Would you trust your husband/partner to be ....

buttercup · Post by **buttercup** » Mon Jul 23, 2007 3:56 am

faithfull on an all boys holiday to Thailand or Amsterdam?

RedGlitter · Post by **RedGlitter** » Mon Jul 23, 2007 4:06 am

Absolutely. If not then I wouldn't be with him in the first place.

How about you?

buttercup · Post by **buttercup** » Mon Jul 23, 2007 4:08 am

No chance :wah:

chonsigirl · Post by **chonsigirl** » Mon Jul 23, 2007 4:11 am

I don't understand separate holidays at all, why have a partner then?

buttercup · Post by **buttercup** » Mon Jul 23, 2007 4:15 am

I know a girl who totally believes her husband & his friends went to Thailand to play golf !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

RedGlitter · Post by **RedGlitter** » Mon Jul 23, 2007 4:19 am

I know a lot of men would be scuzzes and would cheat but why be with them if theres' no trust?! I don't understand.

If YOU (women) went to some exotic place alone, would you cheat on him?

I would not.

buttercup · Post by **buttercup** » Mon Jul 23, 2007 4:19 am

magenta flame;666036 wrote:

Are they historians, civil engineers, or archeologists?

Where you going with that Mags :wah:

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Mon Jul 23, 2007 4:42 am

for pete's sake i'm not even trusted to go to the end of the street :wah:

if i said i wanted to go to Thailand i figure i'd be going without my genitalia

:-3:wah:

pepperband · Post by **pepperband** » Mon Jul 23, 2007 6:32 am

jimbo;666051 wrote:

if i said i wanted to go to Thailand i figure i'd be going without my genitalia

*thud*

sunny104 · Post by **sunny104** » Mon Jul 23, 2007 7:18 am

yes, my husband doesn't believe in paying for something he can get for free. :wah:

I don't know, I don't worry about that stuff, if he wants to cheat on me he's going to do it no matter what................

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Mon Jul 23, 2007 7:28 am

magenta flame;666052 wrote: Jimbo wrong answer ......heavens do I have to do everything for you ....what you say is "I would want to go to Thailand and I would certainly bring my beautiful love of my life with me"

Grasshopper you have much to learn.:wah:

yes but i want to see the thai boxing and things like that sue wants to see lady boys we would have a crap time :wah::wah:

Post by **Bryn Mawr** » Mon Jul 23, 2007 11:08 am

buttercup;666021 wrote: faithfull on an all boys holiday to Thailand or Amsterdam?

If you have no trust you have nothing.

When my wife went to Thailand for a month it did not occur to me that she would possibly be unfaithful. (the fact my daughter was there too helped :wah:).

If she didn't trust me, she wouldn't have left me alone for that long.

littlemissgiggle · Post by **littlemissgiggle** » Mon Jul 23, 2007 11:25 am

would they be going for a stag do!

I think i would trust them,

I am in a long distance relationship he lives in Southern Spain and me in england, and we have to trust each other,no point in being together otherwise.

along-for-the-ride · Post by **along-for-the-ride** » Mon Jul 23, 2007 3:04 pm

buttercup;666021 wrote: faithfull on an all boys holiday to Thailand or Amsterdam?

Sure, I trust my husband. But.....what about those Thais and the Dutch? And what kind of "boys" are we talking about?:wah:

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Mon Jul 23, 2007 3:12 pm

Pinky;666313 wrote: Yeah, i'd trust whoever to go anywhere and not do the dirty. After all, if they're going to cheat, they're just as likely to do it down the local pub. If you can't trust someone then there's not really much basis for a relationship.

for cying out loud pinky ,loads of men wont be allowed down their local pub now just in case :rolleyes::rolleyes::p:D

minks · Post by **minks** » Mon Jul 23, 2007 3:15 pm

If I had one I would trust him yes.

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Mon Jul 23, 2007 3:18 pm

Pinky;666322 wrote: Sorry Jim!:p

Better get used to staying in then mate, hehehehe!

not me i'm trustworthy but loads of other men might have hassel now :rolleyes::rolleyes::p

JacksDad · Post by **JacksDad** » Mon Jul 23, 2007 3:33 pm

magenta flame;666335 wrote: Before I left for Europe one of my husbands colleagues (a woman ) told him not to worry whether I played around because apparently .........."infidelity Offshore doesn't count"...................:-2

Offshore drilling, eh?

Interesting concept.

:sneaky:

Post by **Bryn Mawr** » Mon Jul 23, 2007 3:34 pm

magenta flame;666335 wrote: Before I left for Europe one of my husbands colleagues (a woman ) told him not to worry whether I played around because apparently .........."infidelity Offshore doesn't count"...................:-2

And this was intended to reassure him?!?

mikeinie · Post by **mikeinie** » Mon Jul 23, 2007 4:13 pm

You don’t need to go to Thailand or Amsterdam to be unfaithful, one can be unfaithful anywhere.

The point is trust!

Trust needs to be given, and in return respected and not betrayed. You can go and have fun with the lads (or the gals) without crossing the line.

DelicateDominatrix · Post by **DelicateDominatrix** » Mon Jul 23, 2007 4:39 pm

Strangely enough I would trust my hubby.He has proven to be honest and trustworthy and yes even faithful