To Tombstone and all who it may concern

SuzyB · Post by **SuzyB** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 7:52 am

I think the problem is people just don't seem to let things go.

But i'm all for a happy garden :-6

Red · Post by **Red** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 7:58 am

I think its unrealistic to think it will be harmonious all of the time, that's life people will have differing opinions and not always agree but that's what makes it so interesting.

The trick is not to let it get out of hand and just accept that were all very different and just enjoy our garden.

:-6 :-6 :-6

Rapunzel · Post by **Rapunzel** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 7:59 am

jesse b;559385 wrote: complement thread witch

Did she look anything like this?

"Hello. Your hair looks very nice today."

Sorry. Just kidding. Couldn't resist.

SuzyB · Post by **SuzyB** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 8:03 am

jesse b;559399 wrote: i agree but name calling and take the p*ss out of members is not funny

should be more respect to all

You just have to ignore them Jess, and if you feel strongly report it. Everyone is guilty of not being respectful at all times, thats life.

SuzyB · Post by **SuzyB** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 8:07 am

jesse b;559407 wrote: ok when was the last time you swore at another member

i cant think of one time

ya can disagree with out being rude

No, I haven't, but if I was in your position I would report it or PM them.

Accountable · Post by **Accountable** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 8:14 am

jesse b;559407 wrote: ok when was the last time you swore at another member

i cant think of one time

ya can disagree with out being rude
Rude like adding the word pervert to a poster's comment?

I completely missed the MJ threads because he doesn't interest me, and I'll let those with strong views toward him post without me, but this thread prompted me to go back in your previous posts to see what you're on about.

All I saw were pots and kettles.

Accountable · Post by **Accountable** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 8:33 am

jesse b;559424 wrote: was under her post clear that i had added that word

and this pot did not tell that kettle to f**k off

she asked for veiws and didnt like em so lets all start to call names
She took offense at your comment. You took offense at her comment. Whose comment came first?

Probably too late this time, but next time maybe you could look at why she overreacted and apologize for your part. Maybe she would do the same, maybe not, but you can control your input.

Or maybe, just maybe, you can remember what happened the last time you felt insulted, and will hold off making someone else feel the same way. How about that?

fisher · Post by **fisher** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 8:37 am

I agree with you jesse. Just because a member does not agree with another members opinion, it does not give them the right to call them ignorant. This place is just for fun, not for pissing off other members.

I know this has been going on for quite sometime now and I have stayed away from all that BS.This time I was dragged in because I posted a harmless Joke. What's up with that?I am a easy going person but when kicked I will kick back.

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 8:43 am

fisher;559453 wrote: I agree with you jesse. Just because a member does not agree with another members opinion, it does not give them the right to call them ignorant. This place is just for fun, not for pissing off other members.

I know this has been going on for quite sometime now and I have stayed away from all that BS.This time I was dragged in because I posted a harmless Joke. What's up with that?I am a easy going person but when kicked I will kick back.

the voice of reason :-6 :-6

Accountable · Post by **Accountable** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 9:16 am

jesse b;559456 wrote: my friend you miss the point we can disagree without using personal insults my comment was about mj not her she made remark about me

no respect no one said mj is not great singer but out side music he has problems
Whatever. Just next time take it to the person in PM instead of trying to open public court, okay?

pantsonfire321@aol.com · Sun Feb 25, 2007 9:18 am

If anyone really cared about this forum they would wonder why there are 30 odd members posting over at another forum .

Patsy Warnick · Post by **Patsy Warnick** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 9:20 am

Jesse

I didn't realize you were insulted by another member. Unfortunately some strike out at another without any care for others. Can you imagine what they're like in person?? Having to live next door or work with that attitude..

As you and I both know life is too short to tolerate this type of attitude.

Put them on your ignore list. The internet connects you with all walks of life - I find the internet facinating to be able to chat with you and everyone from all over the world - thats cool. I enjoy other opinions and that makes you look outside the box - another perspective and thats cool.

Shake it off - your stronger & better than moving on.

Patsy

Peg · Post by **Peg** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 9:23 am

Accountable;559488 wrote: Whatever. Just next time take it to the person in PM instead of trying to open public court, okay?

Does this go for the spelling and grammar police too?

Peg · Post by **Peg** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 9:25 am

pantsonfire321@aol.com;559491 wrote: If anyone really cared about this forum they would wonder why there are 30 odd members posting over at another forum .

Funny. I just pm'd TS a few days ago and asked why it is that so many people are deleting their accounts. Of course, I still haven't gotten an answer.

Accountable · Post by **Accountable** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 9:33 am

Peg;559496 wrote: Does this go for the spelling and grammar police too?

No. The spelling & grammar police need to turn in their badges and find more meaningful jobs.

My reaction was based solely on this thread that Jesse started, going no farther back into his past posts than I thought absolutely necessary, and the fact that he's done these threads before.

