Hello i am new

Second Opinion · Post by **Second Opinion** » Mon Sep 21, 2009 1:22 pm

Hello everyone i am new here.

don't know what to say but i am a new mum to a 21 week old baby boy. i have just moved into my own flat and am finding it a bit lonley. is there any new mums here? i stay with my aunt but don't have a computer at home yet. sorry but don't know what else to say.

CARLA · Post by **CARLA** » Mon Sep 21, 2009 1:28 pm

Welcome Second Opinion being a new single mom is a lot of work you will make friends here and hopefully in your new place. :-6

We grandma's love pictures so maybe you can post some for us.

TenneseeGirl · Post by **TenneseeGirl** » Mon Sep 21, 2009 1:38 pm

I'm not a mom yet but I will be in march.:-6

Second Opinion · Post by **Second Opinion** » Mon Sep 21, 2009 1:40 pm

thanks carla. he was hard work when first born but now sleeps all night. i don't know how to get pictures up on here but i have someone who will help me. he came early so is still very small for his age but his weight is going up now.

Second Opinion · Post by **Second Opinion** » Mon Sep 21, 2009 1:55 pm

TenneseeGirl;1244971 wrote: I'm not a mom yet but I will be in march.:-6
this is my first forum and just been shown the quote button and smilies.

do you know what your having yet? i didnt know but didnt mind what i had and my delivery was very quick for the first and hardly any pain at all.

abbey · Post by **abbey** » Mon Sep 21, 2009 1:58 pm

Welcome to the garden. :yh_flower

We've seen pics and he's adorable!

pinkchick · Post by **pinkchick** » Mon Sep 21, 2009 2:01 pm

Hi there :-6

I'm not a mum but I'm sure there are lots of people here that can give you lots of advice.

Welcome :-6

I hope you enjoy FG

Second Opinion · Post by **Second Opinion** » Mon Sep 21, 2009 2:06 pm

abbey;1244982 wrote: Welcome to the garden. :yh_flower

We've seen pics and he's adorable!
thanks very much. that will be great aunt oscar showing his pictures i expect.

Second Opinion · Post by **Second Opinion** » Mon Sep 21, 2009 2:11 pm

pinkchick;1244985 wrote: Hi there :-6

I'm not a mum but I'm sure there are lots of people here that can give you lots of advice.

Welcome :-6

I hope you enjoy FG

thanks very much. my mum is great but i cant see her as much as i like since i got moved to my new flat. it's hard because he looks so like his farther who i hardly see now. i bless every day i have my baby and try to be a good mum. none of my friends have babys so they sort of left me behind now.

Peg · Post by **Peg** » Mon Sep 21, 2009 2:18 pm

Second Opinion;1244990 wrote: thanks very much. my mum is great but i cant see her as much as i like since i got moved to my new flat. it's hard because he looks so like his farther who i hardly see now. i bless every day i have my baby and try to be a good mum. none of my friends have babys so they sort of left me behind now.

Welcome to the garden. Since you've moved, I'm sure the baby will help be a great beginning of some conversations for you to make new friends. Your baby is adorable! My son was 8 weeks early. He's almost 22 and you'd never know it to look at him now. :wah:

chonsigirl · Post by **chonsigirl** » Mon Sep 21, 2009 2:25 pm

Hi there! I am almost a new grandma! Lots of baby news and stuff, please!

AussiePam · Post by **AussiePam** » Mon Sep 21, 2009 2:27 pm

Welcome Second Opinion!!

Second Opinion · Post by **Second Opinion** » Mon Sep 21, 2009 2:38 pm

Peg;1244993 wrote: Welcome to the garden. Since you've moved, I'm sure the baby will help be a great beginning of some conversations for you to make new friends. Your baby is adorable! My son was 8 weeks early. He's almost 22 and you'd never know it to look at him now. :wah: gosh everyone is so nice here and oscar said it was a great place. i must get my own computer so i can write at home but i had so much to buy baby and the new flat was unfurnished so that was hard as well. oscar got me a telly and stuff and my mums helped a lot. i go to baby club during the week but its nights i find lonely when babys asleep.

almostfamous · Post by **almostfamous** » Mon Sep 21, 2009 3:39 pm

Second Opinion;1244990 wrote: thanks very much. my mum is great but i cant see her as much as i like since i got moved to my new flat. it's hard because he looks so like his farther who i hardly see now. i bless every day i have my baby and try to be a good mum. none of my friends have babys so they sort of left me behind now.

