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Thanks Chezzie and Wendy for taking the time...

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spot;730411 wrote: Fortunately such behaviour is unknown on this site.

:wah::wah: yeah, right !! :rolleyes:

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<r>jimbo;730404 wrote: what you are saying here is quite right , but i dont think i have seen koanhead pick on any one really .... well except me but i enjoy it <E>:D</E>:D perhaps you missed it... or perhaps you are familiar with koan's 'bullying' and view it as normal behaviour?? ...

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<t>spot;730402 wrote: I was rather taken aback by the question. No, being a moderator isn't about power tripping. Having "moderator" written under one's name on every post seems, to me, to have a taste of power tripping about it. As I said - I come here to post, not to feed my ego by powe...

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Sheryl;730398 wrote: Your fairly new, so I'm guessing you "heard" that Koan bullied a member away. I'm sorry, if you don't know the whole story, you shouldn't be making accusations.

I assure you - I know the whole story!

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<t>grh;730380 wrote: If I do notice it, I will most likely just wander off to other forums. I would suggest that anyone else who has an issue with the way management chooses to run their business do the same. Life really is that simple. ... and th...

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<t>koan;730369 wrote: And there we have it. I'm in the middle of making dinner right now, but I think it is best if one of the other mods handles this accusation, anyway. It would be nice if you change your mind but there is not much I can do to affect that. aaww.. you ru...

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Thank you Pheasy !

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koan;730357 wrote: Is there something in particular you would like me to wear while you're watching me?

yeah... a fair weather hat!

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<r>koan;730355 wrote: I work on the principle that if you treat people like children they are more likely to act that way. You have worked out what threads and posts are and now you know who the mods are. We only change 'hats' when mods are called to answer questions. Fair ne...

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Thanks for taking the time, booradley !:)

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<r>koan;730344 wrote: When a member's posts disappear it is at the request of the member. One member left because she didn't like that FG adopted having mods at all. Does that mean the mods drove her out? If the world seems like everyone is against a person they might talk to G...

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<t>koan;730333 wrote: We like to assume that people aren't helpless. When people have had problems and not known who to talk to they start a thread asking who the moderators are. It has been said that moderators don't have special markings for two reasons. 1) we rar...

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<t>koan;730326 wrote: Perhaps it would be helpful to clarify here that everything a mod does, as a mod, is completely transparent to all the mods. The only mod action ever taken that doesn't automatically produce a thread in the mod forums is the editing of a post for which we are supposed to leave ...

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<t>spot;730324 wrote: New members with difficulties tend to post queries into "Problems, Solutions & Feedback" where everyone, moderator or not, lends a hand. Speaking personally I'd rather spend most of my time here as a member indistinguishable from any other. I come here to post, not to feed ...

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Don't know if I'm doing this right... but I'm of the opinion that members should be aware of who the moderators of this site are... a simple 'Moderator' displayed under their name/avator should do the job nicely.

How many agree ??

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<t>spot;730315 wrote: There's a "report" icon on every post in every thread to encourage any member to bring any post to the attention of every moderator. Yes - I realise that, but surely there should be a facility for new members to be able to pm a moderator if they are having diff...

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spot;730299 wrote: Because we post as members, not as moderators. What we do as moderators is (ideally at least) independent of what we post, until we get to posts about moderators like this one. There aren't many.

So how do we know who to approach if we're having problems?

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<t>koan;730201 wrote: You might also note that members who are not mods often gang up to drive people from a forum. Power is a subjective thing. I don't notice any mods power tripping because they are mods. That was an issue a long time ago prior to the current moderator team. ...

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Why isn't there a facility to display 'moderator' underneath the names of the mod's???

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:-3 oohh sh!t.... how do I tell my daughter her dad's been arrested on drugs charges??

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:-6 summer is always with you....

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whichever side I fall into.... :-3

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Well said... !!!

I hate bullies !!

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WonderWendy3;729677 wrote: Summer....that was really cute!!:wah::wah:

I think it's brilliant.....

