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kumininexile
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The Case For Voluntary Reinstitutionalization

by

Philip A. Kumin



To say that when I developed mental problems at the age of 18 in 1971, I had no idea what profound and protracted changes were about to be wreaked upon my life, this today might sound like a mere statement of the obvious. But it is true.

Little did I know that for the initial two or three years of my disability, I would wander streets and countryside homelessly, or find myself in jails and mental institutions. The good news, back then, was that I would eventually decide there was enough hope for something better in life, to make a mostly-successful struggle for recovery. Today, I'm a semi-well known advocate, endeavoring to become moreso.

There were years in between, however, which have left indelible marks upon my soul. I lost all jobs, I had no Social Security benefits, and I had no subsidized housing. I had no proper psychiatric treatment, and after a while, I could not even draw unemployment benefits any longer. To this day I continue to struggle with a family which, with one notable exception, continues to blame me for my own misfortunes and gives me no respect. I must acknowledge that I recently wrote a horrific letter to the Chairman of the Psychology Dept. at the U. of M., College Park, in which I accused the mental health professions, in concert with advocates, of imposing deinstitutionalization upon us merely to save taxpayers money. I predicted that while the majority of a now-lost first generation of former inmates has long since either been returned to institutions permanently, are in prison, or are dead, there may still be as many as four or five of my brethren wandering through the streets and countryside of America after some 25 years of deinstitutionalization for them. I wouldn't be surprised if this man never speaks to me again.

Interestingly enough, I have a good friend named Jennie who's a psychiatric nurse at Crownsville Hospital. Jennie knows that what I want the most now is to find a non-disabled woman of my own Jewish ethnicity, with whom I can spend the rest of my life. Jennie says that there is just such a young social worker there, and she has promised to introduce us.

I also have a friend who, at the height of his delusional psychosis, castrated himself not once, but twice. Until recently, he kept talking of having, "lost his faith," although he now says he has found it again. At the time, I simply wanted to help my friend in any way I could, whenever I observed his sad fundamentalism.

After so many years I, too, have lost my faith, though I'm also hoping to get it back again. I'm looking forward to meeting Jennie's friend, and am hoping she will become a good one of mine as well.
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Which do you mean is upbeat? My piece, or existentialism?

No, deinstitutionalization didn't take place exclusively during the Reagan era. My take on the situation is that the policy of deintitutionalization had its place in the evolutionary chain of fiscal history in the US and around the world. Because the cost of living never stops going up, it's understood by economists that periodically new, "technologies," have to be devised which will result in savings to the taxpayers. There must have been such a concern in the 1940's or '50's. And so, voila', this led to the invention of psychiatric drugs in the Fifties, which would enable patients to live outside of institutions for the first time, provided they were willing and able to take the medication(s) prescribed for them regularly, (the 64 million dollar question.) It wasn't anticipated that large numbers of patients would not be willing or able to take the meds, or that there would be any good reasons why that was so.

Anticpating the imminent release of multitudes of patients from public hospitals, Congress passed the Community Mental Health Centers Act in 1962, which was signed into law by President Kennedy. This provided federal money to establish clinics around the country where patients could go to pick up the prescriptions they would need for their medications, and where they could also talk to a trained therapist if they needed/wanted to. It wasn't understood that patients were going to need a lot of other resources besides clinics, if they were going to be able to live in the community successfully. There was also no consideration given whatsoever to the fact that patients were going to be miserable outside of institutions upon discovering that they were going to be denied the chance to hold a job, be welcomed by their families, be free from stigma, and therefore lead decent, worthwhile lives. By the time the 1970's rolled around, enough preliminary infrastructure was thought to have been put in place for states to begin the process of emptying out their psychiatric warehouses. The biggest reason why homelessness among people with mental problems became the publicized disgrace that it did during the Reagan era was because it was only by that time that a sufficently large enough number of patients had been discharged, so as to be visible. This is not to say that Reagan's budget cuts helped the situation any.

As for the friend of mine who castrated himself twice, I can't say how he did it since he never displayed the injured part of himself to me. One testicle the first time, then he went back for the other one later on? (Beats the living Hell outta me.)

This guy was a Born Again Christian-type. That was what I was talking about when I said he used to talk about having, "lost his faith." That's also what I was refering to when I said something about his, "sad fundamentalism." I meant religious fundamentalism. I've never been sure whether or not that was clear.
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And your problem is ?

Maybe you should get a life and quit thinking yourself as some sort of non human deranged sort of person and put your apparent brillant writing ability & pretty intelligent mind to some use other than whining and feeling sorry for yourself ?



You seem pretty intelligent - why not see what is good in life - like being alive - and do some good for the lesser of human begins.
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Sorry, I did not mean to sound so harsh.
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CrazyMazy wrote: Sorry, I did not mean to sound so harsh.don't worry, it only made him go swallow 14 bottles of pepto bismol. :-3
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Well, CrazyMazy, I can't say I entirely resent your assessment of me, because I'm thoroughly aware that somebody reading my initial post might get a similar impression, (assuming I care one way or the other, which I honestly don't.) At this point in my life, the therapist who I now see is focusing his efforts on reducing the likelihood I'll get into any trouble with the law as a result of the past 35 years of non-stop trauma I've endured. And mind you, criminality is not something which runs in my family, or in the culture I come from. By and large, Jews don't wind up in jail.