Threads started to complain to the world about being a victim irritate me. Sorry for not improving the situation.

Out.

BH672 · Post by **BH672** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 9:36 am

Being new here, I'm only learning who knows who and who doesn't get along with who, not that I focus on those things. It seems to me that online activities, discussions, etc. shouldn't be a substitute for our real life interests. When you come online, be bulletproof. It's all pretend.

:)

Patsy Warnick · Post by **Patsy Warnick** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 10:35 am

Wow - that was bad !!

Not open court? - Accountable - Loz - opened the court.

How ugly

Patsy

P.S. - I hate Michael Jackson - he is a pervert

weeder · Post by **weeder** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 10:46 am

jesse... The behaviors that hurt you, or that you find offensive, will never be completely gone from here. There are those personalities who because they feel like nothing in real life... belittle, intimidate or insult people here. Its just life. Anyone who joined here, initially was a nobody. A few compliments, or posts of approval eventually turned them into online celebrities. A few years ago... new to this form of communicating.. there was a member here that used to make mincemeat out of me. I had never encountered such deliberate meaness. She visited FG it seems, with a daily agenda to make me look foolish. There were times that I logged off with my face burning red. I decided I wanted to learn how to play here. So, with the help of a few kind and more humble members, I was able to get better at the rules of online survival. You wont be here forever, noone will. It is a temporary life experience. Maintain your decency and your humility. Jump in the pool and play. Simply avoid the sharks.You will leave someday with a very nice shell collection. Just a few, to keep in a jar, that you will choose and save along the way.

Red · Post by **Red** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 10:49 am

weeder;559608 wrote: jesse... The behaviors that hurt you, or that you find offensive, will never be completely gone from here. There are those personalities who because they feel like nothing in real life... belittle, intimidate or insult people here. Its just life. Anyone who joined here, initially was a nobody. A few compliments, or posts of approval eventually turned them into online celebrities. A few years ago... new to this form of communicating.. there was a member here that used to make mincemeat out of me. I had never encountered such deliberate meaness. She visited FG it seems, with a daily agenda to make me look foolish. There were times that I logged off with my face burning red. I decided I wanted to learn how to play here. So, with the help of a few kind and more humble members, I was able to get better at the rules of online survival. You wont be here forever, noone will. It is a temporary life experience. Maintain your decency and your humility. Jump in the pool and play. Simply avoid the sharks.You will leave someday with a very nice shell collection. Just a few, to keep in a jar, that you will choose and save along the way.

That's awful weeder, its a sad individual who makes it their mission to set out to hurt someone, seems you stuck around longer than this person good for you.

SuzyB · Post by **SuzyB** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 10:49 am

weeder;559608 wrote: jesse... The behaviors that hurt you, or that you find offensive, will never be completely gone from here. There are those personalities who because they feel like nothing in real life... belittle, intimidate or insult people here. Its just life. Anyone who joined here, initially was a nobody. A few compliments, or posts of approval eventually turned them into online celebrities. A few years ago... new to this form of communicating.. there was a member here that used to make mincemeat out of me. I had never encountered such deliberate meaness. She visited FG it seems, with a daily agenda to make me look foolish. There were times that I logged off with my face burning red. I decided I wanted to learn how to play here. So, with the help of a few kind and more humble members, I was able to get better at the rules of online survival. You wont be here forever, noone will. It is a temporary life experience. Maintain your decency and your humility. Jump in the pool and play. Simply avoid the sharks.You will leave someday with a very nice shell collection. Just a few, to keep in a jar, that you will choose and save along the way.

:yh_hugs :yh_hugs :yh_worshp :yh_worshp

Rosette · Post by **Rosette** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 10:53 am

Well this had been my first weekend here...and I have to say its another day of some sort of bad feeling...I come online to have fun and a banter with some online buddies not to read all this bad feeling...... I even read yesterday a post someone posted (cant remember who it was) complaining about all the new members!!

I don't think its all that difficult all of us being friends and having some fun...isn't that what online communities are for!

Post by **spot** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 10:56 am

pantsonfire321@aol.com;559491 wrote: If anyone really cared about this forum they would wonder why there are 30 odd members posting over at another forum .Isn't it reasonable that membership of boards should overlap? I note that some of us are moderators elsewhere, we contribute where we can. You're a member on at least four boards yourself, pants, I'm sure you vary the amount of time you spend on each depending on what interests you at any given moment. You still care enough about ForumGarden to continue posting here. That's healthy enough, surely.

RedGlitter · Post by **RedGlitter** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 11:00 am

Peg;559496 wrote: Does this go for the spelling and grammar police too?

Peg.... :-6

weeder · Post by **weeder** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 11:04 am

Rosette;559615 wrote: Well this had been my first weekend here...and I have to say its another day of some sort of bad feeling...I come online to have fun and a banter with some online buddies not to read all this bad feeling...... I even read yesterday a post someone posted (cant remember who it was) complaining about all the new members!!

