HATE is such a strong emotion - have you ever hated anybody? Why?

G#Gill · Post by **G#Gill** » Sun Nov 01, 2009 9:23 am

I always thought that I could not hate anybody. But in the last year or so, and particularly in the last week, I have found myself hating a family who used to be rather special to me and my family. They have become so evil. We have been so badly hurt.

Yes, I hate !

Their lies, the stories that were planned just so one of them can be welcomed back into her own family (having been kicked out for all the lying!).

We have helped them, loved them, have given them money, taken them on holiday with us ! Never ever again will we ever get so involved with non-relatives. Yes I hate them for what they have done to my family. We have learnt a severe lesson. I never thought people could be so evil, certainly not people who were supposed to be our friends.

Have you ever seriously hated anybody?

ZAP · Post by **ZAP** » Sun Nov 01, 2009 9:38 am

Yes. A sister-in-law for the wicked, treacherous things she did to my mother.

along-for-the-ride · Post by **along-for-the-ride** » Sun Nov 01, 2009 9:40 am

Pity them, G#Gill, for they have lost a great friend in you because of their actions.

G#Gill · Post by **G#Gill** » Sun Nov 01, 2009 9:52 am

along-for-the-ride;1258128 wrote: Pity them, G#Gill, for they have lost a great friend in you because of their actions.

Yes, AFR, I pity them, but they have virtually destroyed my family, so I hate them more than I pity them.

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Sun Nov 01, 2009 10:00 am

I can honestly say Ive managed to eliminate hate from my life. Its such a destructive emotion, a cancer. I hope never to go down that road again.

shelbell · Post by **shelbell** » Sun Nov 01, 2009 10:01 am

Awe, so sorry to hear about the pain these people caused you Gill.

I've, unfortunately, hated my late hubby's ex. She is the cruelest, most lying, manipulative, nasty, mean, cold hearted,two faced, back stabbing witch/whore I've ever met. She really screwed up our middle daughter(actually my step-daughter) so bad and now she's just like her mother. She lies, steals, uses and manipulates people just as bad. She's got 2 kids already, trying to have another one, and is living off the state. I know it's not a good thing to hate someone else, but if you ever met this "woman" you'd understand why. I'm just so thankful that she moved far away and I don't have to deal with her anymore. :-5:-5

flopstock · Post by **flopstock** » Sun Nov 01, 2009 10:04 am

G#Gill;1258132 wrote: Yes, AFR, I pity them, but they have virtually destroyed my family, so I hate them more than I pity them.

You know what's better then hate? Let them cease to exist...poof..no wasted energy that way. Focus yourself on the folks that deserve it.:-6

shelbell · Post by **shelbell** » Sun Nov 01, 2009 10:14 am

flopstock;1258137 wrote: You know what's better then hate? Let them cease to exist...poof..no wasted energy that way. Focus yourself on the folks that deserve it.:-6

That's so true flops and great advice. :-6

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Sun Nov 01, 2009 10:25 am

flopstock;1258137 wrote: You know what's better then hate? Let them cease to exist...poof..no wasted energy that way. Focus yourself on the folks that deserve it.:-6

Like NOMAD! :-4

shelbell · Post by **shelbell** » Sun Nov 01, 2009 10:30 am

Nomad;1258142 wrote: Like NOMAD! :-4

I'm so glad I saw your siggy line!! Football is on soon! :-4

shelbell · Post by **shelbell** » Sun Nov 01, 2009 10:31 am

Nomad;1258142 wrote: Like NOMAD! :-4

No, like shelbell.

:-4

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Sun Nov 01, 2009 11:22 am

G#Gill;1258122 wrote: I always thought that I could not hate anybody. But in the last year or so, and particularly in the last week, I have found myself hating a family who used to be rather special to me and my family. They have become so evil. We have been so badly hurt.

Yes, I hate !

Their lies, the stories that were planned just so one of them can be welcomed back into her own family (having been kicked out for all the lying!).

