just want to cry

jallytony · Post by **jallytony** » Mon Nov 07, 2011 2:02 am

i feel unhappy and depressed about my job,it is because of my boss,no matter what i did and what i say,he never confirm it,he never encourage me but criticize me,i don't like such a boss,just want to cry and now i am crying,i want to change my job,but i don't know whether it is right,my boss is not friendly and don't understand what i have done,what he want is the result,in fact i have done much what i should do

Snooz · Post by **Snooz** » Mon Nov 07, 2011 4:28 am

I had a boss from hell... one of my co-workers had saved all her leave (by not taking any all year), gave half to her husband that was on death's door and was finally receiving a kidney transplant and then took the Christmas week off to be with him and her daughter. The boss wrote her up for waiting till the end of the year to use her leave even though we were fully covered at work. Another time, she charged a co-worker leave for jury duty even though there's a leave code that covers jury duty. She's an ass and a bully and she finally retired much to everyone's great relief and pleasure.

You've got two choices, either wait your boss out since they'll either move on or out before you do, or find another job. Life's too short to put up with assholes that control that much of your life. Good luck!

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Mon Nov 07, 2011 6:01 am

jallytony;1374796 wrote: i feel unhappy and depressed about my job,it is because of my boss,no matter what i did and what i say,he never confirm it,he never encourage me but criticize me,i don't like such a boss,just want to cry and now i am crying,i want to change my job,but i don't know whether it is right,my boss is not friendly and don't understand what i have done,what he want is the result,in fact i have done much what i should do
Every boss has a boss unless he Is sole owner of the company.

Confront your boss, tell him how awkward you feel and advise him politely that this Is affecting you and should he not listen to you then you will have no option but to take a complaint to his boss.

If that fails, put dog poo In his mail box.

K.Snyder · Post by **K.Snyder** » Mon Nov 07, 2011 9:23 am

oscar;1374814 wrote: If that fails, put dog poo In his mail box. If you're going to place dog poo in his mail box, jally, then you have to make absolute certain that you do it tucked up under a piece of his mail, otherwise he'll see it and then refuse to pick it up...

If it were myself I would tie a spring to the inside of the mail box door after having been connected to a square fixated at the rear of the mail box. The square would have to be connected to the back with exactly enough force to coincide with the pressure being exerted by the mail box door as well as the force necessary in launching the square at what I like

would prefer as being rather fast(It increases the effected area per square inch)...Then you ultimately place your poo in the center of the mail box before closing the door...

Be sure to take his mail before you begin and just rip it up(Don't place the pieces anywhere around the mailbox as he may become suspicious)

For conformation you can coincidentally "tell him how awkward you feel and advise him politely that this Is affecting you" when he approaches his mail box

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Mon Nov 07, 2011 2:13 pm

K.Snyder;1374827 wrote: If you're going to place dog poo in his mail box, jally, then you have to make absolute certain that you do it tucked up under a piece of his mail, otherwise he'll see it and then refuse to pick it up...

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I prefer the camoflaged dog poo method. Place Inside a brown envelope marked 'Urgent attention'...

along-for-the-ride · Post by **along-for-the-ride** » Mon Nov 07, 2011 3:59 pm

jallytony;1374796 wrote: i feel unhappy and depressed about my job,it is because of my boss,no matter what i did and what i say,he never confirm it,he never encourage me but criticize me,i don't like such a boss,just want to cry and now i am crying,i want to change my job,but i don't know whether it is right,my boss is not friendly and don't understand what i have done,what he want is the result,in fact i have done much what i should do

How long have you worked there? Are your co-workers having the same problems with the boss?

jallytony · Post by **jallytony** » Wed Nov 09, 2011 2:27 am

SnoozeAgain;1374801 wrote: I had a boss from hell... one of my co-workers had saved all her leave (by not taking any all year), gave half to her husband that was on death's door and was finally receiving a kidney transplant and then took the Christmas week off to be with him and her daughter. The boss wrote her up for waiting till the end of the year to use her leave even though we were fully covered at work. Another time, she charged a co-worker leave for jury duty even though there's a leave code that covers jury duty. She's an ass and a bully and she finally retired much to everyone's great relief and pleasure.

You've got two choices, either wait your boss out since they'll either move on or out before you do, or find another job. Life's too short to put up with assholes that control that much of your life. Good luck!

thanks,it seems i have no choice,friends tell me to stand it,i really learn a lot from the job,but the boss always has a bad temper

K.Snyder · Post by **K.Snyder** » Wed Nov 09, 2011 7:51 am

oscar;1374870 wrote: I prefer the camoflaged dog poo method. Place Inside a brown envelope marked 'Urgent attention'...It seems, even if we cannot both agree on the method, that no one can throw dog poo quite like us, Oscar...

You from your days of being inspired by old Johnny Wardle video tapes and me from my childhood, which we won't get in to, can place a spin on dog poo and rocket a chunk through the finder of an average 70's muscle car that would leave Roger Clemons wishing he'd achieved more and Muttiah Muralitharan salavating and stunned at the sight of such bouncing supremacy...

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Now back to Jally, if any of these techniques do not work, which would have to mean that you hadn't correctly mastered the techniques, then at the peak of what you'd ultimately have to consider unquestionable doubt, then just through the dog poo directly in your boss' face...

flopstock · Post by **flopstock** » Wed Nov 09, 2011 8:47 am

If you are that unhappy with your job, find a new one - or two(if need be). Life is just too short to spend 8 to 10 hours a day miserable.

Post by **Chloe_88** » Wed Nov 09, 2011 2:26 pm

flopstock;1375046 wrote: If you are that unhappy with your job, find a new one - or two(if need be). Life is just too short to spend 8 to 10 hours a day miserable.

True! but I don't have much choice of different jobs in the north of my country, so i'm glad I have lovely colleagues who make work a bit easier.