What would you do?

Post by **Betty Boop** » Fri Dec 16, 2005 4:15 pm

anewlife wrote: Girlfriend problem...

OK - we are having lots of fun (translate that however you wish...it is true:sneaky: ) but she is constantly on the marriage baby kick (she is 40). I told her that I felt a lot of pressure from her about the same and she gets soooo mad!

She wants to be married, wants kids etc. ...but yesterday.

I told her our timeframe is not the same and she gives me the cold shoulder and perhaps we should see other people... I feel like I am a means to an end.

Fish or cut bait?

Anyone?

I guess if you don't feel you can give her what she wants then you'd better set her free.

chonsigirl · Post by **chonsigirl** » Fri Dec 16, 2005 4:17 pm

Let her go if that is not in your future, she has a timetable like Snooze said.

Post by **Betty Boop** » Fri Dec 16, 2005 4:19 pm

SnoozeControl wrote: See how nice Betty is? That's probably what I should've said.

NICE!!! I hate being nice!! got to get some bad attitude from somewhere!!:wah:

booradley · Post by **booradley** » Fri Dec 16, 2005 4:56 pm

anewlife wrote: Girlfriend problem...

OK - we are having lots of fun (translate that however you wish...it is true:sneaky: ) but she is constantly on the marriage baby kick (she is 40). I told her that I felt a lot of pressure from her about the same and she gets soooo mad!

She wants to be married, wants kids etc. ...but yesterday.

I told her our timeframe is not the same and she gives me the cold shoulder and perhaps we should see other people... I feel like I am a means to an end.

Fish or cut bait?

Anyone?

well I'd be tempted to tell her babies at forty will come out with with two heads and webbed fingers

Peg · Post by **Peg** » Fri Dec 16, 2005 5:10 pm

Her biological clock is ticking and she isn't willing to wait. You a newly divorced, have kids, not ready to start over perhaps. Let her move on. Sounds like she wants marriage for the wrong reasons.

lady cop · Post by **lady cop** » Fri Dec 16, 2005 5:17 pm

Far Rider wrote: You coward!

ARE THERE NO REAL MEN LEFT IN THE WORLD!

YOU LED HER ON TO GET WHAT YOU WANTED, NOW SHE TELLS YOU WHAT SHE WANTS AND YOU BALK!

YOU SUCK BUDDY!

LEAVE HER ALONE AND LET HER FIND A REAL MAN!:yh_worshp :yh_clap :yh_clap ...

Shweet tatersalad · Post by **Shweet tatersalad** » Fri Dec 16, 2005 5:54 pm

Sounds like she wants too make life with you,you got what you wanted from her and now it's time time step up and be the man you said you were.If you can't grow up and do the right thing then let her go and be happy with some one who will give the respect and the security she needs.

SOJOURNER · Post by **SOJOURNER** » Fri Dec 16, 2005 6:29 pm

Far, you are awesome!

Shweet tatersalad · Post by **Shweet tatersalad** » Fri Dec 16, 2005 6:30 pm

SnoozeControl wrote: That's a very nice post, tater. I take back the unkind remark I made in your intro thread.

Thats nice.Don't ever take anything back,it shows you are week.but I have only been here a short time and i feel i have made a ill effrot to fit in.I'm not good at fitting in,I don't conform well.I have been booted from many boards because i speak my mind.

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Fri Dec 16, 2005 6:35 pm

Betty Boop wrote: NICE!!! I hate being nice!! got to get some bad attitude from somewhere!!:wah:

Oh yea you bad...bad Betty Boop. I just hurt myself rolling my eyes too hard.:rolleyes:

StupidCowboyTricks · Post by **StupidCowboyTricks** » Fri Dec 16, 2005 6:38 pm

ArnoldLayne wrote: I like that Snooze. A common problem

..........................................-me too Snooze

.....................................................:-4 -sigh!

Post by **Betty Boop** » Sat Dec 17, 2005 3:58 am

flopstock wrote: I love it when I get to disagree with you folks..

and you do it with such grace Floppy

Shweet tatersalad · Post by **Shweet tatersalad** » Sat Dec 17, 2005 6:09 am

SnoozeControl wrote: Do you confuse weakness with kindness?

Nope.

But it might be a example of your decision makeing skills,if you commit,(i.e. when you say something)too something,stand by it,don't go back on it,dael with what you said,the other person will exept you as a stand up secure person.And respect you for your honesty.

Marriage and kids and building a future takes dedication and hard work too acheive a common goal,you have too want too do it,if have any doubts or are not sure about yourself,you will fail.If you can't get this mind set than at least love her enough too let her be happy with someone who is.

Than you can go back to the bar and pick up some empty headed bar cow for your jollys and and have too worry ant trouble,you can do this fore ever if you want,but some day your emptyness will haunt you.And you can't count on your sexual proless too last forever,thats why erectil drugs are so populer.Lots of men trying too recapture there youth.