Sex Appeal

SOJOURNER · Post by **SOJOURNER** » Tue Nov 15, 2005 9:51 pm

What is that speacial something that we refer to as "sex appeal"? Can we put it into words? Think about those appealing others that have been in your life and

If you are a woman, tell us what is it that you find appealing in a man;

and if you are a man, tell us what it is that you find appealing in a woman............

devist8me · Post by **devist8me** » Tue Nov 15, 2005 10:09 pm

Genuine self confidence and assertiveness for starters.

TenneseeGirl · Post by **TenneseeGirl** » Tue Nov 15, 2005 11:09 pm

sex appeal-- alot of it has to do with confidence and the ability to share the shared appeal if that makes sence

sherry · Post by **sherry** » Wed Nov 16, 2005 2:04 am

It's a bit weird really. You can look at a photo of someone and not find them attractive at all. But then when you meet them it's like "POW!" they are the most fanciable person in the world!

Sense of humour does it for me, if he can make me laugh he's 95% of the way there.

theia · Post by **theia** » Wed Nov 16, 2005 2:27 am

A ridiculous sense of humour, insight, intelligence, and the ability to see things differently or from a variety of different perspectives...and a degree of compassion for all things...

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Wed Nov 16, 2005 2:33 am

I like a woman whos not afraid to stick bananas in her ears and make choo choo train noises. That is sex appeal to me.

theia · Post by **theia** » Wed Nov 16, 2005 2:36 am

Nomad wrote: I like a woman whos not afraid to stick bananas in her ears and make choo choo train noises. That is sex appeal to me.

Sorry, Nomad, I didn't quite hear that...

chuff, chuff, chuff...

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Wed Nov 16, 2005 2:37 am

LOL !!! tick tock...tick tock :-3

theia · Post by **theia** » Wed Nov 16, 2005 2:44 am

Nomad wrote: LOL !!! tick tock...tick tock :-3

Nomad, stop it :wah: I've got so much to do and I can't apply myself to anything...cases one third packed, house needing cleaning...and all I can do is sit here and panic :-5

Bella_Boo · Post by **Bella_Boo** » Wed Nov 16, 2005 2:47 am

SOJOURNER wrote: What is that speacial something that we refer to as "sex appeal"? Can we put it into words? Think about those appealing others that have been in your life and

If you are a woman, tell us what is it that you find appealing in a man;

and if you are a man, tell us what it is that you find appealing in a woman............

Sex appeal is a state of mind... There is nothing sexier than seeing a woman confident in herself - no matter what she looks like - to be confident in herself and stall tall and be strong

for men - there is something amazing when you see men that arent scared... not scared to show their feelings, not scared to stand out in a crowd, not scared to say how they feel - thats sex appreal to me.........

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Wed Nov 16, 2005 2:49 am

I think its just tick supposed to be that tock way. Your fine ! :-6

theia · Post by **theia** » Wed Nov 16, 2005 2:55 am

Nomad wrote: I think its just tick supposed to be that tock way. Your fine ! :-6

*theia runs from the computer, screaming and holding her head in her hands...*

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Wed Nov 16, 2005 3:05 am

Your sweet. Big hugs !

Post by **Betty Boop** » Wed Nov 16, 2005 7:06 am

Bella_Boo wrote: Sex appeal is a state of mind... There is nothing sexier than seeing a woman confident in herself - no matter what she looks like - to be confident in herself and stall tall and be strong

for men - there is something amazing when you see men that arent scared... not scared to show their feelings, not scared to stand out in a crowd, not scared to say how they feel - thats sex appreal to me.........

I have to agree with Bella.

It's also in a mans eyes for me.

Peg · Post by **Peg** » Wed Nov 16, 2005 7:25 am

Sex appeal to me is definitely about attitude. Confidence without arrogance.

minks · Post by **minks** » Wed Nov 16, 2005 9:58 am

Oooo phyically for me, good hands, clean well kept hands.... mmmmmmm

and second a man who is comfortable in his own skin, one who isn't afraid to like something that maybe isn't "manly" hehehehe ie my guy loves the color purple, is happy to run to the store in his sweats and is happy as a lark to wear big comfy slippers about the house and has no troubles with me seeing this side of him. Confidence baby he has loads of it.

