hello everyone please help me

Bill Sikes · Post by **Bill Sikes** » Mon Nov 29, 2004 2:09 am

tonyskitten wrote: I recently got engaged to a wonderful man :-4 but he is going to be away for a wile and i need money he said i could sell his sport cards at a store and get alot of money for them (he has a hole lot) but i live in madras oregon and i need to find a store someware around here i know there are some in portland but i cant seem to find them can anyone help me? the kind of cards he has are basketball and stuff like that thank you

www.ebay.com

www.google.com - search for whatever it is you have and follow up links.

Paula · Post by **Paula** » Mon Nov 29, 2004 7:19 am

Yes, E-BAY, and is there any other help you may be looking for? Your message sounds like something else is going on...is this a same sex relationship? & if you need money, how about getting a job? sounds mysterious???

A Karenina · Post by **A Karenina** » Mon Nov 29, 2004 9:07 am

Try this - although isn't Bend closer to you?

Paula · Post by **Paula** » Fri Dec 03, 2004 7:30 pm

i realized that, sorry for my calculations as being incorrect. hope all is well, you are missing some-one?

asking for help means you need a hug?

Paula · Post by **Paula** » Fri Dec 03, 2004 7:42 pm

you have computer, you stated he is not coming back for awhile, you need to accept the situation and work it out..things get better, (time heals all.)

lady cop · Post by **lady cop** » Sat Dec 04, 2004 12:21 pm

tonyskitten wrote: well i am missing my fiance he got into loads of truble and is in jail right now and probaly wont be out for a couple of years. id rather not say what he did wrong. but he was the one providing the money he had ssi and i was looking for a job for a little more money but no one is hireing and i dont drive lol. but it just going to take some time to get used to him not being here and he will be able to make home visits soon i hope.
when i read your first post i suspected you were very young and that someone was in jail. this is not my business, but you did come to the board with your problem, so this is well-intended advice...don't put your faith in someone in jail, regardless of why. people do not spend more than one year in jail if they are convicted of a misdemeanor, so if you expect two years incarceration it sounds like prison. and a felony. people in prison have one goal...get others to send them money for canteen. it's the "con" in convict. this may not be what you want to hear, but you need to get on with your life, especially if you are as young as i suspect. convict love is a waste of time unless you are invested in husband and have kids, and expect him out to be productive citizen. you need to be honest with yourself about what future there is with him, and look hard at whatever he was convicted of. what it says about him. you don't want to mention his charges, that shows an element of shame in what he's done. you're not proud of this "wonderful" man. work on your own self-esteem, find work, the sports card thing is not exactly going to provide security. stop finding excuses and find a job. someone is hiring, even supermarkets and fast food joints. network. you have friends? family? i am sorry if this sounded hard, but trust me when i say what you have described is one-way to nowhere. best of luck to you!

.....(just curious, how is he able to make "home visits"? i've never heard of that.) please think of this~~ this guy CANNOT TAKE CARE OF YOU., he cannot even take care of himself. i am being strong in my words here hoping you take an honest inventory and save yourself.

cars · Post by **cars** » Sat Dec 04, 2004 2:43 pm

tonyskitten wrote: well i am missing my fiance he got into loads of truble and is in jail right now and probaly wont be out for a couple of years. id rather not say what he did wrong. but he was the one providing the money he had ssi and i was looking for a job for a little more money but no one is hireing and i dont drive lol. but it just going to take some time to get used to him not being here and he will be able to make home visits soon i hope.

tonyskitten, did you get a "ring" with this engagement? From what you have written, you do appear to be very young, and innocent. Don't you have any relatives, Mother, Father, Aunts, Uncles that can help and or advise/guide you? You said "Engaged to a wounderful Man", actually a wounderful man would not be in prison! And you would not be getting into the position you are making yourself in! Sorry to be so hard nosed about this, but unfortunately I have known two people that went to prison, and when they came out they were still getting into trouble. If I were acting as your Uncle, I would tell you: Please get advise/guidance from someone older, like local clergy, teachers, friends. You owe it to yourself!!!

Peg · Post by **Peg** » Sat Dec 04, 2004 3:54 pm

You've gotten some excellent advice here. Think about it. Think with your head and not with your heart. Good luck to you.

cars · Post by **cars** » Sun Dec 05, 2004 5:55 am

Paula wrote: Yes, E-BAY, and is there any other help you may be looking for? Your message sounds like something else is going on...is this a same sex relationship? & if you need money, how about getting a job? sounds mysterious???

Could not help but notice, your "rent" must be quite reasonable! :wah:

Is there a message in there somewhere? :-2