I don't think its all that difficult all of us being friends and having some fun...isn't that what online communities are for!

Rosette, You have to laugh... No?? The world, as Im sure you know, is filled with all kinds of people. Ive always been very social. My own mother hates almost everyone. Dont let the negative get you down, Concentrate on the positive. ( I wish I could put musical notes here... I think Jiminey Cricket sang that song in Pinocchio"

Accountable · Post by **Accountable** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 11:06 am

Patsy Warnick;559596 wrote: Wow - that was bad !!

Not open court? - Accountable - Loz - opened the court.

How ugly

Patsy

P.S. - I hate Michael Jackson - he is a pervert
In what way? She was rude. Absolutely undeniable. But how is that "opening the court" in the context I used? She didn't start a new thread to draw additional attention to herself or her plight from others who might never have known otherwise.

Rosette · Post by **Rosette** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 11:18 am

weeder;559630 wrote: Rosette, You have to laugh... No?? The world, as Im sure you know, is filled with all kinds of people. Ive always been very social. My own mother hates almost everyone. Dont let the negative get you down, Concentrate on the positive. ( I wish I could put musical notes here... I think Jiminey Cricket sang that song in Pinocchio"

LMFAO!!!!! your right

if your having crap in real life its abit rubbish to come online and read it here too...yes but ur right I need to rise above all this negativitiy

*plays dont worry be happy*

Patsy Warnick · Post by **Patsy Warnick** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 11:22 am

Accountable

You suggested the Jesse PM his concerns and not to make a open court.

Yet LOZ states FU as his ugly opinion - that was in open court

Loz has a statement he should've PM. Better yet no comment all from LOZ would've been great. Same for calling a opinion ignorant -

Patsy

Accountable · Post by **Accountable** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 11:24 am

Patsy Warnick;559654 wrote: Accountable

You suggested the Jesse PM his concerns and not to make a open court.

Yet LOZ states FU as his ugly opinion - that was in open court

Loz has a statement he should've PM. Better yet no comment all from LOZ would've been great. Same for calling a opinion ignorant -

Patsy
When you're ready to address the point I was making rather than the fight I wasn't addressing, PM me.

abbey · Post by **abbey** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 12:27 pm

pantsonfire321@aol.com;559491 wrote: If anyone really cared about this forum they would wonder why there are 30 odd members posting over at another forum . Yes, so you keep telling us. :rolleyes:

abbey · Post by **abbey** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 12:31 pm

Jesse, i love reading your posts and i hope you know that i despise the way some members have treated you.

But i feel that your initial post should have been emailed to tombstone and not posted on an open forum.

WonderWendy3 · Post by **WonderWendy3** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 12:38 pm

weeder;559608 wrote: jesse... The behaviors that hurt you, or that you find offensive, will never be completely gone from here. There are those personalities who because they feel like nothing in real life... belittle, intimidate or insult people here. Its just life. Anyone who joined here, initially was a nobody. A few compliments, or posts of approval eventually turned them into online celebrities. A few years ago... new to this form of communicating.. there was a member here that used to make mincemeat out of me. I had never encountered such deliberate meaness. She visited FG it seems, with a daily agenda to make me look foolish. There were times that I logged off with my face burning red. I decided I wanted to learn how to play here. So, with the help of a few kind and more humble members, I was able to get better at the rules of online survival. You wont be here forever, noone will. It is a temporary life experience. Maintain your decency and your humility. Jump in the pool and play. Simply avoid the sharks.You will leave someday with a very nice shell collection. Just a few, to keep in a jar, that you will choose and save along the way.

Once again, An awesome post by Weeder!:yh_worshp :yh_clap :yh_love

Imladris · Post by **Imladris** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 12:42 pm

WonderWendy3;559756 wrote: Once again, An awesome post by Weeder!:yh_worshp :yh_clap

Yeah, she is a bit clever and reasonable, don't you just hate her:wah: :wah:

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 12:45 pm

Imladris;559764 wrote: Yeah, she is a bit clever and reasonable, don't you just hate her:wah: :wah:

koan · Post by **koan** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 1:10 pm

Hey y'all. What's up?

Did someone get mad again?

Count to ten.

Start ten threads that make you happy and all will be well again.

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 1:14 pm

Imladris;559764 wrote: Yeah, she is a bit clever and reasonable, don't you just hate her:wah: :wah:

Tater Tazz · Post by **Tater Tazz** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 2:12 pm

jesse, do not let them get to you, it's okay if you spell stuff wrong. Not everyone is perfect, except for jimbo! If they start to get to you go to another thread. that's what I do.

Tater Tazz · Post by **Tater Tazz** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 2:23 pm

But at least you tried. I will give you credit for that.

SuzyB · Post by **SuzyB** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 2:24 pm

jesse b;559958 wrote: i started this thread to try any get all members to respect each other more

feel i have failed

A thread wont do that Jess