For Men - Do Men Reflect Back on Past Relationships?

Patsy Warnick · Post by **Patsy Warnick** » Thu Mar 22, 2007 3:59 pm

Do Men reflect back on past relationships? Naturally woman reflect back, talk and laugh with others about relationships - Do Men? Are there relationships you wished you'd kept?

Curious?

Patsy

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Thu Mar 22, 2007 4:17 pm

yup i do what an ass i've been how better off they will be without me

oh no thats this one ........... nah they dont :wah: :wah:

Patsy Warnick · Post by **Patsy Warnick** » Thu Mar 22, 2007 4:21 pm

Pink

Usually men don't allow themselves to do so - they're busy with a car - sport etc.

I can hear a certain song & that will remind me of a certain someone.

I talk to my sister & laugh about a boyfriend I had - and wonder what hes up to today etc. Do men?

Patsy

koan · Post by **koan** » Thu Mar 22, 2007 4:42 pm

I'd have to say that they do.

I've heard it.

Spouses don't like to hear about former girlfriends or boyfriends so it's not usually a big topic of discussion. If you are wondering if they talk about exes with their male friends well... isn't that one of the big things they are stereotyped for? Bragging about all the women they've had?

edge2125 · Post by **edge2125** » Thu Mar 22, 2007 4:44 pm

I think it just depends on the person. I think about my past relationships, very often at times, Not so much other times.

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Thu Mar 22, 2007 5:01 pm

i guess the only that will post on here will be the single ones , i for one never ever think about ex girlfriends and every day count my blessings how lucky i am to be with suzy

weeder · Post by **weeder** » Thu Mar 22, 2007 5:10 pm

Ive always wondered if they remember, the way we do also.

Ive often thought, if Im thinking about you, or if Ive dreamed about you, were you thinking of me too?

RedGlitter · Post by **RedGlitter** » Thu Mar 22, 2007 5:34 pm

what the hell just transpired? :-3

Tater Tazz · Post by **Tater Tazz** » Thu Mar 22, 2007 5:38 pm

I have alot of friends that are men, they do talk about things. Oh yeah, most of my friends are men.

They do have feelings just like women, there hearts can be broken by women, just like ours.

Lon · Post by **Lon** » Thu Mar 22, 2007 5:56 pm

I think it depends on the male. I had quite a few relationships between first and second wives and seldom if ever do I reflect back on those relationships.

Shweet tatersalad · Post by **Shweet tatersalad** » Thu Mar 22, 2007 8:37 pm

Nope,if it's over it's over.

Whats the first thing a man does after he dumps his girlfriend?

wipes his a$$ and moves on.

Delilah · Post by **Delilah** » Sat Mar 24, 2007 9:20 am

Shweet tatersalad;581395 wrote: Nope,if it's over it's over.

Whats the first thing a man does after he dumps his girlfriend?

wipes his a$$ and moves on.

Well that's very enchanting taters, thanks for the englightenment. :wah:

koan · Post by **koan** » Sat Mar 24, 2007 9:33 am

Shweet tatersalad;581395 wrote:

Whats the first thing a man does after he dumps his girlfriend?

wipes his a$$ and moves on.

I'm afraid to ask what she was doing to your ass that required wiping afterwards.

Shweet tatersalad · Post by **Shweet tatersalad** » Sat Mar 24, 2007 10:36 am

koan;582128 wrote: I'm afraid to ask what she was doing to your ass that required wiping afterwards.

I ate all my ex's.

Shweet tatersalad · Post by **Shweet tatersalad** » Mon Mar 26, 2007 10:29 am

Pinky;582163 wrote: And they're still your exes? :wah:

Sorry, couldn't resist a rude one there!

They seem too pile up.

WonderWendy3 · Post by **WonderWendy3** » Mon Mar 26, 2007 10:43 am

Patsy, I personally think it's the individual. I was married to a man that forbid me to talk about previous relationships and I wasn't even allowed to mention the town I grew up in because I had boyfriends there (2 hours away from where we lived while married) I have a boyfriend now that will listen to me talk about my past experiences...and not get upset, and I listen to him tell me about his past girlfriends and all is fine.

minks · Post by **minks** » Mon Mar 26, 2007 10:52 am

I bet lots depends on the past relationships too....

I know a few men who look back on their past relations but with very un-favorable thoughts, so is that reflection of sorts?

Hah shall I ask my ex this question since he has been hinting to the fact he may have made a mistake divorcing me ahahahahahahahahahaha:wah: :-5

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Mon Mar 26, 2007 1:55 pm

And How !

Memories,

Like the corners of my mind

Misty water-colored memories

Of the way we were

Scattered pictures,

Of the smiles we left behind

Smiles we gave to one another

For the way we were

Can it be that it was all so simple then?

Or has time re-written every line?

If we had the chance to do it all again

Tell me, would we? could we?..............................etc etc

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Mon Mar 26, 2007 3:16 pm

most men think of the ex women in their lives like hurricanes ,when they first arrive they are fresh and wet and wild , when they leave they take your house and car with them :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

Patsy Warnick · Post by **Patsy Warnick** » Mon Mar 26, 2007 8:22 pm

This is a individual thing - from time to time something will provoke one to mention a certain someone from the past.

Wendy - to be stifled from mentioning the past is controlling - insecure. Sorry to hear - perhaps that control issue had something to do with divorcing him.

We learn from our past - whether it be a relationship or situation.

Patsy

WonderWendy3 · Post by **WonderWendy3** » Tue Mar 27, 2007 8:41 am

Patsy Warnick;583444 wrote: This is a individual thing - from time to time something will provoke one to mention a certain someone from the past.

Wendy - to be stifled from mentioning the past is controlling - insecure. Sorry to hear - perhaps that control issue had something to do with divorcing him.

We learn from our past - whether it be a relationship or situation.

Patsy

I agree, once again Patsy...

Life is a big School-house!!:-6

jpcme · Post by **jpcme** » Wed Mar 28, 2007 7:34 am

Look back on a couple of relationships occasionally but mostly can't even remember their names. No reflection on them just my bad memory.