I've been caught in a kind of, "double vise," for years and years: on one hand having, "mental problems," is not anymore accepted by the Jews as a viable explanation for failure, than it is by any other ethnic group of people. As a result, there has never been anyone in my family who has ever accepted my failure to live a happy life, as being anyone else's fault but my own, (they say.) Researchers can come up with all the concrete biological explanations they want for the existence of mental illness: not one bit of it is ever going to mean, "**** to a tree," to any Jew. Some years ago my father, (who is a tyrant,) set up a trust fund for me when he realized it was unlikely I would ever be self-supporting. Well, that's fine in principle. Well, and good. And so you might then ask why I am so ungrateful such as to call him a, "tyrant," when he has gone to the trouble of providing for me? First, you have to understand something about one of the tenets of Judaism, and that is, that a Jew is considered to have a moral responsibility to provide financially for every member of his or her family, regardless of whether or not he/she has any regard at all for a particular relative in any other way. Yup, you heard that right: a Jew may very well help a relative financially who they personally despise. What that translated into in my father's case is that he used the trust fund he set up for me to manipulate me around, control every single facet of my life, and generally make life as unbearable for me as he could, knowing that I had no other choice but to be dependent on what he gave me. He deliberately set this trust up with my Social Security number on it, (which meant that I was always responsible for paying the income taxes on it,) while he also had control of how much money I either did or didn't get from it at any particular time. This atrocious and insane situation went on for years and years and years before I could get the legal help I needed to put a stop to it. My entire family considers me to be a good-for-nothing child/brother/nephew because they think I've been merely, "disobedient," to all of them. My act of disobedience? Not being able to hold a job!

The other, "vise," I've been in simultaneously for years has been the unwillingness of employers/coworkers to allow me to retain any job they might confer on me at first. God only knows, I tried to hold a job!! For eight or ten years, I stupidly went from job to job to job, refusing to go the route of entitlements, (which I'm on now anyway in addition to my trust fund money) and which I should have gone for in the first place. Like the assholish idiot I was for so long, every time I lost another job, I'd simply pick myself up, dust myself off, and go out and get another job. Well, you know what? NEVER, EVER, EVER, am I EVER gonna do that again!! How ****ing stupid I was! Did I ever get any credit from anyone in this butt**** Universe for those heroic efforts I was making to stay employed? ****, NO! I never had to work in the first place: I could have, and should have gotten on Social Secirity benefits from the gitgo. But like the idiot I must have been, I thought I would, "do the right thing, " and be a working, taxpaying citizen. What confounding balderdash!

As for your pronouncement that I should simply, "quit feeling sorry for myself," and go out and do something for the, "lesser human beings," in the world, well I happen to BE one of those lesser human beings. If you think I will EVER again make the mistake of putting someone else's concerns before my own, than you're nuts up a tree.
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kumininexile I spoke before without thinking. I apologize again. It had been a rough day at work, I was tired and had had a few beers.

I was/am impressed with your writing ability and the way your express yourself. You seem well educated and sort of got tick that someone with your ability could feel so not worthy when I myself would die for a good education. It has always been one of my goals in life as I had children very early in life and it has been pushed aside raising and struggling to support myself and the kids until just recently.

But I did speak out of turn as I do not know you and have not walked in your shoes. I should not of judged you.

I know it is hard to shake the family impressions or guilt trips placed on you all your life. I too have been in conflict with those same types of issues whne I was younger - not till I finally decided that they were the ones who had problems - not me - was I able to escape those binds.

I wish you luck and hope one day you too can find some happiness in your life

I am jewish also ( but did not find out until I was in my late 30's )
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hi Snooze - Thank you for the welcome ~

Newbie here I hope I did not get off on the wrong foot !
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Nomad wrote: Someone obviously spent a great deal of time and commited energy and thoughtfulness to their words and sentiments. The very least you can do lady is not speak. I suspect the most you could do would be to not be such a rigid bitch and find a little compassion in your heart for someone who has been through the ringer and is trying to find normalcy and lead a happy and healthy life. Exile good luck I hope things go well with your new friend.

Crazy May...Merry Christmas.:rolleyes:


yeah whatever
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CrazyMazy, your apologies are entirely accepted. By the way, I didn't realize you're a newbie here. Since I've now been so informed, let me add my own to the chorus of warm greetings to you! And while we're at it, Happy Holidays, too!

(It's supposed to snow here tonight.)
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Hello Exile, i just wanted to say i find what you have written absolutely fascinating. I cant even begin to imagine how hopeless things must have seemed for you at times. You have my utmost admiration, and i wish you the best of luck on your journey. I hope it has a happy ending :)
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Snoozie:

Now, I'm really laffin'. My sister's name is, "Susie," which is what I've always called her. Now here I am addressing you as, "Snoozie!" HA. HA. HA!

Anyway, in reply to your question about whether or not I meant my acceptance of CrazyMazy's apology sarcastically the answer is: absolutely not. That post/acceptance was meant with the utmost sincerity.

By the way, it DID snow here last night.
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Snoozie:

I'm still here. I just sent you a, "private message." Maybe it didn't go through. I sent it to you by going to your profile.
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SnoozeControl wrote: Hey K... I promise to not stalk you anymore. In fact, I'll even ignore your posts if you wish. You can come back now.:yh_angel




I want that ! How do I get that ? Sign me up please ! :p
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Stop ignoring me now please. I cant take it anymore. Im under the sneezer spell and I require a fix very soon. Thank you.
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Snoozie, DO NOT cease stalking me. DO NOT ignore my posts. One of the reasons I don't post more often is because everybody else ignores me.

I've been waiting for a girl like you...

Nomad, thanks for sticking up for me a few posts back.

different, many thanks for your warm remarks.
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