I dont know what to do.

abbey · Post by **abbey** » Thu Jan 31, 2008 12:48 pm

Once again, Thankyou for your good wishes. :-4

Patsy ((((Hugs)))

I got a shock today, a letter came for dad, to go to Christie Hospital tomorrow at 10.15 am.

The appointment is to have a PET scan, they never mentioned this at the hospital he was in

I'm so confused and so bloody scared for him and I dont even know what a cat scan is!

I'm probably scared because Christie specialises in the treatment of cancer. :-1

RedGlitter · Post by **RedGlitter** » Thu Jan 31, 2008 1:09 pm

Abbey, a CT scan is a non-invasive, painless procedure.

Here is a lot of info about it:

http://www.radiologyinfo.org/en/info.cf ... yct&bhcp=1

I'm sure you are scared, that's only understandable, but they may be looking just as a preventative measure at this point.

abbey · Post by **abbey** » Thu Jan 31, 2008 1:24 pm

Thanks Red, the scan he's going for is a PET scan, he's already had a cat scan.

Post by **Bryn Mawr** » Thu Jan 31, 2008 1:55 pm

abbey;768711 wrote: Thanks Red, the scan he's going for is a PET scan, he's already had a cat scan.

A PET scan is a way of mapping metabolic activity and can be used to isolate the site of a seizure.

Patsy Warnick · Post by **Patsy Warnick** » Fri Feb 01, 2008 12:28 am

Abbey

a Pet scan is to isolate a organ & diagnose any abnormality if any.

Pet scans are not always at your regular radiology clinic - although I'm seeing more of them, but I now know what they are, never grabbed my attention before.

Your Father will be injected with a nuclear solution, which will take some time to go thru his system then the scan procedure is done - total time @ 45 minutes to a hour.

My husband has had a few Pet Scans - he's been cancer free for a year now. YEH !

To me - it sounds as if the DR's are taking a aggressive approach to the situation here - which is good - find out what your up against, if anything.

Abbey - remember this image of a shadow/spot on the lung could very well be scar tissue from several things.

Don't jump ahead of the tests - I know you worry - I did

Don't eat everything in you refrigerator - trust me didn't work - didn't make any difference in the out come - just made my A?? wide.

You know Abbey - I've had to deal with alot and I've gotten to be more settled down - this is a phase in life. Another situation to deal with/handle, try to stay calm for your own well being and for your parents.

This is so confusing for your parents and if your rattled - they're rattled.

One Day at a Time

If I can help in anyway - please PM me if your rattled

Patsy

abbey · Post by **abbey** » Fri Feb 01, 2008 12:23 pm

Patsy Thankyou so much, it was exactly as you described, we dont know the results yet, fingers crossed eh?

It looks like he'll have to be going back into hospital to be catheterized as he's having problems peeing again.

It's been a bloody awful day all round, I banged my ear on the car door, mums front door and mums gate!

I came home feeling so depressed and there was a beautiful bouquet of flowers waiting for me, and I burst into tears at such a kind act.

(((((((Immy))))))) Thankyou :-4

Imladris · Post by **Imladris** » Fri Feb 01, 2008 12:29 pm

abbey;769332 wrote: Patsy Thankyou so much, it was exactly as you described, we dont know the results yet, fingers crossed eh?

It looks like he'll have to be going back into hospital to be catheterized as he's having problems peeing again.

It's been a bloody awful day all round, I banged my ear on the car door, mums front door and mums gate!

I came home feeling so depressed and there was a beautiful bouquet of flowers waiting for me, and I burst into tears at such a kind act.

(((((((Immy))))))) Thankyou :-4

They weren't supposed to make you cry you doughnut!!!!!!

You're welcome though and I hope things improve for you all.:-4

abbey · Post by **abbey** » Wed Feb 20, 2008 1:22 pm

Well guys, the results are in and the diagnosis is lung cancer.

The good news is, the P.E.T scan showed it had'nt spread.

Unfortunately because of his ill health, they are unable to operate. :-1

mrsK · Post by **mrsK** » Wed Feb 20, 2008 1:29 pm

abbey;780471 wrote: Well guys, the results are in and the diagnosis is lung cancer.

The good news is, the P.E.T scan showed it had'nt spread.

Unfortunately because of his ill health, they are unable to operate. :-1

So sorry to hear your news Abbey.

Love & hugs & prayers coming your way:-4

kazalala · Post by **kazalala** » Wed Feb 20, 2008 1:54 pm

Abbey im so sorry to hear this news, sending hugs your way:-4:-4:-4

Accountable · Post by **Accountable** » Wed Feb 20, 2008 5:06 pm

AW DAMMIT! :-5

:yh_flower :yh_flower :yh_hugs :yh_flower :yh_flower

Thinking of you both, dear.

