Please Help!

ilona17 · Post by **ilona17** » Mon Jun 04, 2007 4:06 am

Okay soo the story is.

I was in love with a person that was in a relationship. Ever since i met her i loved her, and as i got to know her better I only grew fonder of her but kept my feelings to my self because she was in a relationship.

She broke up with the person she was with but I still didn't tell her how I felt.

Recently she told me that she feels the same way about me, and has recently become much fonder of me. She told me she loved me.. but is now in a relationship with someone else.

Now here is the other complicated part. There is this other person who really likes/loves me. I do love & care fo them but i'm not in love with them. I really dont know what to do? I might have given this peron the wrong idea on a number of occasions. But thats only because i'm so confused.

Should i just give up with the person whose in a relationship?

:-5

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Mon Jun 04, 2007 4:12 am

yes give up ,i know i would not want a woman that cheated on a partner ,you should not want a cheater either ,give it a go with someone that is available ,or else if this guy ever did leave his partner every time he is outa your sight guess where he will be :-3 :-3

pinkchick · Post by **pinkchick** » Mon Jun 04, 2007 4:20 am

I have to say that I completely agree with Jimbo on this one!!

:-6

ilona17 · Post by **ilona17** » Mon Jun 04, 2007 4:25 am

pinkchick;628267 wrote: I have to say that I completely agree with Jimbo on this one!!

:-6

So you both think that telling someone else when you love them when your with someone is cheating?

She said she's loves the person she's with, but she's not in love with them?

neffy · Post by **neffy** » Mon Jun 04, 2007 6:02 am

yes i do i have to agree with jimbo and chick on this :-3

zinkyusa · Post by **zinkyusa** » Mon Jun 04, 2007 6:29 am

ilona17;628260 wrote: Okay soo the story is.

I was in love with a person that was in a relationship. Ever since i met her i loved her, and as i got to know her better I only grew fonder of her but kept my feelings to my self because she was in a relationship.

She broke up with the person she was with but I still didn't tell her how I felt.

Recently she told me that she feels the same way about me, and has recently become much fonder of me. She told me she loved me.. but is now in a relationship with someone else.

Now here is the other complicated part. There is this other person who really likes/loves me. I do love & care fo them but i'm not in love with them. I really dont know what to do? I might have given this peron the wrong idea on a number of occasions. But thats only because i'm so confused.

Should i just give up with the person whose in a relationship?

:-5

Sometimes I just want what I can't have..

because I can't have it;)

WonderWendy3 · Post by **WonderWendy3** » Mon Jun 04, 2007 6:36 am

I'm confused....the song that comes to mind was "If you can't be with the one you love, then love the one your with"...

Sounds like there is some confusion on who really loves who...if she loved you while she was with another person, why is she with another?? If you love someone, but not in love with them...why string them along???

pinkchick · Post by **pinkchick** » Mon Jun 04, 2007 6:42 am

WonderWendy3;628304 wrote: I'm confused....the song that comes to mind was "If you can't be with the one you love, then love the one your with"...

Sounds like there is some confusion on who really loves who...if she loved you while she was with another person, why is she with another?? If you love someone, but not in love with them...why string them along???

Perfectly said Wendy:)