Hi there and welcome to FG :-6

I will be a new mom come December and will be going it alone as well. I've selfishly prayed that Lane resembles me and not his dad, I know the reminder will be hard too but know that YOU are the one sticking around raising him/her (I may've missed where you mentioned the gender, sorry)

Congratulations on your new flat and it's good to hear that you have a support system. I don't know what I'd do without my parents going through this myself. Very good luck to you and your munchkin :-4

Second Opinion · Post by **Second Opinion** » Mon Sep 21, 2009 3:41 pm

what nice people are here and thankyou very much. i really must get a computer so i can write more often. sorry i dont have much to say but i cant work or anything with baby and dont go out much.

G#Gill · Post by **G#Gill** » Mon Sep 21, 2009 3:44 pm

Hi Second Opinion (I suppose I could call you S.O. but that sounds like petrol ! :yh_rotfl ). I'm sure Oscar will show you the ropes, so long as you don't take much notice of her naughty posts, or get led astray by her ! GREAT AUNT !!!!!! Eeeee

I just can't picture Mrs O as a great auntie .................................................

:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl..............................:driving: oops, I'm off !!!!!!!

Second Opinion · Post by **Second Opinion** » Mon Sep 21, 2009 3:48 pm

almostfamous;1245027 wrote: Hi there and welcome to FG :-6

I will be a new mom come December and will be going it alone as well. I've selfishly prayed that Lane resembles me and not his dad, I know the reminder will be hard too but know that YOU are the one sticking around raising him/her (I may've missed where you mentioned the gender, sorry)

Congratulations on your new flat and it's good to hear that you have a support system. I don't know what I'd do without my parents going through this myself. Very good luck to you and your munchkin :-4
you dont have long to go for december. sorry your on your own like me as it's hard but i dont care as long as i got my baby. i was lucky to get the flat because i wanted our own place but so much to buy for it. my mum is the best and so is oscar who always looks out for me. hes a baby boy with blonde hair and blue eyes like his farther and a very happy baby but wasnt at first because he knew i was stressed. i had to learn to chill because i was upsetting him all the time but im a lot better now. is Lane a girls name? i really like that its cool.

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Mon Sep 21, 2009 3:56 pm

welcome Second Opinion and baby!:-6

- raising a baby is tough on a single parent, and you will pull through this.

were all here to help you. I have had 2 boys, so I can help you with anything any time.

I'm lonely to, my husband walked out on me.....so already we have something in common.

Second Opinion · Post by **Second Opinion** » Mon Sep 21, 2009 4:17 pm

Odie;1245036 wrote: welcome Second Opinion and baby!:-6

- raising a baby is tough on a single parent, and you will pull through this.

were all here to help you. I have had 2 boys, so I can help you with anything any time.

I'm lonely to, my husband walked out on me.....so already we have something in common.

sorry to hear that i really am but mine didnt walk out more taken away if you know what i mean. where did pams bit go? i wanted to answer her, anyway pam oscar is aunt of the farther of my baby and i stay with her when im up here. oscar has three computers and she dont need them all hint hint hint. i do go to baby club and meet lots of new mums there but its just the nights as you will know odie. and gill oscar will so get you for that picture. :wah:

G#Gill · Post by **G#Gill** » Mon Sep 21, 2009 4:35 pm

Second Opinion;1245046 wrote: sorry to hear that i really am but mine didnt walk out more taken away if you know what i mean. where did pams bit go? i wanted to answer her, anyway pam oscar is aunt of the farther of my baby and i stay with her when im up here. oscar has three computers and she dont need them all hint hint hint. i do go to baby club and meet lots of new mums there but its just the nights as you will know odie. and gill oscar will so get you for that picture. :wah:

Oh, you bet she will !!!!!! I'm already running -------------------------woosh -----gone

:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Mon Sep 21, 2009 4:54 pm

Second Opinion;1245046 wrote: sorry to hear that i really am but mine didnt walk out more taken away if you know what i mean. where did pams bit go? i wanted to answer her, anyway pam oscar is aunt of the farther of my baby and i stay with her when im up here. oscar has three computers and she dont need them all hint hint hint. i do go to baby club and meet lots of new mums there but its just the nights as you will know odie. and gill oscar will so get you for that picture. :wah:

oh thank you, 3 months later, much better now!

I do know exactly what you are talking about------taken away....Julie tells me everything!......so mom's the word here.

Julie and I are like best friends, so if you ever need me, I am always here for you hun......just pm me......anytime!

we have seen your new little one here as Julie has posted us pictures.

awwwwwwwwwww just so sweet and adorable.

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Mon Sep 21, 2009 4:58 pm

Odie;1245058 wrote: oh thank you, 3 months later, much better now!

I do know exactly what you are talking about------taken away....Julie tells me everything!......so mom's the word here.

