy. i am the god parent to their only child, a son. one day Betty said, he never wants to be home, golf is his life? i'm beautiful, look at me, i make a good income, but he is distant? we knew the problem, how could we break her heart? she finally caught him at a campground with his golf buddy. we are no longer friends as i told her he was abnormal. she has now lost me & her so-called man. :-5

lady cop · Post by **lady cop** » Wed May 18, 2005 5:49 pm

and this is in the pets forum because.....? :wah: let me guess, he was a pet!!

Agnes · Post by **Agnes** » Wed May 18, 2005 5:55 pm

I entered this BY ACCIDENT 2X's. yes they were into pets. a gorgeous portugese man, gone to men. he was just that way. my husband could not understand why he never wanted to go fishing!

lady cop · Post by **lady cop** » Wed May 18, 2005 6:01 pm

you know i was teasing you! LOL you always make me smile

Agnes · Post by **Agnes** » Wed May 18, 2005 6:08 pm

Linda, my dear i thought you were having a serious operation? you have no idea,,,,DETAILS GIRL. How i WORRied about YOU. what the hell is going on? are you up & going with a MINOR in Brain clots? hello, i do wonder about you? i may be more caring than you know? are you FIXED or not?

lady cop · Post by **lady cop** » Wed May 18, 2005 6:19 pm

i DO know you care, and i really appreciate you for that!:-6 read this thread for your answer. so i don't hijack your thread.............happy happy joy oh yes!!!!! ( 1 2 3 )

lady cop

Agnes · Post by **Agnes** » Wed May 18, 2005 6:22 pm

lady cop wrote: i DO know you care, and i really appreciate you for that!:-6 xoxoxo read this thread for your answer..............happy happy joy oh yes!!!!! ( 1 2 3 )

lady cop
LC, i lay LOW, and i think about you, are you okay or not? no matter what, i tell the truth. are you alright. go damn it!

lady cop · Post by **lady cop** » Wed May 18, 2005 6:23 pm

Agnes wrote: LC, i lay LOW, and i think about you, are you okay or not? no matter what, i tell the truth. are you alright. go damn it!just check that link stubborn lady! LOL

Agnes · Post by **Agnes** » Wed May 18, 2005 7:21 pm

honey, Joe was the most stud around.

Agnes · Post by **Agnes** » Wed May 18, 2005 7:37 pm

i love all people, Joe was different, and i still love him.. even though he made HER feel good, i was shocked, he turned to a man. we grew up together.

koan · Post by **koan** » Wed May 18, 2005 11:24 pm

It is a shock to people that are around them but I wonder how long the signs were there. It may be a shock to the person when they realize they are gay too. I'm sure there are as many scenarios as there are people in the world. What I wonder is, how do you tell your spouse something like that? There could be no "easy" way.

persephone · Post by **persephone** » Thu May 19, 2005 12:10 am

I wonder if it's not more a shock excepting they are gay rather than realising.

Agnes, you shouldn't have said he was abnormal, I cringe at the look on your friends face when you said it, I know you were most likely trying to comfort but, think, she has been with him for how many years, she is hurting but still has feelings for him.

My other half knows I find certain types of women attractive, are they signs I wonder... Nah, I still prefer what a man can offer to what a woman can't, plastic just doesn't do enough for me, however much he thinks he's missing out :yh_rotfl

john8pies · Post by **john8pies** » Thu May 19, 2005 2:34 am

Being gay may not actually be `abnormal` but nevertheless it is very unusual (less than 1% of population; if everybody acted gay the human race would die out) so I can understand why Agnes said that.

capt_buzzard · Post by **capt_buzzard** » Thu May 19, 2005 10:07 am

God be good to us