She likes the same guy...

genxrev · Post by **genxrev** » Wed Apr 25, 2007 4:54 pm

What do you think about your best friend liking the guy you like.....how does someone deal with that, pretend like you do not have any feelings for the guy or what....

genxrev · Post by **genxrev** » Wed Apr 25, 2007 5:07 pm

That's how i respond too....and that was my first thought....but the thing is i realy like him

Patsy Warnick · Post by **Patsy Warnick** » Wed Apr 25, 2007 5:27 pm

genx

Did your friend tell you she's interested in the same guy? How long has this been going on?

Who does this guy seem to like? Anymore attention then the other?

Patsy

genxrev · Post by **genxrev** » Wed Apr 25, 2007 5:33 pm

He seems to like me more than me...but like i said i really do not want to hurt my friend either...

genxrev · Post by **genxrev** » Wed Apr 25, 2007 5:34 pm

more than her....sorry

Patsy Warnick · Post by **Patsy Warnick** » Wed Apr 25, 2007 5:44 pm

Genx

Are you spending alot of time with this guy ? or is it like a group of you just hang out with eachother?

Does your friend know you two like the same guy? Have you talked at all?

reason for questions

I think I'd watch / observe, maybe try to spend sometime around this guy, before ruining a friendship ?? Maybe this guy is toying with both of you - after all its his ego - so make sure he's worth a uncomfortable conversation/argument..??

Patsy

Indian Princess · Post by **Indian Princess** » Fri Apr 27, 2007 11:07 am

Be honest, and remember no man is worth a friendship, well most men, because there will always be that one that shines.

Patsy nice to see ya back.:-6

laneybug · Post by **laneybug** » Mon Apr 30, 2007 11:18 am

magenta flame;599940 wrote: Ummm has anybody noticed that gen is a guy?

Just noticed. Surprised no one else is picking it up.

No offense gen.... perhaps the "male" response in your profile was a mistake. But if you are a male and you like a guy that your friend likes, and your friend is a she, well, that does make it quite a different matter altogether. So, I think we should have this little thing cleared up before going on with more advice. 'Cause if you really are a guy and the man in question isn't gay, well, there's the answer right there. But, like I said, the profile thing could be a mistake!!