We have helped them, loved them, have given them money, taken them on holiday with us ! Never ever again will we ever get so involved with non-relatives. Yes I hate them for what they have done to my family. We have learnt a severe lesson. I never thought people could be so evil, certainly not people who were supposed to be our friends.

Have you ever seriously hated anybody?

I'm so sorry they have done such evil manipulative things to you.

you don't need them.......rise up and become your own person.

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Sun Nov 01, 2009 11:34 am

Gill... I have just read your journal and if there is anything I can do, please pm me. I'm also a good listener if You would like a phone call.

I suppose I hated people when I was young but I think as I've got older, I understand that some people are just a waste of space and not worth using any emotion on. They are the people that come into your life only to suck off your life blood. The damage they can cause to your stress levels and emotions can be so damaging but once you have got over the Initial hatred, you will feel so free and life will be better without them.

A couple of years ago, due to certain circumstances, I had many strange people contact me after they saw me in the newspapers. The one's who genuinly craed for me are still my dear friends but a handful were nothing more than hangers on looking for their own publicity. There was one woman in particular who followed me around like a bad smell. She claimed she was there to support me but at first I gave her the benifit of the doubt. She knew where I lived and before I knew It, I was almost being stalked. I am very choosey about my friends and I don't like having people force themselves on me. Over time, I ended up doing everything for her and her children when the reason for her contacting me was supposedly for her to support me. I did come to hate her to be honest. Every turn I made, she was there like a smell. I became very fond of her children and didn't want to hurt them so telling her to eff off became difficult. In the end, the burden she put on my life became unbearable and I did tell her where to go. At first I was upset because there was a nasty row but I can't describe the relief I felt after a few days knowing that i could answer my phone without checking caller ID or answer my door knowing It would not be her. By Co-incidence, I was chatting to one of her neighbours a few nights ago and was told this woman is now totally alone after falling out with the whole neighbourhood. I pity her now. She is the loser now.

In time Gill, you will feel a huge relief that these people are out of your life. You will find it hard to trust again and be wary the next time some-one offers close friendship to you and your family but you do have to remember that not all folks are like this. Sending you hugs :-4

Rapunzel · Post by **Rapunzel** » Sun Nov 01, 2009 12:07 pm

G#Gill;1258122 wrote: I always thought that I could not hate anybody. But in the last year or so, and particularly in the last week, I have found myself hating a family who used to be rather special to me and my family. They have become so evil. We have been so badly hurt.

Yes, I hate !

Their lies, the stories that were planned just so one of them can be welcomed back into her own family (having been kicked out for all the lying!).

We have helped them, loved them, have given them money, taken them on holiday with us ! Never ever again will we ever get so involved with non-relatives. Yes I hate them for what they have done to my family. We have learnt a severe lesson. I never thought people could be so evil, certainly not people who were supposed to be our friends.

Have you ever seriously hated anybody?

Seriously, yes. You never think you can feel as strongly and as negatively about someone, until it happens to you. Like you, I was devastated. These people (members of my own family) nearly destroyed me and for several years I just kept thinking 'Why? Why?' People you thought you knew become total strangers and you just don't know who they are any more.

But like others here have said, it is a very destructive emotion - and it destroys you not them. Maybe they also suffer because of it, or maybe they will one day.

For now the best thing you can do is try to put it behind you and not dwell on it.

I know how hard that is too, believe me. But I spent too long questioning it, boring my friends rigid talking about it and sinking into a deep depression because of it. I blamed myself, maybe it was something I had done wrong.

Now I work hard and concentrate on the present. If they don't want to talk to me then thats their loss. One day they will but it will be too late by then. I've given them too many chances. Now I have to make life good for my family and concentrate on them. My hubby said there were always signs, but I never saw them. It's easier for you to lock those memories away in a corner of your brain and just try not to dwell on them or think about them. Sadly, it also makes you a little harder, a little less gullible, a little less willing to believe in a sob story. I guess it's part of life, part of growing up, just not a good part sadly.

