Have you ever been a snoop?

chonsigirl · Post by **chonsigirl** » Thu Aug 13, 2009 2:12 pm

Last week of summer, I'm clearing out lots of stuff. Boxes stacked in one room for almost five years. I was down to the last box, my husband's of course. I had to condense it into the container left, then the bedroom floor is finally free of stuff! (so I have an exercise area for the school year)

Well, of course I had to look at what I was renting out. Old yearsbooks, yeah, save those for him. Certificates of stuff. Yup, that goes in the new container. Old Playboys, in the trash bin.

Oh, a letter from his mom, 1981.

Did I read it.

Yup.

All ten pages.

Now I know the family secrets I never knew.

Good grief, what a snoop I am! Should have left it alone! Lucky me, he'll never know. :-3

Now tell me, have you ever snooped around too?

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Thu Aug 13, 2009 2:39 pm

don't feel bad, I think we all do it.:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

I did just that a few months ago, but can't say what I found.....its now photo-copied and its mine.:sneaky::D

mines just called curiosity.

mrsK · Post by **mrsK** » Thu Aug 13, 2009 2:49 pm

Yes:o

When we left the farm we had to clean out all our inlaws papers etc.

Some very interesting things were found

We did find all the families old school bank books & gave them to each one,they really loved that.:-6

fuzzywuzzy · Post by **fuzzywuzzy** » Thu Aug 13, 2009 3:08 pm

I don't call it snooping I call it good parenting.

Usually we wait until people have passed on to go through their papers. But in your case Chonsi you have every right to do it now.

Dad told us lots when my Nan died (it's part of our family history) if you don't want people to know, Don't write it down, or burn the letters and so forth after recieving them. I think people deliberately keep things for hte purpose of allowing others to know things.........sort of a dying last word on life. As I said before I learnt a lot about my fathers mother she was a bitch (but we all knew that anyway) we just didn't know to what extent. Taught us a few lessons of life.

princessladedah · Post by **princessladedah** » Thu Aug 13, 2009 3:16 pm

Real snooping or curiosity snooping, there is a difference ya know

Yes to curiosity snooping,a and yes only once to the not your buisness witch!!! snooping

Bruv · Post by **Bruv** » Thu Aug 13, 2009 3:19 pm

A letter dated 81 is hardly snooping.....

It is when you read a current diary or letter......and no I wouldn't, in fact couldn't do that.

fuzzywuzzy · Post by **fuzzywuzzy** » Thu Aug 13, 2009 3:28 pm

Depends on what you call snooping too.................If I opened up the phone bill during my marriage I was told I was prying..........:-2

along-for-the-ride · Post by **along-for-the-ride** » Thu Aug 13, 2009 3:33 pm

:wah: Just call us..............

Attached files

hoppy · Post by **hoppy** » Thu Aug 13, 2009 4:52 pm

After my dad died I was cleaning out an old safe he had in the basement. I found five wills he made out, dated years apart I was only in the first one. He willed me any furniture I wanted. Whoopee. Seems every time he got mad at one of us, he would change the will. In one will he left totally everything to my nephew and neice.

fuzzywuzzy · Post by **fuzzywuzzy** » Thu Aug 13, 2009 4:59 pm

Oh hoppy that sucks.......My dad found out by reading old letters that his mother tried to adopt him and his brother out when he was two she only wanted the youngest. We tried to tell him that it was because it was the war years....but he said they were rich so it had nothing to do with finances, just that her boyfriend (when his dad was busy being a POW) only wanted her and the youngest to run away with him. ................:-5:-5:-5:-5:-5

How's that for a legacy to leave your children?

chonsigirl · Post by **chonsigirl** » Thu Aug 13, 2009 5:22 pm

:-1 Wow, that is sad.

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Thu Aug 13, 2009 5:25 pm

We all snoop...its natural...my hubs was just looking at what I'm writing here...nosebag:wah:

hoppy · Post by **hoppy** » Thu Aug 13, 2009 5:37 pm

fuzzywuzzy;1229638 wrote: Oh hoppy that sucks.......My dad found out by reading old letters that his mother tried to adopt him and his brother out when he was two she only wanted the youngest. We tried to tell him that it was because it was the war years....but he said they were rich so it had nothing to do with finances, just that her boyfriend (when his dad was busy being a POW) only wanted her and the youngest to run away with him. ................:-5:-5:-5:-5:-5

How's that for a legacy to leave your children?

Wow. That had to hurt.

almostfamous · Post by **almostfamous** » Thu Aug 13, 2009 5:57 pm

I have snooped my fair share, from emails to text messages. Only when given a reason to mind you but a woman's instinct is almost always right. Every single time, (every time!) I found what I expected to find.

The only time I found something when I didn't expect to was when I was dating this guy back in 05. He was a preacher of all things (you'd think he knew better) and was on a mission trip in Russia. We were on the phone one day, he was in a lay over in Paris and he gave me his email info to go in and retrieve some contact information for him. So I did, and literally out of the corner of my eye I saw an email from some ridiculously cheesy aol screenname (sexybabysomethinorother), also saw it had an attachment so I opened it and low and behold BOOBS. I then proceeded to his sent box and low and behold, yes, you guessed it, his manhood.

