Where is this member?

Accountable · Post by **Accountable** » Wed Mar 11, 2009 2:18 pm

YZGI;1155949 wrote: I notice Jester and Jab have left us. Anyone know why?
Yes, but I don't know if I'd violate a trust to say.

YZGI · Post by **YZGI** » Wed Mar 11, 2009 2:22 pm

Accountable;1155953 wrote: Yes, but I don't know if I'd violate a trust to say.
I understand, They will be missed by many. I hope they come back.

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Wed Mar 11, 2009 2:26 pm

Accountable;1155953 wrote: Yes, but I don't know if I'd violate a trust to say.

Tell me. Ill violate anyone.

Post by **spot** » Wed Mar 11, 2009 3:58 pm

YZGI;1155949 wrote: I notice Jester and Jab have left us. Anyone know why?

Each recently disagreed with me.

Be warned.

Chezzie · Post by **Chezzie** » Wed Mar 11, 2009 4:23 pm

spot;1156017 wrote: Each recently disagreed with me.

Be warned.

Get over yerself ya wet lettuce :yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

Accountable · Post by **Accountable** » Wed Mar 11, 2009 4:24 pm

spot;1156017 wrote: Each recently disagreed with me.

Be warned.
nice :yh_eyerol

AussiePam · Post by **AussiePam** » Wed Mar 11, 2009 4:31 pm

These days it's difficult to see really why so many of us do continue to come here - it is a sort of addiction. Kind of like watching a train wreck. You don't want to do it, but somehow can't look away. We know the sort of hissing fury and unpleasant spotitudes we'll encounter - and we do have real lives, but we still come here. Very strange.

Post by **spot** » Wed Mar 11, 2009 4:42 pm

Thank you Pam. It's hard to imagine how I can step down any further and it seems to have been of no benefit to anyone, I might just as well moderate.

Accountable · Post by **Accountable** » Wed Mar 11, 2009 4:45 pm

Let's keep this thread on track, shall we?

Post by **spot** » Wed Mar 11, 2009 4:48 pm

Accountable;1156046 wrote: Let's keep this thread on track, shall we?

Both my posts were exactly on topic for Jester and Jab. You know quite well why they left, after all, so you have all the information you need to evaluate my comments.

Or were you addressing Pam? It's hard to tell.

Post by **Bryn Mawr** » Wed Mar 11, 2009 4:56 pm

OK, let's keep the thread on track.

I'll probably be banned for saying this but both Jester and Jab left of their own accord - Jester because Tombstone's investigation did not back up his insecurities and Jab because Jester left.

So why the conspiracy theories and digs at Mods, old or new?

Kathy Ellen · Post by **Kathy Ellen** » Wed Mar 11, 2009 5:11 pm

Jester doesn't have any insecurities....:-6

Chezzie · Post by **Chezzie** » Wed Mar 11, 2009 5:12 pm

Ok anyone seen Angeleyes lately?

Not seen her for ages

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Wed Mar 11, 2009 5:15 pm

Kathy Ellen;1156067 wrote: Jester doesn't have any insecurities....:-6

nope, he doesn't.

Kathy Ellen · Post by **Kathy Ellen** » Wed Mar 11, 2009 5:15 pm

Chezzie,

I believe that Susie has moved back to Chicago and will be back in EA soon. Baldi told me that's what he heard.

minks · Post by **minks** » Wed Mar 11, 2009 6:57 pm

Anyone know how Babyrider is doing and how things progressed with her man. If anyone keeps in touch with her please say hi from me.

As for all our other members who have gone MIA know that somewhere somehow someone misses you.

I hope you all are doing ok.

Post by **Victor Meldrew** » Wed Mar 11, 2009 6:58 pm

Kathy Ellen;1156072 wrote: Chezzie,

I believe that Susie has moved back to Chicago and will be back in EA soon. Baldi told me that's what he heard.

Hi Kathy,

Who or what is EA?

I have seen it mentioned a few times in this thread.

Regards, VM

pinkchick · Post by **pinkchick** » Thu Mar 12, 2009 1:48 am

Victor Meldrew;1156141 wrote: Hi Kathy,

Who or what is EA?

