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can you trust your best friend?

are you trustworthy?

has anyone broken your trust?

Absolutely!

Extraordinarily so!

Of course, however, taking full responsibility requires understanding that people can only break what you yourself have given them. Thats a chance we take and when trust is broken we learn so much about life and ourselves that....it could be considered a miracle?

Ahso!;1271712 wrote:

Of course, however, taking full responsibility requires understanding that people can only break what you yourself have given them. Thats a chance we take and when trust is broken we learn so much about life and ourselves that....it could be considered a miracle?


well put.

My problem is I'm extremely trusting. Bad news in this world.

Odie;1271708 wrote: can you trust your best friend?

are you trustworthy?

has anyone broken your trust?


I would trust my best friend with my life and vice versa

In my profession, I have to be trustworthy as I have lives depending on me

I once had a person that I trusted to come into my home to take care of my animals while I was away for three days. This person never bothered to show up :-1



I guess to sum it up, I have three yes answers :wah:

can you trust your best friend?- I have no friends.

are you trustworthy?- reasonably so.

has anyone broken your trust?- Often.

Yes absolutely - I choose my friends carefully.

Yes - I'm passionately protective and fiercely loyal.

Yes - I now refer you back to my first answer.

can you trust your best friend?

definately

are you trustworthy?

absolutely

has anyone broken your trust?

to many

Can you trust your best friend? Absolutely

Are you trustworthy? very much so

has anyone broken your trust? too many times

Ahso!;1271712 wrote: Absolutely!

Extraordinarily so!

Of course, however, taking full responsibility requires understanding that people can only break what you yourself have given them. Thats a chance we take and when trust is broken we learn so much about life and ourselves that....it could be considered a miracle?


not necessarily, if you fully believe you can trust someone?

- that trust should not be broken.





if that trust is broken, we learn more about that person than ourselves and it hurts when someone breaks it.



Its not a miracle to have had faith in someone and it be destroyed.

Odie;1272252 wrote: not necessarily, if you fully believe you can trust someone?

- that trust should not be broken.





if that trust is broken, we learn more about that person than ourselves and it hurts when someone breaks it.



Its not a miracle to have had faith in someone and it be destroyed.Woulda - coulda - shoulda!

Perhaps you'd focus on the other person while I'd focus on what I've learned about myself and life. That doesn't mean I ignore the behavior of the transgressor, just that I would chose not to overly concern myself with them. They've obviously got things to work on.

The miracle thing was a play off the miracle thread!

Ahso!;1272265 wrote: Woulda - coulda - shoulda!

Perhaps you'd focus on the other person while I'd focus on what I've learned about myself and life. That doesn't mean I ignore the behavior of the transgressor, just that I would chose not to overly concern myself with them. They've obviously got things to work on.

The miracle thing was a play off the miracle thread!


but you did nothing wrong by confiding.

Its not to mean I won't say it again to someone else, its just mistrust at the time.

Odie;1272269 wrote: but you did nothing wrong by confiding.

Its not to mean I won't say it again to someone else, its just mistrust at the time.So you learn whatever lesson you do by events and move on in the appropriate time.

Betrayal happens - when it does it hurts but there is no reversing time and negating events. The only thing that can be achieved by the hurt party is healing and that usually only occurs through forgiveness, however, its my personal opinion that focusing on the other person neglects the self and thereby retards forgiveness and healing.

Ahso!;1272278 wrote: So you learn whatever lesson you do by events and move on in the appropriate time.

Betrayal happens - when it does it hurts but there is no reversing time and negating events. The only thing that can be achieved by the hurt party is healing and that usually only occurs through forgiveness, however, its my personal opinion that focusing on the other person neglects the self and thereby retards forgiveness and healing.


of course you move on and you heal.

Odie;1272280 wrote: of course you move on and you heal.So what are you arguing about?

Ahso!;1272286 wrote: So what are you arguing about?


I'm not.:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl



as I said, to me, its the person whom your upset with, not yourself.

odie;1271708 wrote: can you trust your best friend?

not any more i can't,don't won't.

are you trustworthy?

people confide a lot of things to me & they stay with me.

has anyone broken your trust?

yes very recently,they lied to me,i still am polite but that is about as far as it will go from here on.


Live & learn it is all a part of life & we are all in the same boat.

No one is perfect but I try hard to do the best I can by my standards.:-6

I have made mistakes ,paid for them.I think I am a better person for all that.

I will find it hard to trust for a while now though.

fuzzywuzzy;1271715 wrote: well put.

My problem is I'm extremely trusting. Bad news in this world.


ahhhhhhhhh that's not a problem fuzzy, just be careful not to say anything you wouldn't tell your best friend.

myself, it will take a very long time to trust again.