Being Gay/Bi or Lesbian

Musiclover89 · Post by **Musiclover89** » Wed Mar 05, 2008 3:30 pm

Ok during my absense from here i've accepted the fact that i'm Gay i didn't at first but well now i've accepted it and i'm not ashmed of it i've even got a Boyfriend and just now i couldnt be happier with myself but anyway the point on this topic is what are your opinions on Gay/ Bi sexuals or Lesbians? please no religous B.S :wah:

kayleneaussie · Post by **kayleneaussie** » Wed Mar 05, 2008 3:36 pm

Glad to hear you have accepted you sexuality and are happy.

I have heaps of friends who are Gay and I worked with two Gay doctors. Sometimes I find my Gay friends a lot easier to get on with than my straight friends.

Kathy Ellen · Post by **Kathy Ellen** » Wed Mar 05, 2008 3:41 pm

WOW Darren:-4

That's a big announcement for you to share with us....good on ya to come to terms with your feelings and emotions. I personally feel that we should be honest with ourselves and accept who we are.

I could care less about your race, religion, beliefs, sexual preferences....as long as you're a nice person who is willing to grow and be happy.

Good to see you home in the Forum Garden......missed you:-6 stay happy.

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Wed Mar 05, 2008 3:47 pm

I dont have any special feelings about someone being gay.

Your a human being.

Period.

Musiclover89 · Post by **Musiclover89** » Wed Mar 05, 2008 3:54 pm

fuzzy butt;793715 wrote: Just promise me you won't go waving your bare arse at some Mardi Gra parade and I'll be happy that your happy.

:wah: i think the sight of me alone will scare people

Post by **Bryn Mawr** » Wed Mar 05, 2008 3:58 pm

Musiclover89;793698 wrote: Ok during my absense from here i've accepted the fact that i'm Gay i didn't at first but well now i've accepted it and i'm not ashmed of it i've even got a Boyfriend and just now i couldnt be happier with myself but anyway the point on this topic is what are your opinions on Gay/ Bi sexuals or Lesbians? please no religous B.S :wah:

People are people and I'll take them as I find them.

Anyone who forces their choice onto me I'll react against. Anyone else I'll take as I find.

Galbally · Post by **Galbally** » Wed Mar 05, 2008 4:03 pm

Whatever gets you thru the night friend. It takes courage to admit to something like that I would imagine, though it can be tricky on forums like this getting too personal about your life, but most people here will be pretty cool I would imagine, some won't be that cool, but I guess just don't let some of the negativity you will probably get from people who are naturally uncomfortable with those kinds of issues upset you too much, its just the way people are. :-6

dubs · Post by **dubs** » Wed Mar 05, 2008 4:07 pm

Yeah, what G said! Hiya Dazz, long time no see..

abbey · Post by **abbey** » Wed Mar 05, 2008 4:31 pm

Kathy Ellen;793706 wrote: WOW Darren:-4

That's a big announcement for you to share with us....good on ya to come to terms with your feelings and emotions. I personally feel that we should be honest with ourselves and accept who we are.

I could care less about your race, religion, beliefs, sexual preferences....as long as you're a nice person who is willing to grow and be happy.

Good to see you home in the Forum Garden......missed you:-6 stay happy. Ditto :-4

fuzzy butt;793715 wrote: Just promise me you won't go waving your bare arse at some Mardi Gra parade and I'll be happy that your happy.:)PMSL :wah:

Pheasy · Post by **Pheasy** » Wed Mar 05, 2008 4:34 pm

Having watched someone close to me go through the process of realizing he was gay, and the confusion it brings - I know it is not easy. Its good to hear that you have found your answers, and happy with it.

Wishing you loads of happiness Darren. :-4 :-4

Pheasy · Post by **Pheasy** » Wed Mar 05, 2008 5:05 pm

Oh, and to answer your question - I have no option about this :-6 It's like you telling me you like brussel sprouts, I don't, but I don't judge you for liking them .... if you see what I mean?

flopstock · Post by **flopstock** » Wed Mar 05, 2008 5:49 pm

It makes perfect sense to me, I like guys too...:p

Just two more men that I can mark off my list of possibilities I suppose...:rolleyes:

Pheasy · Post by **Pheasy** » Wed Mar 05, 2008 5:55 pm

flopstock;793768 wrote: It makes perfect sense to me, I like guys too...:p

Just two more men that I can mark off my list of possibilities I suppose...:rolleyes:

:wah::wah: That is the down-side - these men are taking our men.

