Someone for everyone redux

valerie · Post by **valerie** » Tue May 02, 2006 12:24 pm

KUALA LUMPUR, Malaysia (AP) - A 33-year-old man in northern Malaysia has married a 104-year-old woman, saying mutual respect and friendship had turned to love, a news report said Tuesday.

It was Muhamad Noor Che Musa's first marriage and his wife's 21st, according to The Star newspaper which cited a report in the Malay-language Harian Metro tabloid.

Muhamad, an ex-army serviceman said he found peace and a sense of belonging after meeting Wook Kundor, whom he said he initially sympathized with because she was childless, old and alone, the report said.

"I am not after her money, as she is poor," Muhamad reportedly said. "Before meeting Wook, I never stayed in one place for long."

He said he hoped to help his new bride to master Roman script while she taught him Islamic religious knowledge.

The report did not say if any of Wook's previous 20 husbands are still alive.

Malaysian Muslim men are allowed by their religion to take up to four wives at a time, but reports of women who marry more than once are rare. Muslim women do not practice polygamy. Malaysia's 26 million population comprises about 60 percent Muslims, almost all ethnic Malays. Large ethnic Chinese and Indian minorities are Buddhists, Hindus or Christians.

buttercup · Post by **buttercup** » Tue May 02, 2006 2:35 pm

maybe sex is not important to them, there's a lot to be said for mutual respect & friendship in a relationship

im well aware there is often an alterior motive to big age gap relationships but i would like to think if i found someone who i wanted/needed to be with age/sex just wouldent come into it

buttercup · Post by **buttercup** » Tue May 02, 2006 2:54 pm

awwww how sad you feel that way snooze, are you bitter towards men, have you been hurt?

buttercup · Post by **buttercup** » Tue May 02, 2006 2:58 pm

oh i was going with the rolls eyes smillie, i seldom get your humour snooze, sorry

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Tue May 02, 2006 3:32 pm

I dont know about all of that but dont you just love saying Kuala Lampur ?

Kuala Lampur Kuala Lampur Kuala Lampur

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Tue May 02, 2006 3:34 pm

Stop being catty you guys.

buttercup · Post by **buttercup** » Tue May 02, 2006 3:38 pm

Nomad wrote: Stop being catty you guys.

if im included in that nomie (only 4 of us in the thread) i'd like to point out to you that i really dont get snooze's humour & ive said this to her many times before

if i had a major issue with her i'd p.m her

chonsigirl · Post by **chonsigirl** » Tue May 02, 2006 4:14 pm

I wonder if she outlived all her husbands.............................

Rapunzel · Post by **Rapunzel** » Tue May 02, 2006 5:42 pm

Nomad wrote: I dont know about all of that but dont you just love saying Kuala Lampur ?

Kuala Lampur Kuala Lampur Kuala Lampur

It's a lump not a lamp! Lol! :wah:

Rapunzel · Post by **Rapunzel** » Tue May 02, 2006 5:44 pm

SnoozeControl wrote: I wonder how their sex life is...

well, 33 goes into 104, several times! :yh_rotfl :yh_rotfl

DesignerGal · Post by **DesignerGal** » Tue May 02, 2006 6:24 pm

buttercup wrote: if im included in that nomie (only 4 of us in the thread) i'd like to point out to you that i really dont get snooze's humour & ive said this to her many times before

if i had a major issue with her i'd p.m her

ddddddddddddraaaaaaaaammmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmaaaaaaaaaa.

buttercup · Post by **buttercup** » Wed May 03, 2006 1:37 am

actually the reason why i posted it was so there was no drama dg

its best to clear up misunderstandings before they escalate

back to the point - i worked in an old folks home for a while & a couple moved in, the husband asked for a twin room as most were single occupancy only, he pointed out him & his wife still had an active sex life, they were in thier 90's

good on em