:yh_hugs:yh_hugs:yh_hugs:yh_hugs:yh_hugs

G#Gill · Post by **G#Gill** » Sun Nov 01, 2009 12:12 pm

The last couple of days I've done so much crying, not for me, but for my little family. I thought I was all cried out, but you lovely lot have set me off again, and it is very difficult as there are others in the room - watching the football !

I know they will get their karma at some stage, and I just don't care. It will be many days before I can come to terms with things, as they have effectively shattered our dreams of moving away from this area. Not sure what we will do with our lovely static caravan now, but we will get round to sorting that out once we have sorted ourselves out !

Thank you all for your lovely posts. Sorry I must sort myself out. May be back a bit later on. XXX

ZAP · Post by **ZAP** » Sun Nov 01, 2009 12:18 pm

((( ))) Hugs to you, Hon. :yh_hugs

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Sun Nov 01, 2009 12:44 pm

G#Gill;1258186 wrote: The last couple of days I've done so much crying, not for me, but for my little family. I thought I was all cried out, but you lovely lot have set me off again, and it is very difficult as there are others in the room - watching the football !

I know they will get their karma at some stage, and I just don't care. It will be many days before I can come to terms with things, as they have effectively shattered our dreams of moving away from this area. Not sure what we will do with our lovely static caravan now, but we will get round to sorting that out once we have sorted ourselves out !

Thank you all for your lovely posts. Sorry I must sort myself out. May be back a bit later on. XXX

it going to take lots of time hun.....

:-4:-4

sharedfastlane · Post by **sharedfastlane** » Sun Nov 01, 2009 2:50 pm

People can sooo disturb your peace and once ruffled its hard to go back to how you were. You CAN move through this, and be different sure, but still operate from a good place. I tend to over analyze to try and stop the hurt, but I find if I try and draw back a bit , not be pulled into the quagmire and be a bit remote I can find better balance and carry on almost as before. I even have to tell myself to stop thinking the thoughts, after I let myself have a few minutes ferreting about, or I get stuck in a loop.

G#Gill · Post by **G#Gill** » Sun Nov 01, 2009 6:36 pm

Thanks Zapata, Kathy and SFL. XXX

Yes Kathy, we were scheduled to 'escape' to the country, but the bastards have put a stop to that for us. We have to stay put - it's just the result of what they have caused through their evil lying and I'm afraid they have knocked the fight out of me. Sorry I can't go into details - if I could, I'm sure you would appreciate our predicament a little better. At the moment, life is on hold. We just don't know what to do next.

G-man · Post by **G-man** » Sun Nov 01, 2009 7:07 pm

flopstock;1258137 wrote: You know what's better then hate? Let them cease to exist...poof..no wasted energy that way. Focus yourself on the folks that deserve it.:-6

You're absolutely right! Somebody mentioned that hate is such a destructive emotion... and that's exactly it... it's destructive. It's not only destructive to those it's targeted at, but to yourself. It is for this reason that I no longer nurture such feelings as anger and hatred. It took me years of therapy and work to erase such emotions from within me. Someone who was recently involved in my life foolishly thought that I needed to express those emotions, but I've had my share of such emotions and that's a Pandora's box that is best never opened again. It's an emotion that I've been able to live without for most of my life and I do not believe that it's a necessary emotion. In fact, most of the time, I'd rather not experience any emotion. :p

Anyway, having said that, I know exactly how you feel G#! Listen to Floppy and forget they exist or ever existed, they're simply not worth it.

