Turn-ons/offs

Red · Post by **Red** » Sat Feb 17, 2007 2:47 pm

Soberano;553052 wrote: This woman reckons she is a model, i reckon she is ill and a turn off, any men out there fancy her, i don't think so

is this a real pic?

Red · Post by **Red** » Sat Feb 17, 2007 2:52 pm

i was sure itd been tinkered with, ive seen skinny models but this is disgusting :yh_sick

Red · Post by **Red** » Sat Feb 17, 2007 3:04 pm

jesus im suprised she has the energy to stand up! its actually painful to look at

crazygal · Post by **crazygal** » Sat Feb 17, 2007 4:09 pm

Eww they're both grosse, poor women.

cinamin · Post by **cinamin** » Sat Feb 17, 2007 4:18 pm

Biggest turn-off for me is a man who drinks or does drugs, even a little bit.

crazygal · Post by **crazygal** » Sat Feb 17, 2007 4:20 pm

I don't mind drink, as long as it's not a nightly thing, that's really annoying, had that before. Smoking would now put me off as I gave up. Grass or hash doesn't bother me either as long as it's not a regular thing but any other drugs, no way.

Red · Post by **Red** » Sat Feb 17, 2007 4:22 pm

a bloke drinking doesnt bother me at all, its when a bloke drinks and cant handle it that turns me off

cinamin · Post by **cinamin** » Sat Feb 17, 2007 4:27 pm

Yah, it's the drinking every single night that I can't stand. I don't like men who smoke weed or hash or any kind of drug they smoke. I guess basically being addicted to anything, especially what changes their mental state, that I really hate. IT's asking for trouble to say with a person like this.

Red · Post by **Red** » Sat Feb 17, 2007 4:33 pm

I see nothing wrong with it, my ex hubby used to be a right horror when he drank, abusive and just totally awful but df only ever drank jd when i met him occasionally but now he likes a couple of cans of a night and thats fine cos it doesnt change him one iota difference is he can handle it

wneelz42 · Post by **wneelz42** » Sun Feb 18, 2007 11:58 am

I hate men who go forr the tall & skinny type. I'm not agianst women staying in shape, but women who act like they have to be perfect at all times mskes me sick.

Rosette · Post by **Rosette** » Mon Feb 19, 2007 3:02 pm

oh give me the tall, dark stranger look any day!

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Mon Feb 19, 2007 4:06 pm

Pinky;554807 wrote: Ignorance is a total turn off for me, as are bad eating habits. One thing I really, really can't stand is anyone eating with their mouth open or shovelling food like there's going to be world starvation tomorrow. Oh, and nail biting. I don't know what it is, but the nibbling noise sets my teeth on edge!

Not that I'm a fussy bat or anything!:-3

if your not single you should be

Galbally · Post by **Galbally** » Mon Feb 19, 2007 6:05 pm

Interesting, interesting. Okay lets see, in turns of women and me.

Turn ons

Looks, nothing specific, though obviously generally nice looking, feminine features, nice proportions, good smile, nice bum, cleverness, good natured, generally happy and not too disaffected with everything, practical and reasonably engaged in the world, but not too ambitious, not too mercenary but rational, bookishness I love, demurness is cool, but not painfully shy, tolerance of me, understanding, I like all these things, but its a list, and wish lists are not much use when it comes to working out what the woman you want to be is should be like, as its my experience that it doesn't happen that way, and women that have shopping lists in their heads about who you should and shouldn't be are also not very attractive so it works both ways. :-6

Post by **Betty Boop** » Mon Feb 19, 2007 6:18 pm

Galbally;554923 wrote: Interesting, interesting. Okay lets see, in turns of women and me.