It happened to be prior to us meeting so I did forgive him but seriously it didn't leave a good impression on me about him at all.

fuzzywuzzy · Post by **fuzzywuzzy** » Thu Aug 13, 2009 6:31 pm

I have snooped my fair share, from emails to text messages. Only when given a reason to mind you but a woman's instinct is almost always right. Every single time, (every time!) I found what I expected to find.

Eeee-yep.............worse is the excuses afterward and them turning the whole situation around about you being a snoop????????? In some things it's saved me a whole lotta heartache.

My thing these days is ........Everything I write is open to you , my phone calls, my mail, my email, my texts....................why arent' yours open to me? If that doesn't go down well then they are booted.

almostfamous · Post by **almostfamous** » Thu Aug 13, 2009 6:33 pm

fuzzywuzzy;1229693 wrote: Eeee-yep.............worse is the excuses afterward and them turning the whole situation around about you being a snoop????????? In some things it's saved me a whole lotta heartache.

My thing these days is ........Everything I write is open to you , my phone calls, my mail, my email, my texts....................why arent' yours open to me? If that doesn't go down well anymore then they are booted.

Amen to that. New "mistakes" (as I've come to refer to them) just have to deal with the trust issues.

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Thu Aug 13, 2009 6:41 pm

almostfamous;1229664 wrote: I have snooped my fair share, from emails to text messages. Only when given a reason to mind you but a woman's instinct is almost always right. Every single time, (every time!) I found what I expected to find.

The only time I found something when I didn't expect to was when I was dating this guy back in 05. He was a preacher of all things (you'd think he knew better) and was on a mission trip in Russia. We were on the phone one day, he was in a lay over in Paris and he gave me his email info to go in and retrieve some contact information for him. So I did, and literally out of the corner of my eye I saw an email from some ridiculously cheesy aol screenname (sexybabysomethinorother), also saw it had an attachment so I opened it and low and behold BOOBS. I then proceeded to his sent box and low and behold, yes, you guessed it, his manhood.

It happened to be prior to us meeting so I did forgive him but seriously it didn't leave a good impression on me about him at all.

Guess he wasn't thinking...what an arse:-5. Usually I don't look/answer my hubs cell, but one morning he left it at home & a text came through...I opened it...it was a naked overweight woman...I was steamed as the guy who sent it said to the effect that he hoped John's wife didn't look like her...talk about pissed off...I'm only 125 lbs...I texted him back & called him a pig. Anyways he thought John was texting him back, lol & responded to which I texted him again and said "Hi, I just wanted to let you know arsehole, that John left his phone at home, your a pig & hubs really doesn't enjoy your stupid, sexist, nudie pix of women'. Hubs has since received no pix of late that I know of...I do look

fuzzywuzzy · Post by **fuzzywuzzy** » Thu Aug 13, 2009 6:43 pm

OMG it just sank in!!! A PREACHER!!! sent a pic of his dick to someone?

HOly Cow!!!!:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

almostfamous · Post by **almostfamous** » Thu Aug 13, 2009 6:45 pm

fuzzywuzzy;1229711 wrote: OMG it just sank in!!! A PREACHER!!! sent a pic of his dick to someone?

HOly Cow!!!!:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

niiiiice, and yes, you are correct my little fuzzy friend

almostfamous · Post by **almostfamous** » Thu Aug 13, 2009 6:47 pm

qsducks;1229705 wrote: Guess he wasn't thinking...what an arse:-5.

yeah, he was a loser. and no wonder a lot of people have horrid impression of Christians, just look at him. such a shining example :rolleyes:

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Thu Aug 13, 2009 6:50 pm

fuzzywuzzy;1229711 wrote: OMG it just sank in!!! A PREACHER!!! sent a pic of his dick to someone?

HOly Cow!!!!:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

What a total understatement:yh_rotfl,,,HOLY cow:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Fri Aug 14, 2009 8:54 am

I have but I dont anymore.

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Fri Aug 14, 2009 8:57 am

Nomad;1230020 wrote: I have but I dont anymore.

What?

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Fri Aug 14, 2009 9:47 am

qsducks;1230023 wrote: What?

Snoop.

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Fri Aug 14, 2009 11:12 am

Nomad;1230044 wrote: Snoop.

Me? A snoop? Another outrageous falsehood:yh_rotfl...from where I'm sitting I have a birds eye view of all the goings on my street. The other day the kid across the street brought over his mom's keys..I had to look to see who they belonged to as her license was also in there, along with her credit card:sneaky:. I gave it back.

cigar898 · Post by **cigar898** » Fri Aug 14, 2009 11:55 am

I did once and got some great information. I now take the persona of my sister-in-laws husband. I’m known as “Accountable! (insert The Incredibles theme song here).:driving:

JOKES Accountable.......just jokes! :yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

Accountable · Post by **Accountable** » Fri Aug 14, 2009 2:24 pm

:wah:

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Fri Aug 14, 2009 3:13 pm

I would never in any circumstances snoop on any-one. It is a blatent invasion of privacy.

Won't be long... Just going to go through my husbands pockets while he's out.

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Fri Aug 14, 2009 4:55 pm

oscar;1230215 wrote: I would never in any circumstances snoop on any-one. It is a blatent invasion of privacy.

Won't be long... Just going to go through my husbands pockets while he's out.

psst....get some cash for me!:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl