Is it weird that i don't want to be in a relitionship?

Musiclover89 · Post by **Musiclover89** » Wed Jun 20, 2007 1:57 pm

Hey guys most people i talk to on MSN says its weird that i don't want a Relitionship cause i find it hard to trust people because of the amount of times i've been backstabbed by so called friends and as a result i don't want anyone in my life when i get my own house e.t.c cause knowning my luck it'll probably turn out to be the exact same thing that caused me to end so many friendships

RedGlitter · Post by **RedGlitter** » Wed Jun 20, 2007 2:15 pm

I don't think it's weird at all mainly because you're 17. Please don't take that as me being ageist because that's not it. When I was 17 the last thing I was thinking about or wanted was a relationship with anyone. It's hard to continue your faith in people when you're being repeatedly screwed but as time goes by (and it will) you get better at knowing when the screwing's going to come so you can avoid it. And you learn to avoid the wrong kinds of people for the most part. I honestly think you have plenty of time to move around, get "wiggle room" without worrying about relationships just now. I wouldn't throw out the opportunity if a good one comes along but I wouldn't be that concerned right now either. Somebody else may tell you differently; I'm just telling you what I think of it. :-6

mikeinie · Post by **mikeinie** » Wed Jun 20, 2007 2:16 pm

Sorry man, but that’s a dumb paranoid reason. Talk about stopping your life because what might happen¦..

Here is a theory you may want to consider:

If Joe has a problem with Bill

And Joe has a problem with Jack

And Joe has a problem with Bob

And Joe has a problem with John

Guess who has the problem?

SuzyB · Post by **SuzyB** » Wed Jun 20, 2007 2:17 pm

RedGlitter;641966 wrote: I don't think it's weird at all mainly because you're 17. Please don't take that as me being ageist because that's not it. When I was 17 the last thing I was thinking about or wanted was a relationship with anyone. It's hard to continue your faith in people when you're being repeatedly screwed but as time goes by (and it will) you get better at knowing when the screwing's going to come so you can avoid it. And you learn to avoid the wrong kinds of people for the most part. I honestly think you have plenty of time to move around, get "wiggle room" without worrying about relationships just now. I wouldn't throw out the opportunity if a good one comes along but I wouldn't be that concerned right now either. Somebody else may tell you differently; I'm just telling you what I think of it. :-6

And I thought that was the best part of a relationship :rolleyes: :wah:

SuzyB · Post by **SuzyB** » Wed Jun 20, 2007 2:18 pm

mikeinie;641967 wrote: Sorry man, but that’s a dumb paranoid reason. Talk about stopping your life because what might happen¦..

Here is a theory you may want to consider:

If Joe has a problem with Bill

And Joe has a problem with Jack

And Joe has a problem with Bob

And Joe has a problem with John

Guess who has the problem?

Errrr .................Mike :rolleyes: :wah:

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Wed Jun 20, 2007 2:19 pm

mikeinie;641967 wrote: Sorry man, but that’s a dumb paranoid reason. Talk about stopping your life because what might happen¦..

Here is a theory you may want to consider:

If Joe has a problem with Bill

And Joe has a problem with Jack

And Joe has a problem with Bob

And Joe has a problem with John

Guess who has the problem?

er yzgi

RedGlitter · Post by **RedGlitter** » Wed Jun 20, 2007 2:21 pm

SuzyB;641969 wrote: And I thought that was the best part of a relationship :rolleyes: :wah:

:wah: It is! It is! Don't listen to me! It is! :wah:

littlemissgiggle · Post by **littlemissgiggle** » Wed Jun 20, 2007 2:25 pm

No I don't think its weird cos as Red said you are only 17 and you have the rest of your life to worry about being in a relationship, just enjoy yourself and worry about yourself for now and what you want to do, :guitarist

Bill Sikes · Post by **Bill Sikes** » Wed Jun 20, 2007 2:27 pm

Musiclover89;641952 wrote: Hey guys most people i talk to on MSN says its weird

Stop "talking to people on MSN" and get down to the pub, or somewhere.

littlemissgiggle · Post by **littlemissgiggle** » Wed Jun 20, 2007 2:28 pm

SuzyB;641970 wrote: Errrr .................Mike :rolleyes: :wah:

jimbo;641971 wrote: er yzgi

Nooooo i think it's

Paul ?

:wah:

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Wed Jun 20, 2007 2:29 pm

Musiclover89;641952 wrote: Hey guys most people i talk to on MSN says its weird that i don't want a Relitionship cause i find it hard to trust people because of the amount of times i've been backstabbed by so called friends and as a result i don't want anyone in my life when i get my own house e.t.c cause knowning my luck it'll probably turn out to be the exact same thing that caused me to end so many friendships

well i like ya ,you have always been pleasant and have always shown a great sense of humour when being teased by the mj hater

in fact you have never been nasty to any one .. lets send suzy round mikes she will sort him out

SuzyB · Post by **SuzyB** » Wed Jun 20, 2007 2:29 pm

littlemissgiggle;641984 wrote: Nooooo i think it's

Paul ?