Turn ons

Looks, nothing specific, though obviously generally nice looking, feminine features, nice proportions, good smile, nice bum, cleverness, good natured, generally happy and not too disaffected with everything, practical and reasonably engaged in the world, but not too ambitious, not too mercenary but rational, bookishness I love, demurness is cool, but not painfully shy, tolerance of me, understanding, I like all these things, but its a list, and wish lists are not much use when it comes to working out what the woman you want to be is should be like, as its my experience that it doesn't happen that way, and women that have shopping lists in their heads about who you should and shouldn't be are also not very attractive so it works both ways. :-6

:yh_rotfl Not too fussy hey Gal!!

koan · Post by **koan** » Mon Feb 19, 2007 7:16 pm

Good: young in mind and spirit, bizarre sense of humour, faces emotional conflict with courage but backs away from physical conflict with pride.

Bad: sleeps too much, doesn't like to talk.

Galbally · Post by **Galbally** » Tue Feb 20, 2007 1:43 am

Betty Boop;554928 wrote: :yh_rotfl Not too fussy hey Gal!!

No really I'm not, its just in response to the question. Wish lists are fine, but they are a bit silly as people are not like properties, you don't get to choose what they are, only work out very general things you like, but then you might meet someone who has all those things and not like them, and also, you might meet someone totally inappropriate and fall in love. Whoever is right for you, is never wrong, and whoever is wrong can never be right by trying to tick all your boxes for you.

I find women in particular are guilty of that when talking about what man they want, we all do it a bit as a parlour game, but women overdo it and rule about 99 percent of men out before ever meeting them, its sad. Its fun though init?

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Tue Feb 20, 2007 2:32 am

i have too say ,number 1 is a nice person ,no matter how good looking if she was a cow ... no

2, i have too have someone funny ... someone not funny no

3, skinny ..noooo .... makes me feel sick ... looking at a woman naked in bed that looks like two fried eggs on a toast rack nooo its just wrong

4, she has to be nice to retarded people if not she wont date me in the first place would she

RedGlitter · Post by **RedGlitter** » Tue Feb 20, 2007 6:05 am

jimbo;555055 wrote: i have too say ,number 1 is a nice person ,no matter how good looking if she was a cow ... no

2, i have too have someone funny ... someone not funny no

3, skinny ..noooo .... makes me feel sick ... looking at a woman naked in bed that looks like two fried eggs on a toast rack nooo its just wrong

4, she has to be nice to retarded people if not she wont date me in the first place would she

:eek::eek:

crazygal · Post by **crazygal** » Wed Feb 28, 2007 3:58 am

A bad kisser can be a real turn-off too. All wet and dribbling, eww.

A good kisser can get me all gooey straight away, that's the best foreplay I think.

ilona17 · Post by **ilona17** » Fri Mar 02, 2007 1:48 pm

Well i'm not really fussy. But everyone has a few things right?

So turn off's have to be.

1 Bad teeth.

2 Bad breath.

3 Bad personality.

4 Arrogance.

5 Really hairy! (ughh)

I think thats it... Till i meet some horribly disgusting bloke that adds to that list. :wah:

Turn on's.

1 Nice smile

2 Dark hair! ( love it)

3 Nice personality

4 funny.

you know the usual.

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Fri Mar 02, 2007 9:41 pm

Turn-ons/offs

The clap-per

WonderWendy3 · Post by **WonderWendy3** » Fri Mar 02, 2007 10:12 pm

Soberano;551231 wrote: I don't like it when my wife lifts her leg to fart.

:eek:

:yh_rotfl :yh_rotfl

I find that sexy in a man

foofoo stripper · Post by **foofoo stripper** » Sat Mar 03, 2007 3:25 am

Turn offs: I know it is part of his job, but, he always seems to be working. (doctor) So, I really can not hold that against him, can I?

Turn ons: He is very polite and sensitive. Holds doors open for me. I think I like that in a man, someone who would hold a door open for a women. Anyone else like that?

Delilah · Post by **Delilah** » Sat Mar 03, 2007 10:24 am

Galbally;555047 wrote: No really I'm not, its just in response to the question. Wish lists are fine, but they are a bit silly as people are not like properties, you don't get to choose what they are, only work out very general things you like, but then you might meet someone who has all those things and not like them, and also, you might meet someone totally inappropriate and fall in love. Whoever is right for you, is never wrong, and whoever is wrong can never be right by trying to tick all your boxes for you.