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Sun Nov 01, 2009 7:51 pm

flopstock;1258137 wrote: You know what's better then hate? Let them cease to exist...poof..no wasted energy that way. Focus yourself on the folks that deserve it.:-6

G-man;1258311 wrote: You're absolutely right! Somebody mentioned that hate is such a destructive emotion... and that's exactly it... it's destructive. It's not only destructive to those it's targeted at, but to yourself. It is for this reason that I no longer nurture such feelings as anger and hatred. It took me years of therapy and work to erase such emotions from within me. Someone who was recently involved in my life foolishly thought that I needed to express those emotions, but I've had my share of such emotions and that's a Pandora's box that is best never opened again. It's an emotion that I've been able to live without for most of my life and I do not believe that it's a necessary emotion. In fact, most of the time, I'd rather not experience any emotion. :p

Anyway, having said that, I know exactly how you feel G#! Listen to Floppy and forget they exist or ever existed, they're simply not worth it.

I do have peeps that I abs hate & for good reasons. To those peeps I have eliminated them from my email, Facebook, etc. I have a better time with my great friends on the internet..& as for real life, no enemies at all. Pretty much get along with everyone.

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Sun Nov 01, 2009 8:56 pm

Gill, my dear friend, I hope each day gets a little bit easier, you worked to hard and waited so long for your new home, and that has to be earth shattering.:-1

Hate is such a strong emotion, but some families are liars and manipulators so it becomes a very strong emotion in one's life.

and sometimes family's are not who they seem to be.

I will say prayers for you tonight Gill, as this is about you, my friend.:yh_pray

shelbell · Post by **shelbell** » Mon Nov 02, 2009 3:58 am

Just don't let them take away your dreams Gill. As long as you have your dreams there is hope. Pity them instead because there are many people out there that can't stand to see others happy. They are so jealous and try to bring others down because their life is such an empty hole. :-4

hoppy · Post by **hoppy** » Mon Nov 02, 2009 6:27 am

Was into the hate/revenge thing big time. Then I learned you can never "get even". Violence begats violence. When I stopped, most of my troubles stopped. Oh, I still get crapped on from time to time. Minor stuff, mostly though. I don't let it control my life any longer.

Clodhopper · Post by **Clodhopper** » Mon Nov 02, 2009 11:13 am

As I pieced together how my ex-wife had used our marriage I began to hate. It was dreadful and I could feel it taking over my life and curdling me.

I managed to deal with it. I phoned her up and told her I forgave her for what she had done, AND for all the things she'd done that I didn't know about. My life is better as a result. I don't know why forgiving killed the hate, but it did.

I don't know if that particular method would work in your case, but I do agree that hatred is a dreadful thing to feel, and has a very negative effect on the hater. The hated usually don't care.

You might try talking to your local parish priest about it....

Peg · Post by **Peg** » Mon Nov 02, 2009 11:58 am

There was 3 people in my life I've hated. 2 that I have to deal with on an almost daily basis. Dealing with the hate was hard for me. I've never actually hated until this past year. As time as gone on, I only feel actual hate for one of the three. The other 2, I feel pity for. I pity them because they wanted something so much, that they couldn't achieve it honestly, so did it dishonestly through lies, etc. The third one, I am sure I will some day pity also. Until then, I still have to deal with this feeling of hate. The trick is not to let the hatred consume you. I also am learning not to let the feeling of guilt for hating consume me.

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Mon Nov 02, 2009 12:08 pm

Peg;1258485 wrote: There was 3 people in my life I've hated. 2 that I have to deal with on an almost daily basis. Dealing with the hate was hard for me. I've never actually hated until this past year. As time as gone on, I only feel actual hate for one of the three. The other 2, I feel pity for. I pity them because they wanted something so much, that they couldn't achieve it honestly, so did it dishonestly through lies, etc. The third one, I am sure I will some day pity also. Until then, I still have to deal with this feeling of hate. The trick is not to let the hatred consume you. I also am learning not to let the feeling of guilt for hating consume me.

I'm so sorry you have to deal with this on a daily basis.

But I think its great that you have risen above it all, as its just not easy.

Imladris · Post by **Imladris** » Mon Nov 02, 2009 1:12 pm

I thought I hated someone but as I've got older I realise I hate what she did more than the person herself. I still don't like her, never will, I can just about tolerate her. She's damaged, sick and just plain nasty but I refuse to be infected with her spite. I will not let her affect me any more.

