Only one from church small group not invited to wedding

[jashley]

I am so upset, a couple at my church and in my small group got married and had this wedding and invited everyone from my small group except me. I know this because I saw pictures of everyone from my small group at the wedding. This was after I talked to my pastor about whether it was open invite bc I didnt get an invitation and he said it was invitation only and that I wasnt the only one not invited. But looking at the pictures I see that isnt true. Why would he say that and why was I the only one not invited? And today I talked to someone else at church about if they went to the wedding and they said yes and sked me if I went and I said I wasn't invited and she said yes you were everyone was, it was open to everyone. Well then why did the pastor say it was invite only????

[FourPart]

It probably was invite only - It's just that you were the only one not invited. If I were a member of the church I wouldn't want to invite you either. You are obviously totally self centred, believing everything to be for your benefit, constantly whining whenever you're not the centre of attention & putting a dark cloud on every event you come in contact with. Why on earth would anyone want you to attend what would otherwise be a joyous event?