Hello from LT

Littletenderness · Post by **Littletenderness** » Sat Aug 30, 2008 2:45 pm

Hi everyone, I found this place whilst looking for a forum for bereaved parents.

I did actually answer a post before I realised that I should have posted here.

I prefer not to give my name, just call me LT if you want.

Hoping maybe I might find somebody here who can empathise with the pain due to the killing of your child. :-1

Post by **Betty Boop** » Sat Aug 30, 2008 2:52 pm

Hello LT, sorry about your loss and welcome to the garden. :yh_hugs

Post by **spot** » Sat Aug 30, 2008 2:52 pm

Hi LT. Those are the most terrible circumstances to deal with. Some of us are good at listening, give it a try, I hope we can help. Welcome to the forum.

CARLA · Post by **CARLA** » Sat Aug 30, 2008 3:00 pm

Welcome LT I haven't experienced your pain but we are here for you if you wish to share with us.

I can't imagine your anguish and pain.

abbey · Post by **abbey** » Sat Aug 30, 2008 3:08 pm

Welcome LT. :-6

No one should have to suffer the loss of a child, I'm so sorry for your loss.

I hope you find some comfort here in the garden. :yh_flower

Littletenderness · Post by **Littletenderness** » Sat Aug 30, 2008 3:41 pm

Thankyou to all of you for the welcome. There are no handbooks to explain or guide you through the nightmare that comes with the loss of the most precious thing in your life. I have known grief throughout my life with the loss of grandparents and parents, then my own brother, all tore me to pieces but I fought my way through with the love of my husband two boys and our beloved daughter. She worked for a Lawyer, was 23yrs old and the kindest person I have ever met, I'm so proud of her. She was driving to pick up friends one evening, when a Drunk and Drugged driver smashed into her car,drivers side at 90mph Poor darling,she had the G-force of 7,000 tons of metal straight into her.

I live daily with these images and can't get rid of them...just wanted to talk to someone who might know how I feel.

ButterflyPrincess · Post by **ButterflyPrincess** » Sat Aug 30, 2008 5:23 pm

Hi LT - sorry for your loss and I am glad you've found us!

there are a lot of wonderful members here to help you out!:)

Peg · Post by **Peg** » Sat Aug 30, 2008 6:22 pm

Hi LT and welcome to the garden. :-6 I can only imagine how terrible the pain in your heart must be. I hope you can find some kind of peace. :-4

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Sat Aug 30, 2008 7:28 pm

HI Hun, I can only imagine what you have been through, any death takes time, but that of a loved one will take much much longer, were a great bunch here and always willing to listen!

I lost my dad at age 13, I was in shock for over a month, that was 43 years ago, not a day goes by when I don't think about him, and visiting his graveside and just talking to him really helps.

Have you seen anyone professionally?..........I did, and it really helped me.

and welcome to our forum!

:yh_flower

kayleneaussie · Post by **kayleneaussie** » Sat Aug 30, 2008 8:31 pm

Welcome to ForumGarden :yh_hugs

WonderWendy3 · Post by **WonderWendy3** » Sat Aug 30, 2008 9:59 pm

Welcome LT, and I am also so very sorry for your loss:-1 There are many people here that are compassionate and caring and great listeners and give great advice. We have a member named Jimbo that has been through a lot of pain in his lifetime and he has been a major blessing to many of us.

You are welcomed here with open arms and please feel free to vent and let out how you feel. We have a bereaved parents forum that you are more than welcome to post in and we can come and help you in any way we can.

Sending a cyber hug from one mom to another!:-4:-4

shelbell · Post by **shelbell** » Sat Aug 30, 2008 11:59 pm

Hi LT, I'm so sorry for your loss. As many people have said here, there are many great people here, and if you don't want to talk to someone in the open on a thread, you can always Private Message them. I'm glad you're here and I hope we can help.

shelbell · Post by **shelbell** » Sun Aug 31, 2008 12:06 am

WonderWendy3;968266 wrote: Welcome LT, and I am also so very sorry for your loss:-1 There are many people here that are compassionate and caring and great listeners and give great advice. We have a member named Jimbo that has been through a lot of pain in his lifetime and he has been a major blessing to many of us.

You are welcomed here with open arms and please feel free to vent and let out how you feel. We have a bereaved parents forum that you are more than welcome to post in and we can come and help you in any way we can.

Sending a cyber hug from one mom to another!:-4:-4

I've already sent Jimbo a PM to have him look at this and see if he can help. If anyone can help Jimbo can.

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Sun Aug 31, 2008 8:30 am

I imagine your heart gets ripped out a hundred times a day.

Carolly · Post by **Carolly** » Sun Aug 31, 2008 8:40 am

Hi and a warm welcome..........Listen to Jim sweetheart as he has walked in your shoes and feels your pain.Im sure you can both help each other.

along-for-the-ride · Post by **along-for-the-ride** » Sun Aug 31, 2008 11:35 am

Welcome, LT. I am so sorry for your loss. Feel free to grieve here. Feel free to just chat here. We will listen.

Here is a welcome mat for you.

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