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Hello my FG friends. I am back from my trip to New York, and St. Simons Island. Thought of you all while I was away. It seemed like I was gone a very long time. I had an absolutely wonderful time. It wasnt anything fancy, but rather more of a trip of the heart. Lots of love, laughs, and great conversation with my sister, friends I havent seen in years, and my dear friends down in Georgia. I did quite a bit of reading while I was away, so I feel very caught up, and quite a bit smarter. I had quiet time to reflect, and I wrote some notes to people who have been on my mind for a very long time. My sister lives in a house in a little hamlet, on Long Island in New York. The place reminded me of England... absolutely beautiful. The weather on the island was perfect. Not nearly as hot or humid as it usually is in July and August. Having been as far north as New York, and as low as the Golden Isles... I will give you the economic report for our country in these places.

Everyone is suffering. The main topics of conversation are gas prices, and grocery prices. My friends in New York are living to pay huge oil bills to keep warm, and on the islands which are home to many of our countries very wealthy, businesses are suffering, and closing. Over and over again, the conversation comes up regarding the need for Americans to learn to live with much less, and how we had better start learning how to adapt in preperation for hard times that seriously seem to be coming.

Im not afraid of life being hard. Its always been hard for me. And I view the changes in our economy more like an adventure, than a hardship. I think that the experience could join people together, as classes cease to be seperated by income. People who would ordinarily have had nothing to do with each other will be forced to have the opportunity to discover strengths in other human beings. It is kind of exciting. Life could zoom back to the 60's,

and maybe we would all join together for the common good.

As you can tell, right now I am in a very good frame of mind. I think my brain and my body had a rest, and renewed itself.

Aside from fun with friends, a valuable discovery was my sister. She is 10 years younger than me. Has a very different life than mine. We have never been close. Not at odds, but not close. I hadnt seen her in 3 years.

I always called her " My baby sister"

I only spent one afternoon, and one night with her. We had a million laughs.

We were sitting in her beautiful backyard at dusk. There was a moment when the light hit her face, and I saw that she had aged. I could see the crinkles around the corners of her eyes, and a new slight slackness in her face. Not in a bad way, just the course of time. My heart broke in a million pieces. I didnt want to leave her the following morning. I wanted just one more day. I have missed her everyday since leaving. I want to see her reguarly, and to try to cultivate with her, the closeness I have had with many of my women friends. There is afterall, nothing like family. So special, and so often left for last.

So, thank you God for such a wonderful, and enlightening trip. Thank you for safe flights( in those teeny tiny planes ) And thank you to me for using the money I should have saved for winter.... to have a small incredible, very valuable, little adventure instead. The love I came home with is priceless.

Ill use it a little bit at a time, to lift me up, when I need it, until its gone. And then Ill find a way, to go get some more.

Love to all of you. I hope you have all been well. I will have to look around FG and see.

Weeder

Reporting in from Virginias beautiful Shenandoah Valley.

I am so fortunate to live here.

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That's a great tale weeder, you did wonderfully. I'm glad you went out again.

I'm not sure about it pulling everyone together, you'll still have the rich getting richer and the poor falling further behind. What you'll get is the largest bunch in the middle suddenly discovering which group they're really in.
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Good to see you, weeder. :)
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And wonderful it is to see you again :-6
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Hello Everyone,

As always.... even 4 years later, you all get mentioned wherever I go.

I am not on FG as much as I used to be, but my membership in this wonderful community continues to be a bright spot in my life, and a reference point for so many good times. My trip to England comes up ofetn, and I realize that Ive got to get back there soon, before the adventure becomes quite old.

If I do get back, I absolutely must have Spot be my personal tour guide through the London Tower, as I did before. I want to do the whole thing over again, just like a silly tourist. I dont care, I want it!!!
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You have such a wonderful way of telling us about yourself.

Its as if Im walking down the street by your side listening to you.

Im glad you had a meaningful rest.
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Thank you Brian.... Love to you. I hope your career change is all you expected it to be.........
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Believe it or not, I was just thinking of you this morning! :-6

It sounds like you had a wonderful time..

Nomad is right - I feel like I'm right there with you as you tell us all about it.

It is so good to have you back :-6:-4
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sounds like a great adventure, welcome back! :-6
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There you are we missed you. So glad you rested and had fun, fun is necessary in todays world. I laugh till I cry most days at myself mostly as for the most part I'm pretty funny and I love to hear and make people laugh. :wah::wah:

Do keep in touch with your younger sister. I have 2 I'm to oldest I couldn't get through a day without them. :-4
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Welcome Back :-6
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Post by along-for-the-ride »

Like pink chick, I was thinking about you earlier as well. I know you were traveling and visiting and I was hoping that you were enjoying yourself. I am gad you did. :)

And welcome back.:-6

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Post by G#Gill »

Welcome back Weeder ! I really enjoyed your fascinating first post here, don't loose touch with your sister ! Has she got a PC ? You could send loads of emails to each other. If she hasn't, tell her to get one hey !!! :-6 :D ;)
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