Just kidding with ya ML :-4

pantsonfire321@aol.com · Wed Mar 05, 2008 11:50 pm

Musiclover89;793698 wrote: Ok during my absense from here i've accepted the fact that i'm Gay i didn't at first but well now i've accepted it and i'm not ashmed of it i've even got a Boyfriend and just now i couldnt be happier with myself but anyway the point on this topic is what are your opinions on Gay/ Bi sexuals or Lesbians? please no religous B.S :wah:

Just pleased for you and glad that your happy ....Take care :-6 :-6

mrsK · Post by **mrsK** » Thu Mar 06, 2008 1:49 am

As long as you are happy,that is the main thing.

Good for you & best wishes to you both:-6

el guapo · Post by **el guapo** » Thu Mar 06, 2008 2:37 am

ThePheasant;793745 wrote: Oh, and to answer your question - I have no option about this :-6 It's like you telling me you like brussel sprouts, I don't, but I don't judge you for liking them .... if you see what I mean?

pheas ya wrong who ml want to share his bed with is up to him

but brussel sprouts are wrong just plain wrong

good luck M L

Imladris · Post by **Imladris** » Thu Mar 06, 2008 2:38 am

Because I have got to know you first I have no opinion, I hope that makes sense. To me you are just Darren, whether you fancy men, women or garden ornaments makes absolutely no difference you're still yourself, that kind, sweet, funny, caring ML that we all care about. As long as you're happy that's what matters.

btw weird coincidence - only the other day I was wondering about how many people here are gay, strange mind wandering moment when I should have been studying!!!

And another thing, I was at a meeting last night and two people were passing comment about a gay couple who were there and it really hacked me off. The couple have been together forever and had a civil ceremony as soon as it became law, they're lovely men and don't deserve to be judged. (small rant, I'm over it now!!!)

Carolly · Post by **Carolly** » Thu Mar 06, 2008 3:11 am

I have known many many gay people in my life as many years ago I used to compere in a pub in London that was one of the first pubs to ever have drag acts.Because it was such a new thing at the time it was visited by many famous people who also was gay but many including me didn't realise this.Of course it made no difference to me at all and they even were nicer than I thought they would be when I used to see them on the tele.Why on earth why should it have made a difference?What somebody does behind closed doors is their business no matter what their sexuality is.Through my life some of my best friends have been gay and some of them made a huge contribution to my life in so many ways and without having met them my life would have not as been so happy......funny and full of so many warm and fond memories as it is now.You are what you are and being trapped in a body that dosen't match your desires cannot be easy and should never be frowned upon.

Good luck for today, tomorrow and always sweetheart and you just be yourself and if anybody can't except that............well tough...........thats their problem;)

Accountable · Post by **Accountable** » Thu Mar 06, 2008 3:51 am

I think announcements like this are gauche, but glad to see you back. :-6

Pheasy · Post by **Pheasy** » Thu Mar 06, 2008 4:42 am

el guapo;793983 wrote: pheas ya wrong who ml want to share his bed with is up to him

but brussel sprouts are wrong just plain wrong

good luck M L

:wah: I have to agree - brussel sprouts should be illegal !

Carolly · Post by **Carolly** » Thu Mar 06, 2008 4:50 am

ThePheasant;793999 wrote: :wah: I have to agree - brussel sprouts should be illegal !Well I dont..........I like em:p:rolleyes:

Clodhopper · Post by **Clodhopper** » Thu Mar 06, 2008 4:50 am

The important thing is love. The rest is endlessly fascinating and a lot of fun, but the important thing is all about the person in your arms.

Makes no difference what sex or sexuality you are.

kazalala · Post by **kazalala** » Thu Mar 06, 2008 5:37 am

Live and let Live is my motto:D Im glad you are happy, and glad to see you back here:-4

kazalala · Post by **kazalala** » Thu Mar 06, 2008 5:38 am

By the way,,, i love Brussell Sprouts:D

and another by the way,,,,,,, i think being Bi sexual is just plain greedy:sneaky::wah::wah:

Pheasy · Post by **Pheasy** » Thu Mar 06, 2008 5:42 am

Carolly and Kaz, I'm sure there is a doctor out there that can cure you of this brussel sprout thing - I mean, seriously they are disgusting!! :yh_sick

Sorry ML - I'm derailing :-4

Carolly · Post by **Carolly** » Thu Mar 06, 2008 5:52 am

ThePheasant;794012 wrote: Carolly and Kaz, I'm sure there is a doctor out there that can cure you of this brussel sprout thing - I mean, seriously they are disgusting!! :yh_sick

Sorry ML - I'm derailing :-4
Kaz.........you gonna let her get away with that remark...........ave a go at her ......dont worry Im right behind you mate

;)

kazalala · Post by **kazalala** » Thu Mar 06, 2008 5:55 am

ThePheasant;794012 wrote: Carolly and Kaz, I'm sure there is a doctor out there that can cure you of this brussel sprout thing - I mean, seriously they are disgusting!! :yh_sick

Sorry ML - I'm derailing :-4

aha! now we know your weakness:sneaky::sneaky::D

Uncle Kram · Post by **Uncle Kram** » Thu Mar 06, 2008 6:20 am

OK so you're gay. That's no problem for me. Personally though, I am quite disturbed that you like Michael Jackson

. Good luck to you and your chap.

