Are you Rude ...

sugarpuff · Post by **sugarpuff** » Mon Dec 01, 2014 6:49 pm

Have you ever started a thread .. then you never bother to comment afterwards ...

I think it is rude of you .. after so many members have

participated . .. the polite thing to do is respond ...

I am guilty of it .. The reason I do it is .. because I forget about the thread ..

Do you find it is rude ..

What is your reason for not replying to your own post ... ...

Post by **LarsMac** » Mon Dec 01, 2014 10:38 pm

Well, I always figure that starting a thread is just like dropping a stone in the river and seeing where the ripples go. It takes on its own life, or not.

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Tue Dec 02, 2014 7:13 am

It's not about being rude.

You started a thread stating those on their computers didn't have a life. It's a contradiction of terms. It's the fact that people do have lives that they can't always get back to the forum and a thread.

If they stop posting new threads because they know they are working all week or are busy elsewhere, then there wouldn't be half the new threads here that there Is.

Threads are for everyone. They are designed to get the membership debating or general chat. Just because they are unable to return to them doesn't mean they are rude.

I don't know anyone here like that so I think you are assuming rather a lot without knowing the people here first.

AnneBoleyn · Post by **AnneBoleyn** » Tue Dec 02, 2014 7:41 am

I don't find it rude, sugarpuff. I generally don't start threads because I'm not sure if I'll have the time or energy to respond to everyone, especially individually.

I really value oscar as she starts many threads & always gives her time & energy to them. I also like what she wrote above.

People have various reasons for not keeping up with their own threads. For example, there may be something in particular they would like to share & bring to people's attention without further comment, or limited comment. If others find the topic interesting, they can run with it. If a comment isn't added, perhaps they enjoyed just looking.

Bruv · Post by **Bruv** » Tue Dec 02, 2014 10:40 am

HEY !!!! Sugarpuff..............are you being rude ?

AnneBoleyn · Post by **AnneBoleyn** » Tue Dec 02, 2014 11:40 am

Bruv;1468587 wrote: HEY !!!! Sugarpuff..............are you being rude ?

:wah:

Bruv · Post by **Bruv** » Tue Dec 02, 2014 1:37 pm

AnneBoleyn;1468593 wrote: :wah:

You can laugh...........but what are we all gonna do without her input ?

AnneBoleyn · Post by **AnneBoleyn** » Tue Dec 02, 2014 2:06 pm

Bruv;1468616 wrote: You can laugh...........but what are we all gonna do without her input ?

I'll read yours!

Fuzzy · Post by **Fuzzy** » Tue Dec 02, 2014 7:29 pm

sugarpuff;1468559 wrote:

What is your reason for not replying to your own post ... ...

Alzheimers.:-5

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Wed Dec 03, 2014 7:06 am

Funny that.... a member posts a thread on members not coming back to their thread and then doesn't return to the thread.

AnneBoleyn · Post by **AnneBoleyn** » Wed Dec 03, 2014 7:43 am

Oscar Namechange;1468646 wrote: Funny that.... a member posts a thread on members not coming back to their thread and then doesn't return to the thread.

I think that was the intent of this thread.

Bruv · Post by **Bruv** » Wed Dec 03, 2014 11:08 am

Oscar Namechange;1468646 wrote: Funny that.... a member posts a thread on members not coming back to their thread and then doesn't return to the thread.

I admire her self control.

Fuzzy · Post by **Fuzzy** » Wed Dec 03, 2014 6:06 pm

Oscar Namechange;1468646 wrote: Funny that.... a member posts a thread on members not coming back to their thread and then doesn't return to the thread.

Be patient, she always comes back.:driving:

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Wed Dec 03, 2014 7:04 pm

Fuzzy;1468718 wrote: Be patient, she always comes back.:driving: Who said I was waiting ?

tude dog · Post by **tude dog** » Wed Dec 03, 2014 8:12 pm

sugarpuff;1468559 wrote: Have you ever started a thread .. then you never bother to comment afterwards ...

I think it is rude of you .. after so many members have

participated . .. the polite thing to do is respond ...

I am guilty of it .. The reason I do it is .. because I forget about the thread ..

Do you find it is rude ..

What is your reason for not replying to your own post ... ...

Often the thread takes a life of it's own and once that happens it belongs to the Forum.

sugarpuff · Post by **sugarpuff** » Wed Dec 03, 2014 8:28 pm

Bruv;1468587 wrote: HEY !!!! Sugarpuff..............are you being rude ?

:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

OMG .. I was really busy lately ..When I log in and seen my thread ...

I laugh thinking exactly what you just wrote Bruv ...

How rude ...

I didn't state a time limit .. in which the o p has to respond ..

Better late then never ..

sugarpuff · Post by **sugarpuff** » Wed Dec 03, 2014 8:31 pm

tude dog;1468728 wrote: Often the thread takes a life of it's own and once that happens it belongs to the Forum.

Thank you ... love the excuse ..:wah::wah::wah:

You have a good point there .. I agree with you 100 % ..

LarsMac also said the same comment in a different way ...

it is a true statement .. some threads do takes a life of their own ...

sugarpuff · Post by **sugarpuff** » Wed Dec 03, 2014 8:33 pm

Fuzzy;1468718 wrote: Be patient, she always comes back.:driving:

Fuzzy .. you know I can never stay away from you ...

because of our distance ...

Yet I can never be close to you as well ...

sugarpuff · Post by **sugarpuff** » Wed Dec 03, 2014 8:45 pm

AnneBoleyn;1468647 wrote: I think that was the intent of this thread.