I have seen it mentioned a few times in this thread.

Regards, VM

It's another Forum :-6

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Thu Mar 12, 2009 5:08 am

minks;1156140 wrote: Anyone know how Babyrider is doing and how things progressed with her man. If anyone keeps in touch with her please say hi from me.

As for all our other members who have gone MIA know that somewhere somehow someone misses you.

I hope you all are doing ok.

I talked to her a last summer or maybe longer but her friends were living in a realm I found impossible to communicate in so I skidaddled.

She was functioning but I think she was struggling with some things. Like the rest of us.

I do miss annoying her. I especially loved it when she got tough with me. :wah:

Ooooh....scary Cuddles.

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Thu Mar 12, 2009 5:10 am

Kathy Ellen;1156067 wrote: Jester doesn't have any insecurities....:-6

Everyone has insecurities. They may not readily share them with you but they do.

BTS · Post by **BTS** » Thu Mar 12, 2009 11:16 am

Bryn Mawr;1156055 wrote: OK, let's keep the thread on track.

I'll probably be banned for saying this but both Jester and Jab left of their own accord - Jester because Tombstone's investigation did not back up his insecurities and Jab because Jester left.

So why the conspiracy theories and digs at Mods, old or new?

Weird.... I am gone for a while, jester and jab are wiped out and this is the closest thing to explaining why they are POOFO...GONE... no way to search their post and see what happened. Reminds me of high school and a fight in the hall........... You hear all kinds of rumors but not many facts........

Can anyone point me in the direction to what REALLY happened (thread)?

Post by **spot** » Thu Mar 12, 2009 11:22 am

BTS;1156433 wrote: Weird.... I am gone for a while, jester and jab are wiped out and this is the closest thing to explaining why they are POOFO...GONE... no way to search their post and see what happened. Reminds me of high school and a fight in the hall........... You hear all kinds of rumors but not many facts........

Can anyone point me in the direction to what REALLY happened (thread)?No. It doesn't exist.

When people ask for their account to be deleted, as best I understand it, the default is for their posts to stay in the database intact. Only if they ask for their posts to be deleted at the same time are their posts also removed. I find it intensely destructive and annoying when that happens.

Jester and JAB wiped themselves out, they weren't wiped. Their accounts are gone at their own requests.

That is, I think, what you were just told. For some reason you don't want to accept it.

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Thu Mar 12, 2009 11:27 am

Kathy Ellen;1156067 wrote: Jester doesn't have any insecurities....:-6

totally with you KE & Odie. I miss them both but see them elsewhere.

Chezzie · Post by **Chezzie** » Thu Mar 12, 2009 11:52 am

Listen guys, were all sorry Jester and Jab decided to ask Tombstone to delete their accounts but they did and their is nothing we can change about that.

As Bryn already explained, Jester asked for an investigation to be done, it was done by Mods and ultimately by Tombstone. When it didn't reveal the answer Jester was looking for he asked Tombstone directly to delete him and Tombstone obliged. Jab then also asked the same request which was granted.

No conspiracy, no fallouts so can we quit the drama and get this thread back on track please.

Thanks for the Angel info Kathy

Now where is Koochicoo???:D

Kathy Ellen · Post by **Kathy Ellen** » Thu Mar 12, 2009 1:40 pm

Jester asked for his account to be deleted, but he never asked for all of his posts to be deleted:sneaky:

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Thu Mar 12, 2009 1:52 pm

Liberalism is an easy road to walk down. You simply do not believe in anything and when those that come to kill you approach, you embrace them with opens arms.

Conservatism, however is a difficult path. It is one where principles are supreme and the realization that embracing the enemy gives him the opportunity to stick a knife in your back.

That has got to be hands down one of the most ignorant statements Ive ever read.

Talk about wearing blinders. Its almost cultish. Wow.

Monumental misinformation of historic proportion.

Post by **spot** » Thu Mar 12, 2009 1:52 pm

Kathy Ellen;1156518 wrote: Jester asked for his account to be deleted, but he never asked for all of his posts to be deleted:sneaky:Perhaps I'm wrong about the default then. Perhaps posts get left on accounts which are simply abandoned. Perhaps asking for an account to be actively deleted implies the removal of posts as well.