But Gill, it's taken me years to get to that point, this is all too new for you. I don't know what that family have done and it's probably best I don't! I know how kind and caring you are, you show that all the time here. Please remember that you are appreciated and loved by those that deserve you. Don't let these people stop you from showing kindness to others - they'll get what's due to them one day.

Hugs to you :-4

G#Gill · Post by **G#Gill** » Mon Nov 02, 2009 3:55 pm

Thanks Immy for such nice words, now I'm leaking from the eyes again!:-6

Post by **Bryn Mawr** » Mon Nov 02, 2009 5:22 pm

The only time I've hated anybody was when I was down and suffering in myself. When I regained my strength I realised I should have pitied them instead because they had worse problems than I did.

Don't waste your strength hating them - use it to make life better for you and yours.

G#Gill · Post by **G#Gill** » Tue Nov 03, 2009 5:41 am

Bryn, it is so hard. Hey, guess what ! This morning my son received a summons for having an un-taxed car on the road !!!!!!! The car in question is his Reliant Rialto, which has been SORN since March this year and been parked on private land, and a letter of explanation etc. was sent to the people who 'ticketed' it back then!

Salt and wound come to mind here! Jeez....................... now we've got to bloody well argue about that ffs !!!!!!!!!! More flamin hassle - writing yet again, an explanation and sending a copy of the original letter to them........................ like we need something else to worry us !! What the hell is going on in this God-forsaken country? You know it's stuff like this that can tip somebody over the edge ffs !!!!!

:-5:-5:-5

shelbell · Post by **shelbell** » Tue Nov 03, 2009 9:57 am

G#Gill;1258786 wrote: Bryn, it is so hard. Hey, guess what ! This morning my son received a summons for having an un-taxed car on the road !!!!!!! The car in question is his Reliant Rialto, which has been SORN since March this year and been parked on private land, and a letter of explanation etc. was sent to the people who 'ticketed' it back then!

Salt and wound come to mind here! Jeez....................... now we've got to bloody well argue about that ffs !!!!!!!!!! More flamin hassle - writing yet again, an explanation and sending a copy of the original letter to them........................ like we need something else to worry us !! What the hell is going on in this God-forsaken country? You know it's stuff like this that can tip somebody over the edge ffs !!!!!

:-5:-5:-5

You are a strong person Gill and don't deserve this kind of junk directed at you. You will make it thru this, and they'll get theirs...I believe in what goes around comes around...you don't have to do a thing. And I totally agree with Immy...hate the action, don't hate the person...they're not worth your time. :-6

Clodhopper · Post by **Clodhopper** » Tue Nov 03, 2009 10:05 am

G#Gill;1258786 wrote: Bryn, it is so hard. Hey, guess what ! This morning my son received a summons for having an un-taxed car on the road !!!!!!! The car in question is his Reliant Rialto, which has been SORN since March this year and been parked on private land, and a letter of explanation etc. was sent to the people who 'ticketed' it back then!

Salt and wound come to mind here! Jeez....................... now we've got to bloody well argue about that ffs !!!!!!!!!! More flamin hassle - writing yet again, an explanation and sending a copy of the original letter to them........................ like we need something else to worry us !! What the hell is going on in this God-forsaken country? You know it's stuff like this that can tip somebody over the edge ffs !!!!!

:-5:-5:-5

Oh lordy. It never rains but it pours. At least this ought to be sortable.

All the best. ((((((hugs))))))

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Tue Nov 03, 2009 10:07 am

G#Gill;1258786 wrote: Bryn, it is so hard. Hey, guess what ! This morning my son received a summons for having an un-taxed car on the road !!!!!!! The car in question is his Reliant Rialto, which has been SORN since March this year and been parked on private land, and a letter of explanation etc. was sent to the people who 'ticketed' it back then!

