ForumGarden

No sympathy please guys just prayers.

I didn't want to put this on as a thread but I have been a little grumpy of late due to the news that two new shadows have been found in Mr O's lungs.

He's been in the x ray department all day and now due to the area of pain, they believe the cancer may have returned in his bones which is very common after advanced prostate cancer.

The next two weeks he will be in and out of various hospital departments under-going more tests.

He is not at all well with severe chest pains and back pain.... Fatigue plays another large part.

I will try to visit FG as much as usual but please bear with me as I've been a little lax in answering messages and being my usual jolly self.

Thanks all xxx

Prayers on way to you both. There's not a lot anyone can say or do to make it easier. Life stinks sometimes :yh_hugs

oscar;1247216 wrote: No sympathy please guys just prayers.

I didn't want to put this on as a thread but I have been a little grumpy of late due to the news that two new shadows have been found in Mr O's lungs.

He's been in the x ray department all day and now due to the area of pain, they believe the cancer may have returned in his bones which is very common after advanced prostate cancer.

The next two weeks he will be in and out of various hospital departments under-going more tests.

He is not at all well with severe chest pains and back pain.... Fatigue plays another large part.

I will try to visit FG as much as usual but please bear with me as I've been a little lax in answering messages and being my usual jolly self.

Thanks all xxx


Hello Julie.

-you had kept me informed about Peter's condition, I had no idea of today's events.......:-1

You know I am here for you and I will also email you my phone number my friend........:-4



love always, Joan



xooxoooxooooxoooxoooooxoooo



tons of prayers will be said for you both.:-4



:yh_pray:yh_pray:yh_pray:yh_pray

I shall remember you both in my prayers.....:-4

Sending as much strength as I can, Julie, to Peter and you. What can one say to two nice folks who have to face such a dreadful thing ? My thoughts are with you both. :-6

hang tough girlie!:-6

All of my love and best wishes are with you Julie and Peter:-4

You are always in my thoughts;)

:-6 beams and thoughts to your both O

So sorry to hear about what's goin on

You guys are in my prayers :yh_hugs

Thoughts go out to Peter and yourself.

Strength is something i am sure you are not short of.

What little strength I have is going out to both of you.

:-1 Bummer!

You are both in My thoughts, Take care of Peter, Take care of You x

Lots of love and prayers for you both.

Stay strong :-4:-4:-4

Oscar, very best wishes to you and Peter!!!

You know we will be here to give our support when you need us. Take care of yourself and Peter. We will be thinking about you and, yes, praying.

I have just been told about this thread, Oscar.

My thoughts and prayers are with you both.:-4:-4

Thinking of you both.

My thoughts are with you too

Best wishes & good thoughts to you both.

Thinking of you both. If anyone can beat this thing, it's you two.

Best wishes & hopes for a remission being sent your way!

As a Prostate Cancer Survivor my self I send good thoughts for a positive outcome.

Jules...sending lots of :-4, :yh_hugs, and :yh_pray to both you and Peter!

Oscar and Peter you are both in my thoughts and prayers. :-4

Peter has more fish to catch.

Best wishes

Also best wishes.:-6

Ok, no sympathy but lots of best wishes and love to you both.



:-4

Thank you so much for all your kind wishes. I am very touched by your messages.

Even that granite rock gmc posted .... Blimey !!

Well, we've been here before 3 years ago and they were very skillfull at getting all the cancer out that time. It had grown out of the prostate into the bladder, bowel, euretha etc so he was lucky to have one marvellous surgeon. They always gave him a very high risk of it returning as it did last year but was contained, as they can not get cell level out. We have a marvellous Doctor and the Oncology Departemnt in Bristol just can not be faulted. I also get counselling if I want It which I think is a good thing. The Oscars are very good at fighting and when we've finished fighting, we fight some more.

Thank you again friends. x

oscar;1247526 wrote: The Oscars are very good at fighting and when we've finished fighting, we fight some more.

Thank you again friends. x


Amen Woman :yh_hugs

YouTube - Days

For peter. :-4

oscar;1247526 wrote: Thank you so much for all your kind wishes. I am very touched by your messages.

Even that granite rock gmc posted .... Blimey !!

Well, we've been here before 3 years ago and they were very skillfull at getting all the cancer out that time. It had grown out of the prostate into the bladder, bowel, euretha etc so he was lucky to have one marvellous surgeon. They always gave him a very high risk of it returning as it did last year but was contained, as they can not get cell level out. We have a marvellous Doctor and the Oncology Departemnt in Bristol just can not be faulted. I also get counselling if I want It which I think is a good thing. The Oscars are very good at fighting and when we've finished fighting, we fight some more.

Thank you again friends. x


Julie, you both have always been fighters.

you both need a pair of boxing gloves now and you go get em!:-5:-5



sent you my phone number yesterday via email.:-4

and you already know.........I'm always here.



love Joan



xoxoxox



more prayers said tonight..........and every night.