Julie and I are like best friends, so if you ever need me, I am always here for you hun......just pm me......anytime!

we have seen your new little one here as Julie has posted us pictures.

awwwwwwwwwww just so sweet and adorable. Thanks Joan.. she's gone to bed as she has , ahem, an early visit in the morning. :-4

mikeinie · Post by **mikeinie** » Tue Sep 22, 2009 2:47 am

Hi Sec Op

greeting from Ireland and welcome to the FG. I am not a single mom, but I am an out numbered dad.

Mike

lou lou belle · Post by **lou lou belle** » Tue Sep 22, 2009 2:53 am

Welcome to the forum garden, I am sure you will enjoy some of the conversations we have on here. You may even seek expert advice from the mums on here.

There are a lot of us that have done that and worn the t-shirt, its not an easy road, but a great journey.:-6

Clairs Mum · Post by **Clairs Mum** » Tue Sep 22, 2009 4:02 am

welcome. lol karen

Chezzie · Post by **Chezzie** » Tue Sep 22, 2009 11:25 am

Hi and welcome to the Garden:-6

You son is beautiful:-4

Lean on us members for any support that Oscar, Peter and your family cant help with.:-6

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Tue Sep 22, 2009 11:42 am

Chezzie;1245333 wrote: Hi and welcome to the Garden:-6

You son is beautiful:-4

Lean on us members for any support that Oscar, Peter and your family cant help with.:-6
That's nice Chezz... She's in a bad place at the moment and she's looking forward to making friends here. She will really appreciate every-one's kindness. Thanks all and she'll be back next week.

along-for-the-ride · Post by **along-for-the-ride** » Tue Sep 22, 2009 4:25 pm

Hello, SecondOpinion. Enjoy your visits with us.

Here's a welcome mat for you.

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AussiePam · Post by **AussiePam** » Tue Sep 22, 2009 8:29 pm

Second Opinion, my vanished post merely raved on a bit about the need to get out of the house, even though every effort is tough when you've been up half the night... See if you can find a playgroup in your area. The face to face mutual support of a group of mums is really great. And for the times you're gated, we're all here for you. Hope you can get regular computer access.

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Wed Sep 23, 2009 8:35 am

AussiePam;1245491 wrote: Second Opinion, my vanished post merely raved on a bit about the need to get out of the house, even though every effort is tough when you've been up half the night... See if you can find a playgroup in your area. The face to face mutual support of a group of mums is really great. And for the times you're gated, we're all here for you. Hope you can get regular computer access. Thanks Pam... I'm sure we can sort her out a pc :-6:-6

almostfamous · Post by **almostfamous** » Wed Sep 23, 2009 9:13 am

Second Opinion;1245032 wrote: you dont have long to go for december. sorry your on your own like me as it's hard but i dont care as long as i got my baby. i was lucky to get the flat because i wanted our own place but so much to buy for it. my mum is the best and so is oscar who always looks out for me. hes a baby boy with blonde hair and blue eyes like his farther and a very happy baby but wasnt at first because he knew i was stressed. i had to learn to chill because i was upsetting him all the time but im a lot better now. is Lane a girls name? i really like that its cool.

Yep, December is creeping up me quickly

I'm not sorry I'm on my own really because I know my son and I are better off. I'm not jaded to think it won't be the hardest thing I've ever done but I like a challenge and I won't fail my child :-4

Your son sounds adorable, I'll to look around a bit and see if I can find the piccies Oscar posted. On the stress note, yeah... I had to make some adjustments myself so I understand. Just keep your head up girly and know we're all here for ya. This place has been a great place for me when I've gone thru things in the past and it continues to be a place I can run to.

Lane is actually both girl and boy. But mostly I've only heard it as a boy's name.

Over here there are lots of names that are both male and female. I've dated a Courtney and a Kelly :wah:

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Wed Sep 23, 2009 9:43 am

almostfamous;1245630 wrote: Yep, December is creeping up me quickly

I'm not sorry I'm on my own really because I know my son and I are better off. I'm not jaded to think it won't be the hardest thing I've ever done but I like a challenge and I won't fail my child :-4

Your son sounds adorable, I'll to look around a bit and see if I can find the piccies Oscar posted. On the stress note, yeah... I had to make some adjustments myself so I understand. Just keep your head up girly and know we're all here for ya. This place has been a great place for me when I've gone thru things in the past and it continues to be a place I can run to.

Lane is actually both girl and boy. But mostly I've only heard it as a boy's name.

Over here there are lots of names that are both male and female. I've dated a Courtney and a Kelly :wah:

the only Lane I know of is Lane Davies/Davis...he was on General Hospital years ago:wah:..have never heard of it being used for a girl

mdjrs · Post by **mdjrs** » Mon Oct 05, 2009 12:41 am

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