southern yankee;1062254 wrote: i guess dear it It was not what is said, it is how it is said.
I find it's so easy to read people out of context when there is no real emotion behind words typed.... Often what we read can be quite the opposite to what is meant, which is why I always welcome people questioning my posts.... I never take offence at that, I welcome the opportunity to explain my meaning:)
I have had people just crush my feeling. Thinking HUH?? .
If someone did that with intention hunny, they are wrong!... simple as!...
I take others feelings always into consideration. That is why if i know i could hurt a friend i would rather bite my lip.Making people cry or mad is not what i consider a GOOD TIME. But that is me. We all are different.
It is possible someone could read your posts above and presume you were talking about them and feel hurt if they were that way inclined, we could all read into any post whatever we wished to see.....
I hope you get what I'm saying... I'm not meaning that to sound as it might read..... I'm trying to say, that if I were upset about lets say Christmas today I read the christmas threads and they make me so upset and cry..... I wouldn't expect anyone not to post about that just because I may be affected by it and possibly hurt by what I'm reading.....
LOL... I'm going a long way round the houses here aren't I! :wah:
*edited to add* I meant to also say sweetness, that unlike in the real world one of the beauties of posting on a forum is that if someone is constantly upsetting you, there is a remarkable feature which allows you to completely cut that person out of your life using the 'ignore' feature... that way you don't have to read them anymore