AnneBoleyn .. that would be so funny ...I must confess .. I wish I would have thought of

that ....

Yes I would have done it... just for the fun of it ...

I find people take life a bit to serious ... at our age .. I think we should

chill out a bit ...

Not be so stress out ...

theia · Post by **theia** » Thu Dec 04, 2014 1:25 am

Fuzzy;1468636 wrote: Alzheimers.:-5

I'm hoping that's a humorous response. But if it isn't, would you like to talk to us more about it?

Fuzzy · Post by **Fuzzy** » Thu Dec 04, 2014 1:37 am

:wah:Oscar Namechange;1468724 wrote: Who said I was waiting ?

I don't know, but the wait is over.

Fuzzy · Post by **Fuzzy** » Thu Dec 04, 2014 1:51 am

theia;1468735 wrote: I'm hoping that's a humorous response. But if it isn't, would you like to talk to us more about it?

Yes it was meant as a humorous response. My apologies if you were offended by it.:-3

theia · Post by **theia** » Thu Dec 04, 2014 2:16 am

Fuzzy;1468737 wrote: Yes it was meant as a humorous response. My apologies if you were offended by it.:-3

Not offended at all. It's just that sometimes people mention a problem in a humorous way when it is actually a real worry for them. And I wanted to double check...the members here can be incredibly supportive to one another in difficult times.

:-6

Bruv · Post by **Bruv** » Thu Dec 04, 2014 6:11 am

sugarpuff;1468732 wrote: I find people take life a bit to serious ... at our age .

Our age ?

Is that not somewhat presumptuous of you young lady ?

AnneBoleyn · Post by **AnneBoleyn** » Thu Dec 04, 2014 8:20 am

I find this thread, & what I still believe to be it's original intent, not humorous, but childish & narcissistic. Silly girl.

sugarpuff · Post by **sugarpuff** » Thu Dec 04, 2014 5:09 pm

theia;1468738 wrote: Not offended at all. It's just that sometimes people mention a problem in a humorous way when it is actually a real worry for them. And I wanted to double check...the members here can be incredibly supportive to one another in difficult times.

:-6

That is so sweet of you .. it goes to show the type of person you are ....

Caring ....and genuine

Those are traits in a person that I highly respect ..

sugarpuff · Post by **sugarpuff** » Thu Dec 04, 2014 5:11 pm

AnneBoleyn;1468746 wrote: I find this thread, & what I still believe to be it's original intent, not humorous, but childish & narcissistic. Silly girl.

That is me silly ... but we all have to be different or the world would be boring ..

sugarpuff · Post by **sugarpuff** » Thu Dec 04, 2014 5:29 pm

Bruv;1468739 wrote: Our age ?

Is that not somewhat presumptuous of you young lady ?

Maybe or maybe not

.. okay you are right ..

You and I are both young at heart ..

I like being young at heart .. .. it keeps us young looking ...:-6:-6

Fuzzy · Post by **Fuzzy** » Thu Dec 04, 2014 5:29 pm

I love silly girls:yh_silly, they are much more fun than dead serious girls. I find serious girls soooo boring.:yh_giggle

sugarpuff · Post by **sugarpuff** » Thu Dec 04, 2014 5:36 pm

AnneBoleyn · Post by **AnneBoleyn** » Fri Dec 05, 2014 7:52 am

sugarpuff;1468790 wrote: That is me silly ... but we all have to be different or the world would be boring ..

Don't forget the childish & narcissistic part. Oh, guess you did.

My horoscope is right today--DAMN!

AnneBoleyn · Post by **AnneBoleyn** » Fri Dec 05, 2014 7:53 am

Fuzzy;1468795 wrote: I love silly girls:yh_silly, they are much more fun than dead serious girls. I find serious girls soooo boring.:yh_giggle

Starting to find you boring.

My horoscope is right today--DAMN!

FourPart · Post by **FourPart** » Fri Dec 05, 2014 11:32 am

I thought Horoscopes were always right. That's how they're written to be. A simple sentence designed to cover all eventualities.

Post by **Betty Boop** » Fri Dec 05, 2014 2:37 pm

I guess I'm ruder, not had five minutes to myself for the last two weeks or more to look around FG properly!

I have found this thread amusing, Sugarpuff's 'unplanned' timing was wonderful, looked exactly like she was staying away on purpose :wah:

sugarpuff · Post by **sugarpuff** » Fri Dec 05, 2014 2:55 pm

Betty Boop;1468840 wrote: I guess I'm ruder, not had five minutes to myself for the last two weeks or more to look around FG properly!

I have found this thread amusing, Sugarpuff's 'unplanned' timing was wonderful, looked exactly like she was staying away on purpose :wah:

Thank you Betty Boop ... I am glad you enjoyed it ..

No i wasn't staying away on purpose ...it just happened lol ...I found it funny too ...

You mention you haven't been around for the last two weeks ...

I do hope all is well with you .. and it was nothing serious ...

Post by **Betty Boop** » Fri Dec 05, 2014 3:01 pm

sugarpuff;1468848 wrote: Thank you Betty Boop ... I am glad you enjoyed it ..

No i wasn't staying away on purpose ...it just happened lol ...I found it funny too ...

You mention you haven't been around for the last two weeks ...

I do hope all is well with you .. and it was nothing serious ...

I have my Mother convalescing with me after her hip replacement three weeks ago next Monday. Just been really busy looking after her and not had two minutes to myself :wah:

sugarpuff · Post by **sugarpuff** » Fri Dec 05, 2014 3:22 pm

That sure is a lot of work and stress on your part ...

I am sure she is happy being with you ....