Salt and wound come to mind here! Jeez....................... now we've got to bloody well argue about that ffs !!!!!!!!!! More flamin hassle - writing yet again, an explanation and sending a copy of the original letter to them........................ like we need something else to worry us !! What the hell is going on in this God-forsaken country? You know it's stuff like this that can tip somebody over the edge ffs !!!!!

:-5:-5:-5

hun, it doesn't matter here where it parked, if it has plates on it, we pay!:-5:-5

and if they find a car here parked on anyone's property without plates?....the person gets a warning....you must move it within 7 days.

I know, everything these day is a hassle, red tape everywhere.

calm down....deep breaths.

Post by **Bryn Mawr** » Tue Nov 03, 2009 12:51 pm

G#Gill;1258786 wrote: Bryn, it is so hard. Hey, guess what ! This morning my son received a summons for having an un-taxed car on the road !!!!!!! The car in question is his Reliant Rialto, which has been SORN since March this year and been parked on private land, and a letter of explanation etc. was sent to the people who 'ticketed' it back then!

Salt and wound come to mind here! Jeez....................... now we've got to bloody well argue about that ffs !!!!!!!!!! More flamin hassle - writing yet again, an explanation and sending a copy of the original letter to them........................ like we need something else to worry us !! What the hell is going on in this God-forsaken country? You know it's stuff like this that can tip somebody over the edge ffs !!!!!

:-5:-5:-5

If it is parked on private land with the agreement of the owner of that land then it is for them to prove that it has, at some point since the tax ran out, been on a public road - be interesting to see what they've got by way of "proof".

mikeinie · Post by **mikeinie** » Wed Nov 04, 2009 4:22 am

Blue October:

YouTube - Hate me [Blue October]

I have to block out thoughts of you so I don't lose my head

They crawl in like a cockroach leaving babies in my bed

Dropping little reels of tape to remind me that I'm alone

Playing movies in my head that make a porno feel like home

There's a burning in my pride, a nervous bleeding in my brain

An ounce of peace is all I want for you. Will you never call again?

And will you never say that you love me just to put it in my face?

And will you never try to reach me? It is I that wanted space

Hate me today

Hate me tomorrow

Hate me so you can finally see what's good for you

I'm sober now for 3 whole months it's one accomplishment that you helped me with

The one thing that always tore us apart is the one thing I won't touch again

In a sick way I want to thank you for holding my head up late at night

While I was busy waging wars on myself, you were trying to stop the fight

You never doubted my warped opinions on things like suicidal hate

You made me compliment myself when it was way too hard to take

So I'll drive so ****ing far away that I never cross your mind

And do whatever it takes in your heart to leave me behind

Hate me today

Hate me tomorrow

Hate me for all the things I didn't do for you

Hate me in ways

Yeah ways hard to swallow

Hate me so you can finally see what's good for you

And with a sad heart I say bye to you and wave

Kicking shadows on the street for every mistake that I had made

And like a baby boy I never was a man

Until I saw your blue eyes crying and I held your face in my hand

And then I fell down yelling "make it go away!"

Just make a smile come back and shine just like it used to be

And then she whispered "How can you do this to me?"

Hate me today

Hate me tomorrow

Hate me for all the things I didn't do for you

Hate me in ways

Yeah ways hard to swallow

Hate me so you can finally see what's good for you

shelbell · Post by **shelbell** » Wed Nov 04, 2009 7:36 am

Wow...that is very intense, especially for us that were alcoholics...and for those just starting out in their journey. Thanks for posting that. :-6

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Wed Nov 04, 2009 11:36 am

This is mine:

YouTube - I HATE YOU

G#Gill · Post by **G#Gill** » Thu Nov 05, 2009 7:32 am

Well now, we've got our doctor involved. He is so helpful and compassionate, and so we try to progress and be a little more positive. There are still hurdles to get over, but hopefully, we will come through. It won't be without scars though.

We all have ups and downs, and this will continue, but each of us helps the other and there is a lot of love in our house, and that must have an affect - that will never die.