I find women in particular are guilty of that when talking about what man they want, we all do it a bit as a parlour game, but women overdo it and rule about 99 percent of men out before ever meeting them, its sad. Its fun though init?

That's very very true, Galbally.

While it's good to have a sense of what you are looking for in another person, it isn't good when you turn away possibly the love of your life, because they didn't meet your checklist.

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Sat Mar 03, 2007 10:29 am

Delilah;566812 wrote: That's very very true, Galbally.

While it's good to have a sense of what you are looking for in another person, it isn't good when you turn away possibly the love of your life, because they didn't meet your checklist.

good point i'll give jenna jameson another chance it might work out after all

WonderWendy3 · Post by **WonderWendy3** » Sat Mar 03, 2007 11:03 am

foofoo stripper;566602 wrote: Turn offs: I know it is part of his job, but, he always seems to be working. (doctor) So, I really can not hold that against him, can I?

Turn ons: He is very polite and sensitive. Holds doors open for me. I think I like that in a man, someone who would hold a door open for a women. Anyone else like that?

My B/f ALWAYS opens the doors for me, I forget to wait in the car for him to open my door, been alone and not used to bein' with a Gentleman for so long....if ever.

He's Awesome:-4

Turn offs:...Control FREAKS!!!

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Sat Mar 03, 2007 12:33 pm

WonderWendy3;566826 wrote: My B/f ALWAYS opens the doors for me, I forget to wait in the car for him to open my door, been alone and not used to bein' with a Gentleman for so long....if ever.

He's Awesome:-4

Turn offs:...Control FREAKS!!!

i told you your not allowed to say that:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

WonderWendy3 · Post by **WonderWendy3** » Sat Mar 03, 2007 12:39 pm

jimbo;566894 wrote:

i told you your not allowed to say that

thought you had me on ignore :sneaky:

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Sat Mar 03, 2007 12:41 pm

WonderWendy3;566904 wrote:

thought you had me on ignore :sneaky:

ooops i've been in the bath ,what have i missed :-3 :-3

crazygal · Post by **crazygal** » Sat Mar 03, 2007 12:41 pm

Sport freaks. Different if it's your team but some guys just have to watch every match.

WonderWendy3 · Post by **WonderWendy3** » Sat Mar 03, 2007 12:42 pm

jimbo;566906 wrote: ooops i've been in the bath ,what have i missed :-3 :-3

Nothing, absolutely nothing...move on...nothing to see here...

minks · Post by **minks** » Sat Mar 03, 2007 1:21 pm

nice well looked after hands, if they are going to be anywhere near me they better be clean.... he it says a lot about a man if he has nice hands.

Brown eyes... dark dark brown eyes oooolala

taller than me is good too

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Sat Mar 03, 2007 1:25 pm

minks;566969 wrote: nice well looked after hands, if they are going to be anywhere near me they better be clean.... he it says a lot about a man if he has nice hands.

Brown eyes... dark dark brown eyes oooolala

taller than me is good too

but minks your 6 foot seven :wah: :wah:

not really

minks · Post by **minks** » Sat Mar 03, 2007 1:58 pm

jimbo;566971 wrote: but minks your 6 foot seven :wah: :wah:

not really

yes and therein lies my dating issues

ahahaha Jimbo too funny

choccyclaire · Post by **choccyclaire** » Sat Mar 03, 2007 2:32 pm

Biggest turn off is a liar.

crazygal · Post by **crazygal** » Sat Mar 03, 2007 2:33 pm

Oh yes Claire, especially compulsive liars that can't help themselves. Had an ex like that. He said he didn't know why he did it and it was about the most stupid things.

CrazyCruizChick · Post by **CrazyCruizChick** » Sun Mar 11, 2007 5:12 am

choccyclaire;567009 wrote: Biggest turn off is a liar.

Totaly agree with the lieing , I dont like lair's .

Cant stand a man who snors :wah: I love my sleep to much !

I like a man who is confident without being cocky or arrogant , good looking , GSOH and would have to have loads of money for me to spend hehe! :wah:

And he must love cats too!