<r>canaan wrote: yeah. I had the same problem with my MIL. Turns out, she is nuts. :wah: Well, not diagnosed as such but we are pretty sure. Your husband will have to be the one to stand up for you. If he lets her run over you then she will continue. But, you would be surprised at how much easier it ...

chonsigirl wrote: Maybe you should move a greater distance away-that will help both sides keep their distance, and their love for each other.


Sadly enough thats tough.. we have already purchaced an apartment next to theirs

flopstock wrote: isn't there some saying about guys marrying women like their mothers?


but like minds dont attract i guess

flopstock wrote: had you rehearsed what you were going to say?


Yes we had, but my husband forgot his lines and I wasnt prompting from behind the scenes...:-5

<t>mominiowa wrote: I have always said - if it wasn't for my X mother in law we would still be married..She rearranged my furniture, she would bring him something different to eat after she would call and I would tell her what we were having for supper..(her boy needed meat and potatoes EVERY NIGHT ...

Thanks so much.. that sounds like what i have been through.. but I hope things dont crash further.

flopstock wrote: had you rehearsed what you were going to say?


yes we had.. but my husband didnt remember his lines

<t>My mother in law and I have had problems with eachother every since my marriage 5 years back. She feels the usual mother in law (mil) emotions about how her son has been taken away from her and doesnt attribute anything good to me. She is forever correcting me about things and in turn I get rude ...

<t>Your problem sounds very similar to mine, except that I am a woman and writing to you from the other point of view. I got married 5 years back, and although I love my husband dearly, I do not find him very attractive sexually. <br/>
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I cant imagine a life without him and we are brilliant ...