shelbell;954824 wrote: My hubby has me so frustrated, angry and sad. I don't know if I should cry or throw all of his crap in the driveway.:-5
southern yankee;954840 wrote: i don't know why that is the ones we love the most can make us sooo mad!! plus when they upset us it hurts worse then if anyone else would do it. sorry for your pain.
shelbell;954852 wrote: Thanks SY, You are so right in what you say, unfortunately.
southern yankee;954856 wrote: would a baseball bat help?? I know this is not a laughing matter. but maybe give a good BEATING to a pillow or stuffed animal. Helps me.
shelbell;954860 wrote: I used to be a big time softball player, so I have lots of bats. I wouldn't be able to beat my stuffed animals...they're too cute. My pillows took a long time to find and I love them. If I picked up a bat it would be too tempting. grrrrrrrrrr.
southern yankee;954862 wrote: compleatly understand. men can be real rear ends
shelbell;955399 wrote: Not only that, they can be real a$$es too!
southern yankee;955459 wrote: yep, mine. holds all his problems inside until he BLOWS like a BOMB. Not a pretty sight either.
shelbell;955461 wrote: Actually, what you described is what I do...and I'm over-do for an erruption! Hubby is the one that over talks everything and is an expert at throwing hissy fits. He just drags stuff out for so long, he really starts to hurt me very deeply.
southern yankee;955463 wrote: yes i know dear. mine will go on and on. also he is professional BUTTON PUSHER. he knows where to put the knife and which way to turn it. But i really don't say to much while he is sounding off. i go at him the next morning. which is not good because i STEW all night. But the old saying is true. You can't live with them. and you can't live without them. Sucks don't it?
shelbell;955466 wrote: Mine can't just let anything go. When he starts going off, I go back at him, but he gets so repetative that I just block him out. Then it stews until I just go off on everybody around me, about everything that has me p*ssed off. Yeah, it does suck.
southern yankee;955468 wrote: so you have repeater too. he say his spew. then say" that's all i have say about it." I TRY to let it go and i will be darn it isn't 10 minutes that he brings it up again with more ANGER. I then just want to RUN AWAY!!!!!. but i knew what he was like before i married the pain. A leppard never changes his spots. but i do understand
shelbell;955469 wrote: Yeah, our girls can't stand to listen because everything is a lecture...and he'll say the same thing about 20 times. He'll follow me around the house doing the same thing. Sometimes I want to run away, and I actually did once, but I want to knock him out first.
I sent you a friends request.
flopstock;955474 wrote: That is perhaps my favorite thing about guys... if they say it over and over again, eventually I will see the wisdom of their words...
They are always so baffled when I just don't....
shelbell;955476 wrote: They just don't understand why we don't "get it" no matter how often they say it...they seem to keep forgetting that we are always right.
southern yankee;955478 wrote: yes, when i know for sure i am right. i will say "bet me and lose" GOD does that burn his BUTT, But when i know he is DEAD WRONG. I will say. "Whatever you say" that brings him to a boil too. My sister in-law has a son that is the YOUNGER twin to my hubby(by the way he talks and acts). She told me tonight she feels sorry for the sweet girl he is dating . i said my friend tells me i don't need a metal. i need a CROWN!!
southern yankee;955479 wrote: i just develop DEAF ears
shelbell;955480 wrote: Oh, how I love using the "whatever" word...he just keeps getting worse, then I throw in a "yes dear, whatever you say dear". Oooo, that really gets him beside himself. Sounds like we need to share that crown!
southern yankee;955644 wrote: i might be able to dig one up
shelbell;957110 wrote: Please do, and dig one up fast! He's driving me nuts!!
southern yankee;957111 wrote: Poor baby!! No i am not joking i know how you feel. i think the only reason i have not beat my hubby with a 2x4. is he gone for 2 weeks a month but what stones would you like in your crown????
shelbell;957114 wrote: I would like some brick stones please...I wanna throw them at him!
southern yankee;957118 wrote: a sling shot will help your aim
shelbell;957126 wrote: Just have to make it a heavy duty sling shot...those bricks are pretty heavy!
southern yankee;957142 wrote: if David can do it. so can you!!
I want to whine and complain about this thread turning into what I hate about men thread. I say change the name of the damn thread...
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