In abit of a Padicament

Musiclover89 · Post by **Musiclover89** » Mon Sep 10, 2007 1:39 pm

I've been in abit of a Padicament just now with a so called friend of mine because when i see him in College he acts as if i'm not their and i know he sees me cause he looks right at me i''m tempted to go and punch the ******* but i aint a violent person

but what should i do should i confront him or end the friendship?

el guapo · Post by **el guapo** » Mon Sep 10, 2007 1:42 pm

drop him

Patsy Warnick · Post by **Patsy Warnick** » Mon Sep 10, 2007 1:46 pm

Doesn't sound like much of a friend to me..

Friend when its convenient for them..

Drop 'em.. - bye - bye - move on & ignore them too..

Patsy

el guapo · Post by **el guapo** » Mon Sep 10, 2007 1:47 pm

el guapo;692735 wrote: drop him

ment bye bye not i say not hit him

RedGlitter · Post by **RedGlitter** » Mon Sep 10, 2007 1:52 pm

He's probably trying to fit into a different crowd or form some new identity, I say do both. At least I would. If you don't confront him you'll always wonder what the deal was and maybe he deserves to be called out for his behavior anyway. Then dump his sorry @ss.

Kathy Ellen · Post by **Kathy Ellen** » Mon Sep 10, 2007 2:00 pm

Just what Jessie said...drop him like a hot potato. Pssst...did you read my post to you in your Scottish thread?

Musiclover89 · Post by **Musiclover89** » Mon Sep 10, 2007 2:23 pm

Kathy Ellen;692752 wrote: Just what Jessie said...drop him like a hot potato. Pssst...did you read my post to you in your Scottish thread?

Yes i did Kathy

i've decided to confront him and hes making up all these excuses saying he doesn't see me when hes made eye conact with me sevrel times just cause i wear glasses doesn't make me ****ing blind i mean honestly what sorta person does he take me for

neffy · Post by **neffy** » Mon Sep 10, 2007 3:10 pm

el guapo;692739 wrote: ment bye bye not i say not hit him

:wah::wah:

i would get rid darren,and rise above it,make news friends and tell him to bugger off

Lon · Post by **Lon** » Mon Sep 10, 2007 3:10 pm

Musiclover89;692730 wrote: I've been in abit of a Padicament just now with a so called friend of mine because when i see him in College he acts as if i'm not their and i know he sees me cause he looks right at me i''m tempted to go and punch the ******* but i aint a violent person

but what should i do should i confront him or end the friendship?

He could have vision problems. Why not give him the benefit of doubt. Approach him politely and just ask if there is a problem. You are over reacting to what could be a very simple thing.

RedGlitter · Post by **RedGlitter** » Mon Sep 10, 2007 3:15 pm

Lon makes a good point about being polite. When I suggested you confront him, I should have specified politely. Not in attack mode.

Musiclover89 · Post by **Musiclover89** » Mon Sep 10, 2007 3:18 pm

RedGlitter;692831 wrote: Lon makes a good point about being polite. When I suggested you confront him, I should have specified politely. Not in attack mode.

I'm not verbally attcking him just asking why hes doing it

RedGlitter · Post by **RedGlitter** » Mon Sep 10, 2007 3:21 pm

Musiclover89;692835 wrote: I'm not verbally attcking him just asking why hes doing it

Right ML. I didn't mean to suggest you would attack him, was just trying to clarify the (maybe bad) advice I offered.

watermark · Post by **watermark** » Mon Sep 10, 2007 7:45 pm

I never could in my life figure out how people can ignore others, whether they hate them or not. How does someone do this type of interaction? A total refusal to acknowledge another's presence. Weird behavior. Only thing I can say is ask him if he has neurological problems including vision, or if he's got a st*** up his a**. Then I'd recommend you do what the others have said and move on. He's not worth your time.

Erin

sunny104 · Post by **sunny104** » Tue Sep 11, 2007 6:59 am

oh well, ignore him too then!

his loss! :-6

YZGI · Post by **YZGI** » Tue Sep 11, 2007 8:40 am

Here is what you do ML. Don't say anything, if he keeps ignoring you walk straight up to him and give him a huge hug in front of everyone and say "Thanks for last night" then walk off. You will soon find out if he is a friend.

Indian Princess · Post by **Indian Princess** » Tue Sep 18, 2007 8:02 pm

I agree with Lon on this, ask him face to face , you will know by his expression if it is a true friend(doesnt sound like it) or not. Dont let him see that it bothers you though. Good luck,keep us posted