I'm not a jealous person so maybe I'm the wrong person to answer this...:-3
but I figure if someone's going to cheat they're going to do it no matter what....
I hear ya. I not too sure if it would be the jealous factor as much as the compition factor. If your man went out lookin all dapper dan ish to meet his ex ?
Pinky wrote: Yeah, exactly. Sometimes it's just good to put old ghosts to rest. Besides, if a person is meant to come into your life, you're just as likely to meet them on the street.
Additionally, aren't we making assumptions about Susie that we shouldn't be?
That's not nice.
I did'nt mean to imply that at all. I apologize if it came out that way. It was just a hypothetical question.:-5
TG. Like catching up with old friends. There's nothing wrong with that. After all, if you and this guy were meant to be, he would have stayed around and married ya.
Sometimes bumping into ones exes can be kind of confronting.
One Saturday morning I was pushing a supermarket trolley full to the brim with a weeks shopping including a large tray of sausages and a beef roast for the weekend. Slopping in an old tracksuit, two toddlers bellowing round my ankles and eight months pregnant. Tired. Great time to run into the old flame and his mega slim, mega glam wife who was sporting a paris frock. I talked nappies and playgroups. They talked art galleries and wine tastings. It really rubbed my nose in life choices. But hey, I wouldn't really have swapped, not really .. just occasionally I daydreamed a bit.
Ran into him again much later. And he told me he just couldn't get that image out of his head. The kids. He'd always wanted kids and had none. And the meat.. she was a vegetarian... grin... So there ya go.