News from my sister in Sandiago

Bez · Post by **Bez** » Sun Mar 12, 2006 11:18 am

My sister is 7 yrs older than me (66) and has lived in the US for 40 years...I have just had this devastating news from her...I'm gutted...

"I have breast cancer again.and will be seeing a surgeon on Mondaymorning. I expect to have a double radical

mastectomy. Well thats the not so good news

however the areas are still non invasive ductal

carsimnoma in situ. (check it out on the

internet. My decision to have both breasts

removed is solely because I don't want to emerge

5 years hence with the disease in my left breast.

The kids are ready to take their turns at being

with me this time ane are just waiting for the

dates!! You only stay in the hospital one night

and go home with drains in!!."

lady cop · Post by **lady cop** » Sun Mar 12, 2006 11:19 am

so sad to read this Bez...will you be coming over to states? :yh_flower

chonsigirl · Post by **chonsigirl** » Sun Mar 12, 2006 11:21 am

Oh, Bez, I am so sorry to hear this.

*big hug*

I will keep her in my prayers.

Please keep us posted about your sister.

Bez · Post by **Bez** » Sun Mar 12, 2006 11:26 am

lady cop wrote: so sad to read this Bez...will you be coming over to states? :yh_flower

I'd like to ...have to see how things go.

lady cop · Post by **lady cop** » Sun Mar 12, 2006 11:28 am

Bez wrote: I'd like to ...have to see how things go.i'm sending this to Carla, she would love to meet you, and she's a sweetheart!

Sheryl · Post by **Sheryl** » Sun Mar 12, 2006 11:34 am

I'm so sorry Bez. I will keep your sister in my thoughts and prayers.

CARLA · Post by **CARLA** » Sun Mar 12, 2006 11:36 am

Bez, If there is anything I can do for you here in San Diego let me know. I don't have an extra bedroom at this time with my daughter and granddaughter living with me, but your more than welcome to have my room if you need it. I love to sleep in my lazy boy recliner, or on the couch.

So sorry to hear about you sister, could you tell me what hospital she is having this surgery done at??

Where in San Diego does your sister live??

Bez · Post by **Bez** » Sun Mar 12, 2006 11:37 am

Thanks Sheryl...my brother has had cancer as well...it's kind of scary..

sorry I've spelt San Diego wrong everyone....can't seem to be able to change it.

Post by **Betty Boop** » Sun Mar 12, 2006 11:39 am

:yh_hugs to you Bez, keep us posted on her progress.

theia · Post by **theia** » Sun Mar 12, 2006 11:42 am

My thoughts and love are with you, Bez, and your sister

Uncle Kram · Post by **Uncle Kram** » Sun Mar 12, 2006 12:08 pm

Sorry to hear your news Bez. You must be really worried. It's a drastic measure she's taking, but wise I think to reduce the risk and hopefully emerge with a happy ending. Best wishes to you and your big sis

Unc xxx :yh_hugs

cars · Post by **cars** » Sun Mar 12, 2006 12:32 pm

So sorry to hear the sad news Bez, your sister will be in my thoughts & prayers.

Also, I'm sure I don't have to tell you how important it is for you to make sure that you go reguarly for your regular checkups, due to your family history!

Bez · Post by **Bez** » Sun Mar 12, 2006 12:35 pm

cars wrote: So sorry to hear the sad news Bez, your sister will be in my thoughts & prayers.

Also, I'm sure I don't have to tell you how important it is for you to make sure that you go reguarly for your regular checkups, due to your family history!

Spookily enough, I have had an appointment sent to me for March 28th. Over here every woman over 50 is checked every 3 years and a computer generated appointment is sent out for this free service. Thanks for your kind thoughts Cars.

abbey · Post by **abbey** » Sun Mar 12, 2006 1:19 pm

Bez, i'm sure it does'nt make you worry any less, but for what its worth i think your

sis is making the right decision, best to be safe than sorry eh?

My thoughts are with you and yours. :-4

Lil~Basco · Post by **Lil~Basco** » Sun Mar 12, 2006 1:44 pm

So sorry to hear about your sister Bez. My thoughts and prayers are with her. Hugs to you Bez. :-4

OpenMind · Post by **OpenMind** » Sun Mar 12, 2006 3:17 pm

My thoughts and prayers go out to your sis and all of you. Hugs, too, Bez.:yh_hugs :yh_hugs

Rapunzel · Post by **Rapunzel** » Sun Mar 12, 2006 4:40 pm

Uncle Kram wrote: Sorry to hear your news Bez. You must be really worried. It's a drastic measure she's taking, but wise I think to reduce the risk and hopefully emerge with a happy ending. Best wishes to you and your big sis