What on earth is wrong with simply never logging in again? Where does this flouncy concept of asking for account deletion come from?

buttercup · Post by **buttercup** » Thu Mar 12, 2009 1:52 pm

Odie;1140400 wrote: Hope just reminded me, has anyone heard from K. Snyder?

Race season starts soon, he'll be busy with cars.

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Thu Mar 12, 2009 1:59 pm

spot;1156526 wrote: Perhaps I'm wrong about the default then. Perhaps posts get left on accounts which are simply abandoned. Perhaps asking for an account to be actively deleted implies the removal of posts as well.

What on earth is wrong with simply never logging in again? Where does this flouncy concept of asking for account deletion come from?

Over and over again.

Kathy Ellen · Post by **Kathy Ellen** » Thu Mar 12, 2009 2:00 pm

What on earth is wrong with simply never logging in again? Where does this flouncy concept of asking for account deletion come from?...posted by Spot.

Jester does not flounce....he left quietly and did not make an issue of his departure.

Chezzie · Post by **Chezzie** » Thu Mar 12, 2009 2:25 pm

Kathy Ellen;1156537 wrote: What on earth is wrong with simply never logging in again? Where does this flouncy concept of asking for account deletion come from?...posted by Spot.

Jester does not flounce....he left quietly and did not make an issue of his departure.

Well he couldnt on the board because he asked to be deleted but he is making alot of noise back stage:wah::wah::wah:

Post by **spot** » Thu Mar 12, 2009 2:33 pm

Kathy Ellen;1156537 wrote: Jester does not flounce....he left quietly and did not make an issue of his departure.Then what on earth is wrong with simply never logging in again? Why the need for a public display of departure?

BTS · Post by **BTS** » Thu Mar 12, 2009 2:36 pm

spot;1156436 wrote: No. It doesn't exist.

When people ask for their account to be deleted, as best I understand it, the default is for their posts to stay in the database intact. Only if they ask for their posts to be deleted at the same time are their posts also removed. I find it intensely destructive and annoying when that happens.

Jester and JAB wiped themselves out, they weren't wiped. Their accounts are gone at their own requests.

That is, I think, what you were just told. For some reason you don't want to accept it.

I guess I read too much into this post,

Quote spot:

"Each recently disagreed with me.

Be warned."

I'm smarter than that to be hoodwinked into believing you would disagree with them.......

Sorry I understand now:driving:

Chezzie · Post by **Chezzie** » Thu Mar 12, 2009 2:39 pm

BTS;1156580 wrote: I guess I read too much into this post,

Quote spot:

"Each recently disagreed with me.

Be warned."

I'm smarter than that to be hoodwinked into believing you would disagree with them.......

Sorry I understand now:driving:

Yup, It was a joke BTS:yh_rotfl

Kathy Ellen · Post by **Kathy Ellen** » Thu Mar 12, 2009 2:41 pm

Chezzie;1156572 wrote: Well he couldnt on the board because he asked to be deleted but he is making alot of noise back stage:wah::wah::wah:

Yupper Chez:-6 He has his concerns:sneaky:

Accountable · Post by **Accountable** » Thu Mar 12, 2009 2:42 pm

Nomad;1156534 wrote: Over and over again.
When are you going to learn that the rules don't apply to the Stain? God!

Kathy Ellen · Post by **Kathy Ellen** » Thu Mar 12, 2009 2:43 pm

spot;1156577 wrote: Then what on earth is wrong with simply never logging in again? Why the need for a public display of departure?

There was no public display Spot. Everything was dealt with through the mods. Jester left quietly.

Chezzie · Post by **Chezzie** » Thu Mar 12, 2009 2:46 pm

Kathy Ellen;1156588 wrote: Yupper Chez:-6 He has his concerns:sneaky:

Well Kathy I can 100% tell you hand on heart that their unfounded concerns. In this instance he is WRONG. I cant spell it out any clearer. If you choose to listen and ignore us who have been involved in the investigation theirs nothing more we can say. Id like to think people thought we were fair and also that Tombstone runs a very fair forum. All this is very upsetting for all involved and its not healthy.

