Kinda Depressed

xalisonx · Post by **xalisonx** » Tue May 22, 2007 7:27 am

Do not apologise, this is not your fault and you are allowed to grieve, i too have been in this situation, and though i often blame myself as i was 2 months gone before i knew i was pregnant, and during this time i was out clubbing, so when it happened when i was 3 months gone i can only think of this as the cause. :-1 I know deep down it isnt my fault as i didnt know, but there is still a certain amount of guilt involved

Have you had any counselling for this? As i feel that it helps to talk to people.

Im sorry for your loss

*hugs*

xx

WonderWendy3 · Post by **WonderWendy3** » Tue May 22, 2007 7:32 am

Sending hugs and love to you Susie, I feel your pain sweetheart!:-4 :-4

I live about 45 minutes from Mason's grave and I don't go there as much as I know I probably should. I know he's not there....:yh_angel

sunny104 · Post by **sunny104** » Tue May 22, 2007 7:39 am

:yh_hugs Susie :yh_hugs

zinkyusa · Post by **zinkyusa** » Tue May 22, 2007 7:40 am

:yh_hugs

Imladris · Post by **Imladris** » Tue May 22, 2007 7:41 am

You'll always wonder what if, you wouldn't be normal if you didn't.

I lost my daughter's twin very early in the pregnancy and on her birthday I often wonder what it would have been like to have two children instead of one. I don't even know what sex that other baby was.

but you can drive yourself mad wondering if you should have done anything differently, some things just aren't meant to be.

A big hug is on its way to you, all of you.:-4

neffy · Post by **neffy** » Tue May 22, 2007 7:48 am

my love and toughts go to you at this sad time.

My daughter shelley was one of a twin,which sadly i lost while i was 3 and half mth preganant,every birthday i look at shelley and i am always thinking would the other one would of been like.

God bless xx

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Tue May 22, 2007 8:27 am

hey what type of person would you be if you could lose a child and not grieve on their birthday ,on natasha's birthday i cry all day and on the day she died ,actually i cry for the whole 3 days she was alive ,i also shed a tear or two at christmas and always put a decoration up for her :-6 :-6

suilunguk · Post by **suilunguk** » Tue May 22, 2007 8:54 am

I dont think you are looking for sympathy. I think you just need the support of a group of people who care, at this heartbreaking time. Well here we are for you. I send my love to you and your family.

Take care.

Clairex

mominiowa · Post by **mominiowa** » Tue May 22, 2007 10:46 am

~BIG HUGS!!!~ Loosing someone doesn't always make us stronger..and to grieve is the natural thing...It doesn't make us feel any weaker, any safer, or any more secure..but after you cry - you know you will always get back up and move forward....Any person, who has lost a child, in utero or after being born....is the STRONGEST people I know...Amen!

Know I will think of you now, and on June 5th...:yh_hugs

cars · Post by **cars** » Tue May 22, 2007 11:32 am

AngelEyes82;618924 wrote: Thanks everyone..

Hugs back.

I know it wasn't meant to be- I don't know why but I've somewhat accepted it after talking to my pastor about why GOD took my son away from me.

Maybe God knew that you were just not ready "8" years ago to be a mom, so . . . . . . . .

Looking back can many times be very painful for us, that's why we need to try to always keep looking forward as much as possible. Many Hugs for you, today, & especially on June 5th!

littlemissgiggle · Post by **littlemissgiggle** » Tue May 22, 2007 12:48 pm

:yh_hugs

Pheasy · Post by **Pheasy** » Tue May 22, 2007 5:17 pm

:-4 :-4 AngelEyes