I'm doing loads now of friends...

gonna be a laaaate night !! :-3

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Chezzie;728921 wrote: Im going to buy a new cossie for my match....Now what colours gonna look good next to mud, summer and wendykins???

HHmmm.... how about this one, Chezzie...........

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Chookie;729461 wrote: I'm taking the photos.

Oh yes, there WILL be photos - unless............

unless... the camera accidently falls in the mud...??? :sneaky:

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:wah: :wah: such fun..... I'm outta breath with all that dancin'

me and my daughter elfin' around......

http://www.elfyourself.com/?id=1122912882

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Carolly;729356 wrote: Ohhhh I dont believe you............you gotta tell yerself yer gorg..........I do............trouble is I tell lies:wah::D

I cannot tell a lie... not even to myself.... I have a big enough nose as it is...

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Carolly;729343 wrote: Gawd elp us..........sue the git who did it.......mind you youd make a fab stand in for a muppet movie:yh_rotfl

;)

believe me... this is a definite improvement !! :wah::wah:

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<t>Hi Steven I can empathise with what you are going through... my daughter is 15 and has been 'cutting' on and off for about 2 years now.... (although superficially - never needed stitches). My advice to you about the possibility that she is 'cutting' would be to g...

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:wah: whatever rocks your boat... my face lift turned out pretty well...

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Carolly;729327 wrote: Tell yer I would have a face lift but no bugger wants to lift;) it:wah:

eeww.. don't - you'd end up lookin' like Pete Burns...

....that'd be a tragedy !! :-3

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Carolly;729323 wrote: Ye well us females do..........I mean we have to look our best dont we lol;)

:-3 OOh crikey... if I want to look my best - I need more than a weeks notice - about a month should do it!

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byeeee.................

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<t>Carolly;729318 wrote: Er, dunno what to say.............except.........are you sure I mean dont you fink yer wonderful...........ohhhh I reckon you are;) no - I mean... I'm an Aries... the rest is certainly not me! naahh .. I'm kidding really, I'd say that's just abou...

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<t>:-3 - The Aggressive Outgoing. Lovable. Spontaneous. Not one to mess with. Funny. Excellent kisser EXTREMELY adorable. Loves relationships, and family is very important to an aries. Aries are known for being generous and giving. Addictive. Loud. Always has the need to be "Ri...

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I feel like I'm wishing I'd gone to bed earlier and not had those last two drinks... :yh_tired

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:-6 Happy Birthday Lasgos... hope you have a great day !

wish I was only 36...

summer x x x :-6

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Chezzie;728933 wrote: not many till the 100 mark now Summer:)

:wah: I thought you meant 100 posts, Chezzie...... I'm past that now - I talk waaaay too much!

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Hi guppy - nice to meet you !

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el guapo;728689 wrote: i will be ref:p:p:p

I don't need a reference, guapo.... !! :-2

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WonderWendy3;728688 wrote: okay...a threesome it will be!!!

ummmm Summer....be gentle with me ....k??

always, Wendy... always!!

:-4

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Chezzie;728684 wrote: maybe we could have a threesome:-4........I dont mind sharing the ring:wah:

Sounds good to me.... why stop at 3 ??

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WonderWendy3;728680 wrote: I wanna be in the ring with Chezzie!!!!!!!!!!

Pick me PICK MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

You're in with ME, Wendy!! :-4

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koan;728677 wrote: how many match their bra and panties?

eeww.. don't ye just hate that word.... 'panties' !

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el guapo;728668 wrote: is that dood or bad

I reckon it's dad ... :-3

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C. .... but I'd eat my way through the whale's stomach.... 16 hours should be enough time ! :yh_sweat

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Lisa;728638 wrote:

g'is a clue Lisa... :-3

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abbey;728633 wrote: Morrison's at the mo has Baily's on offer Â£10 per bottle.

hhmmm.. nice, but even I can't afford Â£70 a week!

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