chantelle has left the building

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Sun Apr 22, 2007 6:57 am

after a very emotional week my beautiful girl as gone back to the states ,its been mostly positive with just a couple of negative points ,she clung to each and every one of us like the love starved child she has been , she has has told me and suzy some of the bad things that have happened to her that have left us both in tears for days on end ,she is going back to finish her schooling then she is coming home to a family that love her and we will do every thing in our power to make the rest of her life a really loved and happy one , i'm afraid i'm going to do a soberano and clam up as i'm to emotional to say much more (no offence meant there buddy )THANK YOU TO EVERY ONE THAT HAS TAKEN AN INTEREST IN MY WONDERFULL CHILD :-6 :-6

Peg · Post by **Peg** » Sun Apr 22, 2007 8:09 am

I think things will be easier for Chantelle knowing that after school, she has a loving family to go home to.

minks · Post by **minks** » Sun Apr 22, 2007 8:33 am

Jimbo your friends understand.... what an amazing time for you.

chonsigirl · Post by **chonsigirl** » Sun Apr 22, 2007 9:10 am

I am so shappy you had the week together, and think of the future ahead of you both soon.:-4

Post by **Betty Boop** » Sun Apr 22, 2007 9:20 am

chonsigirl;597664 wrote: I am so shappy you had the week together, and think of the future ahead of you both soon.:-4

Ditto Chonsi!! :-4

JacksDad · Post by **JacksDad** » Sun Apr 22, 2007 9:28 am

I understand how emotional it is, Jimbo. The helplessness of not being there.

That's why I never talk about it. I'm clammed up.

Bless you, buddy.

RedGlitter · Post by **RedGlitter** » Sun Apr 22, 2007 9:45 am

:-4:-4 Jim:-4:-4

WonderWendy3 · Post by **WonderWendy3** » Sun Apr 22, 2007 10:19 am

Sending lots of :yh_hugs :yh_hugs and :-4 :-4 to you and Suzy.

Pheasy · Post by **Pheasy** » Sun Apr 22, 2007 10:19 am

God has given me a gift so pure and true,

It breaks my heart that we now part,

I am honored to be your Dad,

My precious baby girl,

I breath each day for you,

My life is now yours,

God return her to me soon,

My wonderful baby girl

Jimbo - you have such wonderful times ahead of you. Life can get sucky - then it throws something wonderful at you and it makes it all worth while. :-4

Imladris · Post by **Imladris** » Sun Apr 22, 2007 10:34 am

Big kiss and hug for you all.:-4

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Sun Apr 22, 2007 12:27 pm

thanks every one ,she is so brave leaving a nice home then going back to that hell on earth to finish her education ,what a star :-6 it would of been so easy just to stay here :-4

el guapo · Post by **el guapo** » Sun Apr 22, 2007 1:18 pm

jimbo;597729 wrote: thanks every one ,she is so brave leaving a nice home then going back to that hell on earth to finish her education ,what a star :-6 it would of been so easy just to stay here :-4

my son it will work out in the end ya know how to get hold of me if ya need a chat

dubs · Post by **dubs** » Sun Apr 22, 2007 1:22 pm

Glad to see you back Matey. You've had this special time with your daughter, and perhaps, when you've had time to compose yourself, you might tell us some of the things you and she, got up to! Keep your chin up buddy(well not any one chin in particular, all of 'em).........:wah: :wah:

Sheryl · Post by **Sheryl** » Sun Apr 22, 2007 7:58 pm

:-4 :yh_hugs :yh_hugs

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Mon Apr 23, 2007 1:46 am

dubs;597789 wrote: Glad to see you back Matey. You've had this special time with your daughter, and perhaps, when you've had time to compose yourself, you might tell us some of the things you and she, got up to! Keep your chin up buddy(well not any one chin in particular, all of 'em).........:wah: :wah:

you tozza :wah:

my chins are gona be going mate my daughter kept on and on about my weight ,i guess she is worried i will just keel over ,so diet time it is :rolleyes:

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Mon Apr 23, 2007 2:02 am

Wendybird;598072 wrote: :-4

thanks poopy head :-6 :-4

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Mon Apr 23, 2007 2:06 am

Wendybird;598077 wrote: You're welcome jimpoop.

look can you please stop posting you lot are ruining my cunning plan to take over every post :sneaky: :sneaky:

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Mon Apr 23, 2007 2:09 am

Wendybird;598081 wrote: Mwahahahaha!

:wah: :wah: i should of just kept quite my plan will never succeed now

or will it thats me taking over another one :sneaky:

Post by **Betty Boop** » Mon Apr 23, 2007 2:11 am

Does this mean you'll be in here annoying us everyday now!!

Only joking Jimbo, give my love to Suzy, haven't seen her for a while. :-4

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Mon Apr 23, 2007 2:14 am

Betty Boop;598085 wrote: Does this mean you'll be in here annoying us everyday now!!

Only joking Jimbo, give my love to Suzy, haven't seen her for a while. :-4

no it does not mean i will be here every day just too annoy every one

try day and night :wah:

suzy was online yesterday :-6

Post by **Betty Boop** » Mon Apr 23, 2007 2:18 am

jimbo;598087 wrote: no it does not mean i will be here every day just too annoy every one

try day and night :wah:

suzy was online yesterday :-6

Ok, I must have missed her, was busy with the kids all day and then was just errr busy last night.

