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A book has been released by a 15 year old where she asks people in the limelight / her heroes/ people she looked up to.....what advive they would give their teenage self.

Mine would be.... theres no such thing as "i cant"... and dont listen to those who say "you cant"..

Make friends who have good character and values.

magentaflame;1500473 wrote: A book has been released by a 15 year old where she asks people in the limelight / her heroes/ people she looked up to.....what advive (sic) they would give their teenage self.

Mine would be.... theres no such thing as "i cant"... and dont listen to those who say "you cant"..My advice would be, spell "i" with a capital "I" and spell "cant" with an apostrophe betwixt the n and the t.

Mine would be, don't make a habit of correcting people's grammar and spelling. They will hate you for it.

(Wish I'd known that when I was young.)

If I'd known back then how to wind people up like I know now, life would have been a lot different. And shorter.

I'd say "be braver", what doesn't kill you actually does make you stronger. You will be good. Oh, and don't google any symptoms.

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LarsMac;1500491 wrote: Mine would be, don't make a habit of correcting people's grammar and spelling. They will hate you for it.

(Wish I'd known that when I was young.)Why do you suppose that is? G-d forbid that such a person should ever have to fill out an employment application!

spot;1500492 wrote: If I'd known back then how to wind people up like I know now, life would have been a lot different. And shorter.


But, probably a lot more fun. For a while, anyway.

I wouldn't have listened.

I'd have said..

"Don't worry, be happy"

Oh and,

Don't let anyone ruin your day, that just makes them a powerful person over you. Take back the power.

just 1 piece of advise hmmmmm

Invest now.

Spot lol you are a bad man

Mark Aspam;1500490 wrote: My advice would be, spell "i" with a capital "I" and spell "cant" with an apostrophe betwixt the n and the t.


Its called texting ********... and ill text any way i want to.

And yes i would have called you a ******** at 13 as well .

minks;1500520 wrote: just 1 piece of advise hmmmmm

Invest now.

Spot lol you are a bad man


Invest with apple.....dont ask questions just do it lol

I'd have tipped myself off as to the type of work I do & enjoy best - Customer Service. It's something I only learned I had a flair for in the past few years. Just think of all that wasted time.

Its funny that isnt it? ....im doing a security guard course in Oct...... i just know id be good at it. Everyone i know thinks the same. Lol.

magentaflame;1500535 wrote: Its funny that isnt it? ....im doing a security guard course in Oct...... i just know id be good at it. Everyone i know thinks the same. Lol.I agree with your friends, I think that would be a good job for you, and I wish you all the best!

ADDED LATER: Regarding texting, taking shortcuts while sending phone messages is fine, imposing that on readers of a serious (usually) forum is knda stpd, dncha thnk?

I'm with Anne, wouldn't have listened and neither does my 14 year old. Knows it all so letting her get on with it :rolleyes:

Mark Aspam;1500562 wrote: I agree with your friends, I think that would be a good job for you, and I wish you all the best!

ADDED LATER: Regarding texting, taking shortcuts while sending phone messages is fine, imposing that on readers of a serious (usually) forum is knda stpd, dncha thnk?


No betty.... no. I apologised upfront , when i came back. I have very little opportunity for data on my phone. I have no internet nor computer. I have to rush my posts because the data on my phone is intermittnt. You have no idea of how many posts i have to repeat because even my phone cant hold a connection. I need to rush my posts.

If you are saying i dont belong here because of my governments failures then so be it. But i think those in more fortunet situations shouldnt poke fun or stir up trouble !

Ill leave if you want but if you dont want me to then maybe you should tell others that circumstances are different around the world and should pull their god damned heads in.

If you even knew how painful my thumb is after one post you wouldnt be saying any of what youve just stated.

magentaflame;1500595 wrote: No betty.... no. I apologised upfront , when i came back. I have very little opportunity for data on my phone. I have no internet nor computer. I have to rush my posts because the data on my phone is intermittnt. You have no idea of how many posts i have to repeat because even my phone cant hold a connection. I need to rush my posts.

If you are saying i dont belong here because of my governments failures then so be it. But i think those in more fortunet situations shouldnt poke fun or stir up trouble !

Ill leave if you want but if you dont want me to then maybe you should tell others that circumstances are different around the world and should pull their god damned heads in.

If you even knew how painful my thumb is after one post you wouldnt be saying any of what youve just stated.I really had no idea that this forum was accessible by any means other than computer! Amazing!

Mark Aspam;1500598 wrote: I really had no idea that this forum was accessible by any means other than computer! Amazing!


Well, there ya go. You learn something new every day.

I access the forum via my phone regularly.

And long ago, I learned that admonishing people for spelling, punctuation and capitalization on their posts in forums and such was generally counterproductive and considered quite rude.

LarsMac;1500607 wrote: Well, there ya go. You learn something new every day.

I access the forum via my phone regularly.

And long ago, I learned that admonishing people for spelling, punctuation and capitalization on their posts in forums and such was generally counterproductive and considered quite rude.Well, I'm a retired English teacher, so go figure. Admonition is my lifelong ambition.

The condition of the English language today, particularly the USA variation thereof, is, if not outrageous, at least very disappointing. Even the major networks are at fault, but mainly with errors of SYNTAX ("..she said it was him.") So far, spelling and punctuation have been pretty well preserved.

Please assure me that I'm not going to see "texting" on the subtitles of the nightly news any time soon.

ADDED LATER: I'm not talking about COLLOQUIALISM here, I use that all the time myself. And I own a cell phone which permits texting, which I very rarely use, but when I do, I spell words correctly, it's not difficult.

Mark Aspam;1500609 wrote: Well, I'm a retired English teacher, so go figure. Admonition is my lifelong ambition.