Galbally · Post by **Galbally** » Wed Nov 16, 2005 11:06 am

Hmmmn, sex appeal, eh? Well I like women who are smart, funny, self aware, confident, cool (as in demure), and feminine. Thats the most important stuff, In terms of looks Redheads with green eyes really do it for me, and curvy not skinny. I really think like most people here that confidence (but not arrogance) is the X factor for both sexes.

Oh and I do like those girls with glasses and long hair, so that when they get home (in their doctor's uniform) they can sweep off the glasses and shake out the hair! Men are pathetic really aren't they, its a case of put on a french maid outfit, pout a bit and their like puppies, we know its stupid, but we can't help it!

minks · Post by **minks** » Wed Nov 16, 2005 12:23 pm

Galbally wrote: Hmmmn, sex appeal, eh? Well I like women who are smart, funny, self aware, confident, cool (as in demure), and feminine. Thats the most important stuff, In terms of looks Redheads with green eyes really do it for me, and curvy not skinny. I really think like most people here that confidence (but not arrogance) is the X factor for both sexes.

Oh and I do like those girls with glasses and long hair, so that when they get home (in their doctor's uniform) they can sweep off the glasses and shake out the hair! Men are pathetic really aren't they, its a case of put on a french maid outfit, pout a bit and their like puppies, we know its stupid, but we can't help it!

more proof men are both visual and tactile ahahahahaha

hehehehehe

give me a man with a good healthy appitite for the outdoors, oooo yeah, healthy tan, legs that look good in shorts, t-shirt and one of those crazy outback hats and I am so there following.

Lil~Basco · Post by **Lil~Basco** » Wed Nov 16, 2005 3:35 pm

A man has to be excited by his life,

have dreams that are worth turning into reality,

a great smile and attitude to match,

accepts what is without requiring change,

fun to be with, even without conversing,

a person that can laugh at the silliest things without being judgemental,

a person to snuggle up with, long walks in the rain with,

one who can enjoy sliding in a bubble bath with his woman not caring about the fragrance in the bath and what he'll smell like afterwards,

someone that never lets the flame of romance and spontaneity burn out!

minks · Post by **minks** » Wed Nov 16, 2005 3:44 pm

SnoozeControl wrote:

he will do

nvalleyvee · Post by **nvalleyvee** » Wed Nov 16, 2005 5:48 pm

Peg wrote: Sex appeal to me is definitely about attitude. Confidence without arrogance.

Oh yea - you are talking my language there Peg.

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Wed Nov 16, 2005 6:54 pm

Far guy quote *I do tend to look at women that are more imperfect when it comes to the "model and star standards"... I think the "Soccer Moms" are very sexy as oppsoed to the "models".*

Im very much this way. The Pamela Andersons and Britneys or what not, dont do a thing for me, too Hollywood and just icky. Homegrown is good.

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Wed Nov 16, 2005 7:35 pm

Jeans a simple shirt or blouse a ball cap with their hair pulled through the hole in a ponytail! It says fun! It says sassy! it says Im not gonna break a prissy nail playing ball with the family!

Dude ! A ponytail coming through the baseball cap is my all time # 1 hands down favorite look. You got it ! Cute & sassy !

Bella_Boo · Post by **Bella_Boo** » Wed Nov 16, 2005 11:04 pm

Far Rider wrote: seesh im gettin scared now!:-3

what if the woman has short hair?

Galbally · Post by **Galbally** » Thu Nov 17, 2005 2:52 am

Bella_Boo wrote: what if the woman has short hair?