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Mon Apr 23, 2007 2:26 am

Betty Boop;598088 wrote: Ok, I must have missed her, was busy with the kids all day and then was just errr busy last night.

betty has a boyfriend :wah:

way to go who is the mug ... i mean very lucky guy??? :wah: :wah:

Post by **Betty Boop** » Mon Apr 23, 2007 2:28 am

jimbo;598093 wrote: betty has a boyfriend :wah:

way to go who is the mug ... i mean very lucky guy??? :wah: :wah:

You got it right the first time! :wah:

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Mon Apr 23, 2007 2:32 am

Betty Boop;598095 wrote: You got it right the first time! :wah:

damn your no fun to annoy :wah:

any one seen that pink witch i think she has been left sitting on a shelf somewhere :wah: :wah:

Post by **Betty Boop** » Mon Apr 23, 2007 2:33 am

jimbo;598098 wrote: damn your no fun to annoy :wah:

any one seen that pink witch i think she has been left sitting on a shelf somewhere :wah: :wah:

oooh she'll get you for that one!!!!

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Mon Apr 23, 2007 2:51 am

Betty Boop;598100 wrote: oooh she'll get you for that one!!!!

:yh_shhhh :yh_nailbi :yh_nailbi :yh_nailbi

crazygal · Post by **crazygal** » Mon Apr 23, 2007 3:03 pm

Sorry about your daughter Jimbo. If it's so bad for her there, why doesn't she come to live with you?

Tater Tazz · Post by **Tater Tazz** » Mon Apr 23, 2007 3:07 pm

Mr. Jimbo, I am so glad you had fun. Let me know if you want me to keep an eye on her. I would do that just for you. Oh no, I am being nice to you.

911 · Post by **911** » Mon Apr 23, 2007 3:28 pm

I'm glad you had a wonderful time with your daughter. Did you take lots of pics and will we be seeing them here?

PICTURES NOW!!!

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Tue Apr 24, 2007 1:34 am

crazygal;598685 wrote: Sorry about your daughter Jimbo. If it's so bad for her there, why doesn't she come to live with you?

her mom is not the nicest of people she has kept her in this dreadfull place for 3 years even though the people in charge wanted to send her home as they felt she was well enough ,she needs to take her exams then she can come back ,i dont need to tell any parent how hard it is to put a sobbing crying young girl on a plane to go to a hell hole she hates but we talked long and hard ,its not nice but its just 7 weeks then she will have her exam passes and will be able if she is ever well enough to get a job :-1 :-1

my girl asked her mom when she was 11 if she could get in touch with me her mom said i was dead ,its no wonder really she is in the place she is in :-1

i spoke to her step dad who is really a very nice guy ,he broke up with chantelle's mom after she did to him what she did to me ,he has treated chantelle like his own child and if it was not for him chantelle would not be alive today :-6

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Tue Apr 24, 2007 1:53 am

911;598710 wrote: I'm glad you had a wonderful time with your daughter. Did you take lots of pics and will we be seeing them here?

PICTURES NOW!!!

ok i could post these photo#'s all day your lucky i dont know how to download the vidio's

http://s167.photobucket.com/albums/u123 ... isters.jpg

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Tue Apr 24, 2007 1:54 am

http://s167.photobucket.com/albums/u123 ... sophie.jpg

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Tue Apr 24, 2007 1:55 am

a very sad sophie saying a sad goodbyes

http://s167.photobucket.com/albums/u123 ... ehurts.jpg

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Tue Apr 24, 2007 2:26 am

http://s167.photobucket.com/albums/u123 ... antell.jpg

http://s167.photobucket.com/albums/u123 ... ebeast.jpg

http://s167.photobucket.com/albums/u123 ... t=oops.jpg

Imladris · Post by **Imladris** » Tue Apr 24, 2007 2:29 am

http://s167.photobucket.com/albums/u123 ... t=oops.jpg

My goodness Jimbo - you kept your arms folded, amazing self-control!:sneaky: :wah:

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Tue Apr 24, 2007 2:33 am

Imladris;598857 wrote: http://s167.photobucket.com/albums/u123 ... t=oops.jpg

My goodness Jimbo - you kept your arms folded, amazing self-control!:sneaky: :wah:

sue was taking the photo .... so not really :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

WonderWendy3 · Post by **WonderWendy3** » Tue Apr 24, 2007 8:08 am

Jimbo the pictures were great, had tears in my eyes ...yes, again...When I read about Chantelle thinking you were dead, my eyes bugged out of my head. She is absolutely gorgeous, as are all of your children...

I loved the pic of you and her....very nice also...

Umm the last picture of you and those women?? Looked like they were using self control too!!:wah:

911 · Post by **911** » Tue Apr 24, 2007 2:01 pm

Jimbo, she is gorgeous! And she looks a lot like you.

Time will fly and she will be back in your arms in no time!

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Wed Apr 25, 2007 1:10 am

911;599211 wrote: Jimbo, she is gorgeous! And she looks a lot like you.

Time will fly and she will be back in your arms in no time!

i rang her last night she was crying her heart out wishing she was here ,i could hear loads of screaming from the other patients ,why oh why did i send her back i cried my eyes out for hours :-1 :-1

i know its only 7 or 8 weeks but it feels like 7 or 8 years ,its not easy is it ??

sorry i'm not posting much ,i feel a little choked up sinse she has gone back to that terrible place ,you guys have helped out so much with all your kind words i dont think i'd of gotten through all of this without you all

pain grief and despair are terrible demons ,and in every ones life they come and get you sooner or later they will come ,i hope i can be there for you guys if demons are here with you now or when they do come coz come they will ,and jimbo will be there for you as you guys have for me :-6 :-4

WonderWendy3 · Post by **WonderWendy3** » Wed Apr 25, 2007 8:03 am

Sending love to you and Suzy, Jimbo...praying for your family:-4 :-4