Carolly · Post by **Carolly** » Wed Feb 20, 2008 5:16 pm

So sorry to hear your sad news Abbs and remember you have alot of friends here praying for your dear father, family and for you to help him through this.God Blessxxx

G#Gill · Post by **G#Gill** » Thu Feb 21, 2008 5:28 am

Oh Abbs, I'm so sorry to hear this. That is so tough for you all. My thoughts are with you and all your family. XXX

Imladris · Post by **Imladris** » Thu Feb 21, 2008 6:02 am

I was just thinking of you last night and wondering what the news was. I'm so sorry it's not good news. Sending lots of love and hugs your way and let me know if I can help at all, always here for a chat. :-4

Patsy Warnick · Post by **Patsy Warnick** » Fri Feb 22, 2008 12:12 pm

Well Abbey - this isn't the out come we wanted to hear. so sorry

Since your Dad's health is fragile and surgery isn't a option, will your Dad have any Chemo or Radiation ? those treatments would probably be to harsh for him.

So, you enjoy your time with him- talk about wonderful times, make your Dad and Mother as comfortable as possible.

This stage in life is very stressful - as I'm dealing with my In-Laws, and my Husband is the only child. My Husband is having a terrible time.

I gave my Husband the same advise - My Husband talks to his Dad about Football etc. - its wonderful to see his Dad grin, laugh.

My Husband & his Mother are getting all financial issues in order - this is a issue you will need to address, you'll know when the time is right, if its not done already.

I hope you have support - if you need a sounding board, your welcome to PM me - and there's your Family here at FG - so when ever you need to unload, we're here.

Take care of yourself

Patsy

abbey · Post by **abbey** » Fri Feb 22, 2008 1:32 pm

Sorry Guys just seen your replies.

Once again I am humbled at your good wishes and kind thoughts. :-4

Dad goes to see the oncologist next Thursday, he has been told that he is too weak for chemo but they will give him radiotherapy.

The McMillan nurse called me yesterday and told me that they may decide not to give it just yet as although he's a little frail he is'nt in any pain and his breathing is fine (steroids really are a wonder drug).

I'll keep you posted, if I ramble on, give me a nudge and tell me to pipe down. :wah:

Carolly · Post by **Carolly** » Fri Feb 22, 2008 1:35 pm

abbey;781454 wrote: Sorry Guys just seen your replies.

Once again I am humbled at your good wishes and kind thoughts.

Dad goes to see the oncologist next Thursday, he has been told that he is too weak for chemo but they will give him radiotherapy.

The McMillan nurse called me yesterday and told me that they may decide not to give it just yet as although he's a little frail he is'nt in any pain and his breathing is fine (steroids really are a wonder drug).

I'll keep you posted, if I ramble on, give me a nudge and tell me to pipe down. :wah:
Abbs please do babe and the only thing I would ever ask you is to stop being so ace in the Arcade:-5:mad::rolleyes:;)

kazalala · Post by **kazalala** » Fri Feb 22, 2008 2:01 pm

abbey;781454 wrote: Sorry Guys just seen your replies.

Once again I am humbled at your good wishes and kind thoughts. :-4

Dad goes to see the oncologist next Thursday, he has been told that he is too weak for chemo but they will give him radiotherapy.

The McMillan nurse called me yesterday and told me that they may decide not to give it just yet as although he's a little frail he is'nt in any pain and his breathing is fine (steroids really are a wonder drug).

I'll keep you posted, if I ramble on, give me a nudge and tell me to pipe down. :wah:

of course we wont!!! you ramble all you like:-4

chonsigirl · Post by **chonsigirl** » Fri Feb 22, 2008 2:04 pm

Ramble on, abbey. We will be thinking of you and your father next week when he goes for his visit.:-4

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Fri Feb 22, 2008 4:33 pm

Post by **Bryn Mawr** » Mon Feb 25, 2008 2:38 pm

abbey;780471 wrote: Well guys, the results are in and the diagnosis is lung cancer.

The good news is, the P.E.T scan showed it had'nt spread.

Unfortunately because of his ill health, they are unable to operate. :-1

Hopefully they can stabilise his condition enough to treat him soon.

Have faith, and may he recover - all my thoughts and best wishes are with you and yours.

chrisb84uk · Post by **chrisb84uk** » Mon Feb 25, 2008 3:38 pm

Oh I am sorry to hear about this Abbey, I have only just seen this.

I really wish your dad, you and the rest of your family all the best wishes in the world for a speedy and safe recovery. My thoughts are with you during this hard time, please keep staying strong! :-4:yh_pray:yh_pray:-4

chocoholic · Post by **chocoholic** » Mon Feb 25, 2008 5:01 pm

Abbey, sorry have only just seen this, sending you and your family hugs and will be thinking of you and keeping you all in my prayers.:-4

abbey · Post by **abbey** » Mon Feb 25, 2008 5:11 pm

Thankyou all for your good wishes,

It really means a lot xxx :-4 xxx

CARLA · Post by **CARLA** » Mon Feb 25, 2008 8:07 pm

:yh_flower:yh_flower:( Abbey I just caught up on this thread I'm so very sorry about your Dad. We are here for you any time you need us.