:wah:

Did you notice he copied me :rolleyes:

SuzyB · Post by **SuzyB** » Wed Jun 20, 2007 2:31 pm

jimbo;641985 wrote: well i like ya ,you have always been pleasant and have always shown a great sense of humour when being teased by the mj hater

in fact you have never been nasty to any one .. lets send suzy round mikes she will sort him out

Stop volunteering my services......................................................

Whats the address

littlemissgiggle · Post by **littlemissgiggle** » Wed Jun 20, 2007 2:35 pm

SuzyB;641988 wrote: Stop volunteering my services......................................................

Whats the address

:wah:

I can't stop giggling now

minks · Post by **minks** » Wed Jun 20, 2007 2:45 pm

nothing weird about it you are young but don't close the door for good, you never know what you may miss out there.

Musiclover89 · Post by **Musiclover89** » Wed Jun 20, 2007 2:45 pm

Wow never seen so many replys in so little time :wah:

minks · Post by **minks** » Wed Jun 20, 2007 2:48 pm

Musiclover89;642001 wrote: Wow never seen so many replys in so little time :wah:

we're a chatty bunch.

RedGlitter · Post by **RedGlitter** » Wed Jun 20, 2007 2:50 pm

We aim to please. :-6

SuzyB · Post by **SuzyB** » Wed Jun 20, 2007 2:51 pm

Musiclover89;642001 wrote: Wow never seen so many replys in so little time :wah:

Sorry, I was posting but nothing constructive

minks · Post by **minks** » Wed Jun 20, 2007 2:52 pm

RedGlitter;642009 wrote: We aim to please. :-6

oh sorry I digress but everytime I hear or see that line I think of a sign over a toilet

We aim to please

you please aim too.

RedGlitter · Post by **RedGlitter** » Wed Jun 20, 2007 2:58 pm

Soberano;642014 wrote: When i saw the "We aim to please" i thought MMMmmm wonder if her mate is good looking too.

Y'all....... :rolleyes:

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:sneaky:

RedGlitter · Post by **RedGlitter** » Wed Jun 20, 2007 3:05 pm

Soberano;642020 wrote: Well is she?:D

She???

:sneaky:

RedGlitter · Post by **RedGlitter** » Wed Jun 20, 2007 3:09 pm

Soberano;642028 wrote: You did say "We aim to please", i thought it might be a team thing.

Ohhhh...right. Well see, it's actually just me.

I do the work of two women.

Yeah. That's the ticket. :wah:

SpiderSam · Post by **SpiderSam** » Thu Jun 21, 2007 12:24 am

You are not weird at all. At the end of the day you are still very young. You have a whoel life ahead of you. One day that right person will come along. When my ex left me, the last thing I wanted was another man in my life. I was on my own for 18 months before my boyfriend came along, and even now, I cannot have him living with me, maybe things will change in months to come but right now I am not ready for taking that big step.

Just enjoy your life as you are right now.

KB. · Post by **KB.** » Thu Jun 21, 2007 12:38 am

Bill Sikes;641983 wrote: Stop "talking to people on MSN" and get down to the pub, or somewhere.

Bill, I like you. That is all, move along.

RedGlitter · Post by **RedGlitter** » Thu Jun 21, 2007 6:03 am

Excellently put, Pinky. :-6

SlipStream · Post by **SlipStream** » Thu Jun 21, 2007 6:27 am

it's so hard living with someone :-5

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Thu Jun 21, 2007 6:43 am

i have had all my friends that i have had in my whole life well except one but they went weird on me for some reason???? i never get let down by friends but i never ask anything of them ,i think buddy you need to open up and trust people and make loads of friends and if a couple turn out to be not so good dont worry about it ,if you never open up and trust people how are you ever going to make real good friends any way ????

I wear my heart on my sleeve and am a trusting person anyway

Uncle Kram · Post by **Uncle Kram** » Thu Jun 21, 2007 8:04 am

Like most people after a divorce, I said pretty much the same thing. I think you should say if someone special turns up, why not just roll with it?.

What you are basically saying is that you won't just settle for anyone. Thing is though, at your age, maybe some experience will help you see when someone worthy turns up.

You're a young man so what you think now isn't necessarily what you will think in a couple of years time. Do what feels right at the time mate and good luck.

SpiderSam · Post by **SpiderSam** » Thu Jun 21, 2007 11:08 am

SlipStream;642369 wrote: it's so hard living with someone :-5

Yes I agree with you and it's not until you live on yor own again do you realize how hard it is living with someone.