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AhaH! understand completely. I grew up in a family with several of those. A lot of it rubbed off.

There is an art to the restraint needed when participating in discussion forums and such and NOT giving in to the temptation to correct people.

But, much latitude must be given to those who try to communicate via the modern marvels of the day.

Mark Aspam;1500609 wrote:

ADDED LATER: I'm not talking about COLLOQUIALISM here, I use that all the time myself. And I own a cell phone which permits texting, which I very rarely use, but when I do, I spell words correctly, it's not difficult.


I work pretty hard at spelling and grammar when texting on my mobile, too. It is a tough job. Auto-correct can prove to be a challenge. Many today lack the patience to even try.

The device is not the problem intermittent access to the internet is the problem.

For all of you with your smart tv's etc , im lucky if i get a digital signal to my everyday telly.

magentaflame;1500657 wrote: The device is not the problem intermittent access to the internet is the problem.

For all of you with your smart tv's etc , im lucky if i get a digital signal to my everyday telly.


I see the same problem with my phone. I moved to an area where I actually had to change service to get a decent signal. Reminds me of my first cell phone. I had to walk up to the top of the hill to get decent service, back then.

Mark Aspam;1500609 wrote: Well, I'm a retired English teacher, so go figure. Admonition is my lifelong ambition.

The condition of the English language today, particularly the USA variation thereof, is, if not outrageous, at least very disappointing. Even the major networks are at fault, but mainly with errors of SYNTAX ("..she said it was him.") So far, spelling and punctuation have been pretty well preserved.

Please assure me that I'm not going to see "texting" on the subtitles of the nightly news any time soon.

ADDED LATER: I'm not talking about COLLOQUIALISM here, I use that all the time myself. And I own a cell phone which permits texting, which I very rarely use, but when I do, I spell words correctly, it's not difficult.


Im forty seven years old. I do not need to be 'admonished' by anyone.

My handwriting is much much better than yours, ill stake my life on it. My typing (without auto correct) is extremely good)

MY TEXTING is **** and will remain so. It is not my forte .

The device i use is not the problem..... it is the connection to an internet connection , and having to be extremely quick in my posts before it drops out........ im lucky to get fleeting 3g to my phone in my own home.

Australia was 31 on the internet table (accessability wise) we are now 64 on the world table......third world countries have better access than we do .

There are children reverting to school of the air again because their internet access is now down to about an hour a day.......i used to have a landline pho.e..... telstra has told a neighbour and myself that its not worth fixing the degrading lines. I used to have internet to the house but there is no access to even the simplist form .

So i will post here as i have down since returning to this forum.

LIVE WITH IT!!!!!!! But if per chance my posts stress you to the extent of extreme ill health then so be it.

magentaflame;1500727 wrote: Im forty seven years old. I do not need to be 'admonished' by anyone.

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My daughter, 2 years your Junior says the same thing. Her English teacher mother continues to admonish away.

Me, I just nod my head and sigh.

LarsMac;1500729 wrote: My daughter, 2 years your Junior says the same thing. Her English teacher mother continues to admonish away.

Me, I just nod my head and sigh.


Wise man.

magentaflame;1500473 wrote: A book has been released by a 15 year old where she asks people in the limelight / her heroes/ people she looked up to.....what advive they would give their teenage self.Well, if you ask people for 'advive' you should be willing to receive some, whether you agree with it or not.

Insulting the adviver is tacky.

And mocking is extreme bad manners and your understanding of the thread is flawd .

Advice, not lecture.. advice relating to self awareness and well being.

id rather see a sermon than hear one any day

Id rather one should walk with me than merely tell the way

The eyes a better pupil and more willing than the ear

Fine counsel is confusing, but examples always clear

And the best of all the preachers are the men who live their creeds

For to see good put in action is what everybody needs

Look for the rest of this poem with your vast knowledge and experience of research

magentaflame;1500746 wrote: And mocking is extreme bad manners and your understanding of the thread is flawd .My understanding of your understanding of the thread is that it's OK for an adult to be borderline illiterate.

I think it's your understanding that's "flawd". Schools are there for a purpose, not just for looking out the window.

ADDED LATER: If I'm being too harsh I apologize. At the top of the thread you asked for opinions, I gave you what I considered a sincere, realistic opinion, you blew me off because, I guess, it was at odds with your own views. This forum, as I understand it, is supposed to be open to a VARIETY of viewpoints, and I was just trying to present a different side.

And I do wish you good luck with the new job.

Oh dear ....... blocked. I have no time for trolls.

Mark, you're not teaching a class here. Please, give it a rest. It's off topic to the thread anyway.

AnneBoleyn;1500764 wrote: Mark, you're not teaching a class here. Please, give it a rest. It's off topic to the thread anyway.Not teaching and will give it a rest. OK?

HOWEVER, just between us and not meant to dis the poster, I don't think that it was off the topic at all. The question posed was, how would I advise a teenager? Literacy is basic, and HOPEFULLY will continue to be basic, "texting" notwithstanding.

I think that I would advise my 13 year old self," Give up the idea that you need to have the last word in every conversation. People will like you much better for that."

Not an issue, seriously dont sweat it. Mark aspam..... has been marked as spam.

Alls good, purged as they say.



So....... topic ?

All in all, I'm probably with Anne.

My 13-year-old self never listened to all those old farts that tried to tell me anything useful.

Mark Aspam;1500770 wrote: Not teaching and will give it a rest. OK?

HOWEVER, just between us and not meant to dis the poster, I don't think that it was off the topic at all. The question posed was, how would I advise a teenager? Literacy is basic, and HOPEFULLY will continue to be basic, "texting" notwithstanding.


I'm kind of a grammar & proper usage & spelling maven myself, but it stops with myself. I hope.