This thread is called Where is this member, anymore posts that are off topic will be deleted as were just going round in circles.

Now where did you say Koochicoo was?:D

BTS · Post by **BTS** » Thu Mar 12, 2009 2:46 pm

Chezzie;1156572 wrote: Well he couldnt on the board because he asked to be deleted but he is making alot of noise back stage

Just where is this stage out back anyways? I can't hear him?

Guess I am stupid or deaf.

Chezzie · Post by **Chezzie** » Thu Mar 12, 2009 2:48 pm

BTS;1156594 wrote: Just where is this stage out back anyways? I can't hear him?

Guess I am stupid or deaf.

well you said it:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

BTS · Post by **BTS** » Thu Mar 12, 2009 2:55 pm

Chezzie;1156593 wrote:

This thread is called Where is this member, anymore posts that are off topic will be deleted as were just going round in circles.

Originally Posted by BTS

Just where is this stage out back anyways? I can't hear him?

Guess I am stupid or deaf.

Chezzie;1156596 wrote: well you said it:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

Maybe you need to start with your post?

Post by **Bryn Mawr** » Thu Mar 12, 2009 2:58 pm

BTS;1156580 wrote: I guess I read too much into this post,

Quote spot:

"Each recently disagreed with me.

Be warned."

I'm smarter than that to be hoodwinked into believing you would disagree with them.......

Sorry I understand now:driving:

Sometimes it is a shame that Spot doesn't plaster his posts with emoticons to make it obvious when he's being facetious but expects people to work it out for themselves.

It would clear up so many misunderstandings if he did :wah:

Post by **spot** » Thu Mar 12, 2009 2:59 pm

Kathy Ellen;1156591 wrote: There was no public display Spot. Everything was dealt with through the mods. Jester left quietly.

Don't be so totally naive Kathy. Any account that gets "n/a" next to it is a public statement. Walking away into the sunset is quietly. Asking for an account to be deleted is like hiring a New Orleans Funeral band complete with stilt walkers and coffin bearers.

Accountable · Post by **Accountable** » Thu Mar 12, 2009 3:01 pm

FFS! Drop it or start another thread. Honor the spirit of this one.

abbey · Post by **abbey** » Thu Mar 12, 2009 3:03 pm

Anyone heard from Koochicoo?

Chezzie · Post by **Chezzie** » Thu Mar 12, 2009 3:05 pm

abbey;1156618 wrote: Anyone heard from Koochicoo?

as it happens no:-2:-3:yh_rotfl

I heard of Jimbo today though and hes doing fine:D

abbey · Post by **abbey** » Thu Mar 12, 2009 3:09 pm

That's good, I half expected him to pm me congratulating me on Uniteds game last night. :sneaky:

abbey · Post by **abbey** » Thu Mar 12, 2009 3:09 pm

Anyone heard from Itchycoo?

Post by **spot** » Thu Mar 12, 2009 3:13 pm

Accountable;1156616 wrote: FFS! Drop it or start another thread. Honor the spirit of this one.

I've long since given up trying to make any more sense of your posts than that you're displaying yet more pathological ungovernable hatred. It's not so much a comment you add to the thread, more a background buzz. If I'm right, you repliesd to Wisey's query before I did and then you started chasing me as usual after I was flippant. It might be worse, you could have rabies.

Kathy Ellen · Post by **Kathy Ellen** » Thu Mar 12, 2009 3:26 pm

Chezzie;1156593 wrote: Well Kathy I can 100% tell you hand on heart that their unfounded concerns. In this instance he is WRONG. I cant spell it out any clearer. If you choose to listen and ignore us who have been involved in the investigation theirs nothing more we can say. Id like to think people thought we were fair and also that Tombstone runs a very fair forum. All this is very upsetting for all involved and its not healthy.

This thread is called Where is this member, anymore posts that are off topic will be deleted as were just going round in circles.

Now where did you say Koochicoo was?:D

Chezzie, I never said that you, any mods or TS were unfair and I'm not ignoring your thoughts:( But, I also have my own opinions, and I don't think that Jester's wrong.

My thoughts have nothing to do with the mod's findings...it's just how I feel. I was never criticizing you or any mod here in FG. I've always had respect for all your hard work here.