I have to agree. We'd have to be in the world of Star Trek, where there appears to be no religion, for this to work. I'm happy with there being multiple religions in this world. I just wish they could all get along.

<t>scarletgirl44;1398693 wrote: For me its NOT, and i DONT see it as such !!! being if im engaging in cyber sex then its NOT REAL sex & im STILL being faithful to me partner so wheres the issue, meaning if i were to engage in cyber sex with say a midget, for example, how am i cheating on my part...

<t>koan;1407496 wrote: The internet can be dangerous in some ways because you can be anyone you want to be... but it's good in the way that it keeps a record of what was said. When people say something or do something in normal life it's just your word against theirs. When they say it online it's us...

Betty Boop;1407499 wrote: Glad it all worked out for you. Good to see you here too, hope you stay :-6


I shall!

<t>Betty Boop;1406987 wrote: Hello, welcome back, hope all is well for you :-6<br/> <br/> <br/> Thanks, Betty. Yes, everything is rosy. He eventually saw the error of his ways, after a year and a lot of hard work on my part, and has spent the last 18 months apologising and making it up to me. He has...

<t>This site helped me tremendously a couple of years ago, but this OP (Original Poster) is playing with us. This poster is a native English speaker (either British English or American English: take your pick) and I really feel that if she REALLY wanted our help, she'd have been truthful in her post...

<r>Just to bring you all up to date! We have the most fantastic week. Our lovemaking has been better than ever before and the number of times per day is way beyond my dreams. You all helped me so much and I want to thank you for your assistance in all this. I think we may be back on track.<E>:)</E><...

<r>CARLA;1305797 wrote: Ah..!! I see after reading your last responses that he does have a physical problem due to medication. Your seem to be discussing that openly with him that is what is necessary.<br/> <br/> <br/> <br/> As far as this other women if it were me all communication with her would b...

Now,I'm just off to prove to him that he doesn't need and can't cope with another woman. It's been working for the last 2 days and I can keep it up as long as he can!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

G#Gill;1305788 wrote: Ah, but you did say that he was supposed to be telling her the truth when she gets back, so he'll have to be in contact with her, if only for that ?


Which I can monitor. I'm more with her than with him.

<r>CARLA;1305758 wrote: Maybe its just me but this isn't a game that you win. This is your husband internet infidelity that he took serious and doesn't seem willing to give it up. <br/> <br/> <br/> <br/> You can do whatever you want, or think will work but in the end there is a problem here and he h...

<t>beowulf;1305781 wrote: my gut feeling is what is missing from your relationship that makes him look for affection/attention elsewhere, even if its on the net<br/> <br/> just my two pennuth<br/> <br/> *waits to be shot down in flames*<br/> <br/> <br/> What was missing was that he wasn't approachin...

spot;1305746 wrote: Meanwhile if you post your email address here the chaps on site can all send you smouldery invitations to imprudent jaunts, and you can leave them lying around for him to go pale at.


Love it!!!!!!!:yh_rotfl

<r>along-for-the-ride;1305739 wrote: I know this is a serious matter, but I can't help cracking up to some of the responses here. I am truly sorry, Weelynnie, that you are going through this with you spouse. It seems to me that your husband is naive to ways of the internet, to believe all the pretty...

<t>Imladris;1305735 wrote: He's behaved and is still behaving with total disregard for you.<br/> <br/> <br/> <br/> Sod him, if he's not crawling on his hands and knees begging for forgiveness and offering to give up the internet altogether I'd be inclined to disconnect something!<br/> <br/> <br/> <b...

spot;1305467 wrote: It doesn't really mesh well with the shenanigans, that's all.


Doesn't does it? I'm thinking of the male menopause, but he's a bit old for that. Having said that when does the male menopause kick in? Maybe he's having late-onset!!!

<t>spot;1305464 wrote: You know, trading him in for a toyboy has a lot going for it. Unless you have excuses you've not brought up... go on, list all his plus points. Without the mushy bits. All you have in the "don't" column right now is lethargy.<br/> <br/> <br/> Plus points - <br/> <br/> He's an ...

<r>G#Gill;1305432 wrote: I hope that you need to know your password to get into your account, and does he know the password? Does he need a password to get into his account, and do you know it? If you have a password for your account, then change it. Just a thought. <E>;)</E><br/> <br/> <br/> We bot...

buttercup;1305425 wrote: If the p.c is not something you use or need why not just accidentally on purpose spill a cup of coffee into the tower :sneaky:


:yh_rotfl Unfortunately we both have our own laptops, but I'll bear it in mind. I suppose something could be arranged.

Yeah right!

Gill, he is soooo Internet unsavvy that the chance of him talking to others, OFF the grid is unreasonable. I'm going to leave you now for tonight. Thank you all - you've been a huge help. BTW he ain't getting any tonight!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

<t>weeder;1305276 wrote: They sound like two ridiculous morons. And HE better watch out for HER.<br/> <br/> Trouble, trouble, trouble. Maybe you should plan a trip over here.as an adventure. Or.........Ill house swap with you. Give me a couple of weeks with<br/> <br/> silly man. He will be very glad...

<t>Well, I e-mailed her, apologised for being a bitch and got back a really nice e-mail saying that I shouldn't monitor my OH's e-mails nor check his websites (she said she was saying this to help me avoid getting upset). Well I'm still doing it and he is desperately trying to get her back talking t...

<t>Ladies, you cannot believe how much you have cheered me up. I am just about to put the 'young' lady straight and tell her how old he is. It would appear that she has suffered some abuse in the past (haven't we all) and she is now finding her 'relationship' with OH difficult because he has 'hurt' ...

<t>Betty Boop;1305069 wrote: Can't see that he really planned to meet her, not after claiming he's 54 and not 70, that would be a hard one to hide! But even so it would be enough to make me annoyed and feel jealous. The hardest part is getting beyond that I guess, and then addressing what it is that...

Thank you both. She claims it was nothing to do with her, but I can't see how you would reply to this if you weren't interested. So basically, what you are saying is that these are two people who are living in a fantasy world. It still hurt.

<r>I really don't know where to start with this one. My husband of 23 years joined a digital photography forum about a month ago and everything was fine until last week. I should have seen the signs. He started asking about how far behind us (we live in Europe) the Eastern Coast of America was. Then...