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Thu Mar 06, 2008 6:32 am

Gay, bi, straight - Makes no difference to me. Have some gay friends and a cousin is gay. Your still a human being and fun to be around, oh and I hate brussel sprouts too:wah:

Galbally · Post by **Galbally** » Thu Mar 06, 2008 7:26 am

Just in relation to sprouts, I did write a poem about them once, because I love them so much. So I say if you love sprouts be proud! :-6

sunny104 · Post by **sunny104** » Thu Mar 06, 2008 7:27 am

I'm happy you're happy!

:-6

sunny104 · Post by **sunny104** » Thu Mar 06, 2008 7:27 am

oh, and I love sprouts, too!

flopstock · Post by **flopstock** » Thu Mar 06, 2008 7:43 am

Accountable;793993 wrote: I think announcements like this are gauche, but glad to see you back. :-6

Focus dear...the point on this topic is what are your opinions on Gay/ Bi sexuals or Lesbians?:p

sunny104 · Post by **sunny104** » Thu Mar 06, 2008 7:48 am

Accountable;793993 wrote: I think announcements like this are gauche, but glad to see you back. :-6

you didn't use none of them fancy words when I met you......:yh_silent

:wah:

Miss Maam · Post by **Miss Maam** » Thu Mar 06, 2008 7:54 am

I applaud your honesty. People are who they are and certainly have the right to be themselves. You're gay ~ so what ~ it's ok with me! I say bunk negativity concerning any personal choices. If you're happy, that's all that matters!

Chezzie · Post by **Chezzie** » Thu Mar 06, 2008 8:49 am

My opinion is no different, your still the same ML you were before I read this, except know I know a little bit more about you, here is a lil something for you to know about me....I LOVE BRUSSEL SPROUTS...YUMMMY

YZGI · Post by **YZGI** » Thu Mar 06, 2008 9:04 am

Have a Gay ole time mate.

Brussell sprouts sauted in butter and garlic. mmm mmm good!:D

Carolly · Post by **Carolly** » Thu Mar 06, 2008 9:08 am

I reckon we should start a thread about sprouts so we can have a good debate:p;)

kazalala · Post by **kazalala** » Thu Mar 06, 2008 9:21 am

Galbally;794102 wrote: Just in relation to sprouts, I did write a poem about them once, because I love them so much. So I say if you love sprouts be proud! :-6

HI my names Kaz.... and i love Sprouts!!!!!!:D

Imladris · Post by **Imladris** » Thu Mar 06, 2008 12:07 pm

Green food should be banned.

Carolly · Post by **Carolly** » Thu Mar 06, 2008 12:09 pm

Imladris;794888 wrote: Green food should be banned.:DSchhhh dont start em all off again fgs:rolleyes:

Imladris · Post by **Imladris** » Thu Mar 06, 2008 12:11 pm

Carolly;794897 wrote: Schhhh dont start em all off again fgs:rolleyes:

*snigger*

YZGI · Post by **YZGI** » Thu Mar 06, 2008 12:12 pm

Imladris;794888 wrote: Green food should be banned.

That sounds like vegism, or vegist or vegotry..

Carolly · Post by **Carolly** » Thu Mar 06, 2008 12:14 pm

Imladris;794905 wrote: *snigger*NOW BEHAVE!:rolleyes::mad:

Imladris · Post by **Imladris** » Thu Mar 06, 2008 12:17 pm

Carolly;794918 wrote: NOW BEHAVE!:rolleyes::mad:
I can look at it, I just can't eat it.................. actually that applies to more than one thing....................:sneaky:

;)

Carolly · Post by **Carolly** » Thu Mar 06, 2008 12:18 pm

Imladris;794929 wrote: I can look at it, I just can't eat it.................. actually that applies to more than one thing....................:sneaky:

;)I aint even going there sweetchops:wah::wah::p

Carolly · Post by **Carolly** » Thu Mar 06, 2008 12:20 pm

Musiclover I am so sorry about the Sprout brigade.......take no notice hun:rolleyes:er do you like em?????:wah::wah:;)

Pheasy · Post by **Pheasy** » Thu Mar 06, 2008 12:22 pm

Carolly;794943 wrote: Musiclover I am so sorry about the Sprout brigade.......take no notice hun:rolleyes:er do you like em?????:wah::wah:;)

It was the others that started it - honest

:o

Carolly · Post by **Carolly** » Thu Mar 06, 2008 12:24 pm

ThePheasant;794950 wrote: It was the others that started it - honest

:o
Oh here comes the guilty party......actually they go well with.........erm

your relations shall we say:rolleyes::-3