Women with short hair is fine, though I think most men don't find short hair on women very attractive, I don't. Though it somes suit some women, but then it doesn't suit a lot of others. Of course that's not saying women shouldn't have short hair, its their hair and they should wear it whatever way makes them happy, but again it would be silly not to say that most men prefer longer hairstlyes on girls as its more feminine. I think this chnages a bit as you get older, but I havn't got their yet so I can't comment.

jennyswan · Post by **jennyswan** » Thu Nov 17, 2005 8:47 am

A guy who smells good, is clean, I don't mean tie and suit but without and dirt under the finger nails. Beer bellies are definately out! I like a man to be a man - now how do I explain that one, well...

You know he should go out and catch the dinner, come home, and then drag me by the hair to the bedroom. He He He :wah:

Lil~Basco · Post by **Lil~Basco** » Thu Nov 17, 2005 4:43 pm

SOJOURNER wrote: What is that speacial something that we refer to as "sex appeal"? Can we put it into words? Think about those appealing others that have been in your life and

If you are a woman, tell us what is it that you find appealing in a man;

and if you are a man, tell us what it is that you find appealing in a woman............

Sojourner, inquiring minds would like to know, what sex appeal is for you.

It must have been on your mind since you started this thread.

Tell us what you find appealing girl!

lady cop · Post by **lady cop** » Thu Nov 17, 2005 5:43 pm

this will embarrass my self-effacing Brit, but a combination of brilliance, incredible wit and humor, pure kindness and loyalty and being there for me through all the past year has thrown at me, never ever letting me down. in a word, Bothwell. (plus he's cute as hell and has a beautiful accent :yh_flower )

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lady cop · Post by **lady cop** » Thu Nov 17, 2005 5:47 pm

SnoozeControl wrote: You're both cute as hell.

well damn you're sweet!

buttercup · Post by **buttercup** » Thu Nov 17, 2005 5:51 pm

for some its the eyes, the physique, the humour

for me its the smile, its all about the smile

buttercup · Post by **buttercup** » Thu Nov 17, 2005 5:55 pm

Far Rider wrote: hair is not about long or short.

hair is about how the style frames the face... long face short face...hairstyles match faces...

is there a hairdresser here... Butter! somebody find butter she'll tell us!

agrees with far, its not about the length (oh dear ive asked for all sorts of innuendo's on that one :rolleyes: )

tries desparately to redeem herself :wah:

its about the style framing the face, enough said x

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Thu Nov 17, 2005 5:58 pm

Oh no ! The Scotgirl ! Eat any children for breakfast ? :sneaky:

buttercup · Post by **buttercup** » Thu Nov 17, 2005 6:01 pm

Nomad wrote: Oh no ! The Scotgirl ! Eat any children for breakfast ? :sneaky:

i tend to do men for breakfast

Valerie100 · Post by **Valerie100** » Thu Nov 17, 2005 6:02 pm

In a man -- intelligence, strength, financial security and knowing how to treat a woman like a woman!

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Thu Nov 17, 2005 6:03 pm

buttercup wrote: i tend to do men for breakfast

Ye bonny wee lassie ye. :-4

lady cop · Post by **lady cop** » Thu Nov 17, 2005 6:04 pm

SnoozeControl wrote: As a relative newcomer, I'd appreciate a separate thread where you describe the meeting/romance of you two. Was it here?he was in the states and i arrested him.

...no, not really!! but it was instant karma... :yh_yinyan i was on a stakeout/surveillance and he was at this place... i was hiding in a car behind a big sign. we met.

he still says i am lousy at surveillance. :wah:

buttercup · Post by **buttercup** » Thu Nov 17, 2005 6:07 pm

Nomad wrote: Ye bonny wee lassie ye. :-4

:rolleyes: i said men not boys :wah:

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Thu Nov 17, 2005 6:08 pm

Cuterer !:-4

buttercup · Post by **buttercup** » Thu Nov 17, 2005 6:08 pm

lady cop wrote: he was in the states and i arrested him.

...no, not really!! but it was instant karma... :yh_yinyan i was on a stakeout/surveillance and he was at this place... i was hiding in a car behind a big sign. we met.

he still says i am lousy at surveillance. :wah:

thats the first time ive heard that lc, so what - you passed phone numbers?

great story