Cancer and marriage

lady cop · Post by **lady cop** » Sat Feb 19, 2005 11:15 am

first let me say hello and welcome to FG...there are so many kind, caring , intelligent and life-experienced people here , i feel sure you will get some helpful advice, as well as reassurance. i am so sorry to hear what you are going through, and can only hope you are given the strength you need . :-6

Paula · Post by **Paula** » Sat Feb 19, 2005 11:23 am

Hello & I can relate to your situation. My husband has been in recovery from surgery & yes it does affect ones life. Its been 6 weeks of pure agony between therapy, traveling and other assorted doctor appointments. Its taking longer than expected as he has "other" ailments that slow the healing process. There is hope, "i think", only time can determine if the marriage survives, i have thought of sending him to a shelter, but i gave him another chance. I am taking care of him, mistreat me & on a good day for you could mean being alone...bite back, its okay.

jahamaa · Post by **jahamaa** » Sat Feb 19, 2005 11:50 am

God Bless both of you and Good luck!!!

I think your marriage will fare well or poorly depending in the strength not of your love but of your comitment to each other. I really beleive this, if you make up your mind to make it thruugh together you will.

You will be in my prayers