:-6

mikeinie · Post by **mikeinie** » Thu Nov 05, 2009 7:38 am

Can Hate be Great:

YouTube - Honda Advert (Hate Something, Change Something...)

Sing it like you hate it!!!

Jazzy · Post by **Jazzy** » Thu Nov 05, 2009 7:45 am

Hatred does not cease by hatred, but only by love; this is the eternal rule.

Buddha

G#Gill · Post by **G#Gill** » Thu Nov 05, 2009 8:52 am

Jazzy;1259404 wrote: Hatred does not cease by hatred, but only by love; this is the eternal rule.

Buddha

Sorry, Jazzy, I just can't do that ! I am a human being after all. I am trying to just pity them, but that isn't working very well either. As it is at the moment I'm trying to cast them from my mind.

shelbell · Post by **shelbell** » Thu Nov 05, 2009 10:11 am

G#Gill;1259401 wrote: Well now, we've got our doctor involved. He is so helpful and compassionate, and so we try to progress and be a little more positive. There are still hurdles to get over, but hopefully, we will come through. It won't be without scars though.

We all have ups and downs, and this will continue, but each of us helps the other and there is a lot of love in our house, and that must have an affect - that will never die.

:-6

That's great Gil...take inventory of all those that you love and love you back...then burn the list of the evil ones that only bring you down. We all have our scars from battles in our lives...but I'm so glad you're focusing on the love you have in your home. :-4

Kathy Ellen · Post by **Kathy Ellen** » Thu Nov 05, 2009 12:34 pm

G#Gill;1259430 wrote: Sorry, Jazzy, I just can't do that ! I am a human being after all. I am trying to just pity them, but that isn't working very well either. As it is at the moment I'm trying to cast them from my mind.

I hear ya Gill. Sometime you just want to shout, and rant and rage for a bit....Then you can deal with it as time passes, and hate turns into dislike...which is much healthier for your soul.

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Thu Nov 05, 2009 12:36 pm

I HATE THE YANKEES!!!!!:wah:

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Thu Nov 05, 2009 12:39 pm

G#Gill;1259430 wrote: Sorry, Jazzy, I just can't do that ! I am a human being after all. I am trying to just pity them, but that isn't working very well either. As it is at the moment I'm trying to cast them from my mind.

we are human and one someone hurts us that bad, it takes a long time to get over it.

I wouldn't even give them satisfaction by pitying them, they are just not worth it.

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Thu Nov 05, 2009 12:48 pm

G#Gill;1259401 wrote: Well now, we've got our doctor involved. He is so helpful and compassionate, and so we try to progress and be a little more positive. There are still hurdles to get over, but hopefully, we will come through. It won't be without scars though.

We all have ups and downs, and this will continue, but each of us helps the other and there is a lot of love in our house, and that must have an affect - that will never die.

:-6

So glad you have seen your doctor Gill and that there is tons of love in your house to help each one of you carry on now.:-6

Rapunzel · Post by **Rapunzel** » Thu Nov 05, 2009 3:09 pm

qsducks;1259614 wrote: I HATE THE YANKEES!!!!!:wah:

I'm sorry but I'm confused

I complained about the inappropriateness of this comment and MY post gets deleted and this one DOESN'T?????

What on EARTH is going on?????

Carolly · Post by **Carolly** » Thu Nov 05, 2009 3:14 pm

Rapunzel;1259724 wrote:

I'm sorry but I'm confused

I complained about the inappropriateness of this comment and MY post gets deleted and this one DOESN'T?????

What on EARTH is going on?????

The Member who said this is on topic and the question that was asked is open to any Member to post who they hate.

Clodhopper · Post by **Clodhopper** » Thu Nov 05, 2009 3:24 pm

Rapunzel;1259724 wrote:

I'm sorry but I'm confused

I complained about the inappropriateness of this comment and MY post gets deleted and this one DOESN'T?????

What on EARTH is going on?????

:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

Dear Rap: The Yankees are (I think) the New York Yankees - a baseball team. It's not their fault they never learned the rules of cricket properly.:p