Unc xxx :yh_hugs

Oh Bez, big hugs to you and your sister and all your family. You're also in my thoughts and prayers. Like Unc says, it may be a drastic choice but also the best. My aunt had a lumpectomy when she had breast cancer, but says now she wishes she's had a mastectomy as she would no longer worry so much about a relapse. Very best wishes to you all. XX :yh_flower :yh_hugs :yh_hugs

weeder · Post by **weeder** » Sun Mar 12, 2006 5:27 pm

Sorry, Sorry , Sorry, Bez. Have hope .. weve made great strides with breast cancer, The double masectomy is a very agressive approach... and wise. If your sister was coming to UVA in Virginia... a bed would be yours. All the love and good energy sent your way... will have an effect.

Jcas · Post by **Jcas** » Sun Mar 12, 2006 5:43 pm

I really feel for you all. This is a very difficult time, but you will all be im my prayers.

I know the feeling, as my cousin has breast cancer, and my sister just been diagnosed with lymphoma.

I think the drastic measure is the only one to take, and i will be thinking of her, she sounds like she has a positive outlook, and that is what it takes to get through these times.

Accountable · Post by **Accountable** » Sun Mar 12, 2006 5:48 pm

:yh_flower I'll keep you and your sister in my thoughts, Bez. :yh_flower

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Mon Mar 13, 2006 1:41 am

Im sorry Bezzy. If theres a way to see beyond her circumstances, it might be that its merely her body, her mind, heart and soul are her essence.

Blessings.

chrisb84uk · Post by **chrisb84uk** » Mon Mar 13, 2006 4:48 am

Really sorry to hear about this Bez. Best wishes and thoughts to you, your sister and the rest of your family.

pantsonfire321@aol.com · Mon Mar 13, 2006 5:02 am

Bez always have hope - all the best.

sunny104 · Post by **sunny104** » Mon Mar 13, 2006 6:27 am

Oh Bez, I'm so sorry to hear that! My thoughts and prayers are with you!

Raven · Post by **Raven** » Mon Mar 13, 2006 8:06 am

Bez wrote: My sister is 7 yrs older than me (66) and has lived in the US for 40 years...I have just had this devastating news from her...I'm gutted...

"I have breast cancer again.and will be seeing a surgeon on Mondaymorning. I expect to have a double radical

mastectomy. Well thats the not so good news

however the areas are still non invasive ductal

carsimnoma in situ. (check it out on the

internet. My decision to have both breasts

removed is solely because I don't want to emerge

5 years hence with the disease in my left breast.

The kids are ready to take their turns at being

with me this time ane are just waiting for the

dates!! You only stay in the hospital one night

and go home with drains in!!."
Oh honey! I'm so sorry! I just saw this!

My mother had a similar thing done, Bez. I can assure you it will be okay. They have made miraculous strides in breast cancer. My mom went home with her drains too. It's suprising, but it really is okay. I went home to take care of her when she got home from the hospital.

You are both in our hearts and prayers sweetheart.

minks · Post by **minks** » Mon Mar 13, 2006 8:32 am

Raven wrote: Oh honey! I'm so sorry! I just saw this!

My mother had a similar thing done, Bez. I can assure you it will be okay. They have made miraculous strides in breast cancer. My mom went home with her drains too. It's suprising, but it really is okay. I went home to take care of her when she got home from the hospital.

You are both in our hearts and prayers sweetheart.

Oh Bezzy I mirror Ravens words. My mom is a breast cancer survivor as well. Sweetie I wear my pink ribbon daily for mom and now for your sis as well.

Huggs sweetie.

jennyswan · Post by **jennyswan** » Tue Mar 14, 2006 2:49 pm

Hi Bez, sorry to hear this news. Hugs for you and your sister. Love Jenny :-4

Bez · Post by **Bez** » Thu Apr 13, 2006 1:43 pm

My sister was doing so well after the double mastectomy....now they've found a different kind of cancer and she has to have her lymph nodes removed and then chemo...lifes a bitch sometimes...

weeder · Post by **weeder** » Thu Apr 13, 2006 2:15 pm

Im late , as usual to hear of your heartache. I know it must be difficult for you not to be with your sister. My prayers are with you both. Im certain she is in good hands medically and they are coming up with new treatments every day.

chonsigirl · Post by **chonsigirl** » Thu Apr 13, 2006 2:16 pm

*big hug*

We will remember your dear sister in our prayers.

Accountable · Post by **Accountable** » Thu Apr 13, 2006 8:06 pm

My thoughts are with you and your sister. :yh_flower