(((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))

How is he today?

OpenMind;1247567 wrote: How is he today?
Thanks for asking.... he's very tired and has been in bed much of the day. It's so difficult trying to keep the dogs quiet though.

oscar;1247579 wrote: Thanks for asking.... he's very tired and has been in bed much of the day. It's so difficult trying to keep the dogs quiet though.


oh he is out of the hospital Julie, how wonderful!

he is bound to be tired and weak.



(((((((((hugs)))))))

oscar;1247216 wrote: No sympathy please guys just prayers.



I didn't want to put this on as a thread but I have been a little grumpy of late due to the news that two new shadows have been found in Mr O's lungs.

He's been in the x ray department all day and now due to the area of pain, they believe the cancer may have returned in his bones which is very common after advanced prostate cancer.

The next two weeks he will be in and out of various hospital departments under-going more tests.

He is not at all well with severe chest pains and back pain.... Fatigue plays another large part.



I will try to visit FG as much as usual but please bear with me as I've been a little lax in answering messages and being my usual jolly self.



Thanks all xxx
Oh Honey! I dont know what to say! Of course our prayers are with you sweetheart! If you want support of any kind, but especially someone who will interpret what the medical folks tell you, let me know. PM me for my cell phone. Anytime honey. Anytime. xx

Juie..............

Just wanted to say nvalleyvee and I hope all comes out well.....

Robert



PS:Found this poem and wanted to share:



SLOW DANCE

Have you ever watched kids

On a merry-go-round?

Or listened to the rain

Slapping on the ground?

Ever followed a butterfly's erratic flight?

Or gazed at the sun into the fading night?

You better slow down.

Don't dance so fast.

Time is short.

The music won't last.

Do you run through each day

On the fly?

When you ask "How are you?"

Do you hear the reply?

When the day is done

Do you lie in your bed

With the next hundred chores

Running through your head?

You'd better slow down

Don't dance so fast.

Time is short.

The music won't last.

Ever told your child,

We'll do it tomorrow?

And in your haste,

Not see his sorrow?

Ever lost touch,

Let a good friendship die

Cause you never had time

To call and say "Hi"?

You'd better slow down.

Don't dance so fast.

Time is short.

The music won't last.

When you run so fast to get somewhere

You miss half the fun of getting there.

When you worry and hurry through your day,

It is like an unopened gift....

Thrown away.

Life is not a race.

Do take it slower

Hear the music

Before the song is over.



(Anonymous author - Possibly

written by a six year old girl with terminal cancer in a New York Hospital)

i am really sorry to hear that :(

best wishes to both peter and yourself :-6:-6

Wow BTS!! That is so inspirational...I needed to hear that as much as the Oscars!!!Thank you for posting it!! :-4

BTS;1247593 wrote: Juie..............

Just wanted to say nvalleyvee and I hope all comes out well.....

Robert



PS:Found this poem and wanted to share:



SLOW DANCE

Have you ever watched kids

On a merry-go-round?

Or listened to the rain

Slapping on the ground?

Ever followed a butterfly's erratic flight?

Or gazed at the sun into the fading night?

You better slow down.

Don't dance so fast.

Time is short.

The music won't last.

Do you run through each day

On the fly?

When you ask "How are you?"

Do you hear the reply?

When the day is done

Do you lie in your bed

With the next hundred chores

Running through your head?

You'd better slow down

Don't dance so fast.

Time is short.

The music won't last.

Ever told your child,

We'll do it tomorrow?

And in your haste,

Not see his sorrow?

Ever lost touch,

Let a good friendship die

Cause you never had time

To call and say "Hi"?

You'd better slow down.

Don't dance so fast.

Time is short.

The music won't last.

When you run so fast to get somewhere

You miss half the fun of getting there.

When you worry and hurry through your day,

It is like an unopened gift....

Thrown away.

Life is not a race.

Do take it slower

Hear the music

Before the song is over.



(Anonymous author - Possibly

written by a six year old girl with terminal cancer in a New York Hospital)

Thank you both of you... that's absolutely beautiful and I so appreciate you taking the time to post it. It means a lot to me. :-4

oscar;1247558 wrote: YouTube - Days

For peter. :-4


never assume Julie, he's still with you now.:-4

You made me cry there BTS:-4 Thank you for posting that lovely poem for Julie and Peter.





We're all here for you Julie and Pete. You better tell him to get better so he can catch some more fish for us:wah::-4 We want to see tons of pics of him fishing in the river catching the big guys;)

BTS.........what a lovely poem you gave Julie & Peter.

that is the most thoughtful gift anyone could have given them.

Thinking of you oscar.:-4:-4

Thankyou to all of you for your lovely good wishes. Also for the private messages and e mails I have recieved. I am over-whelmed bu every-one's kindness.

Pete has been in hospital all day having more X rays and scans. Now, it is the waiting game again. He finds the fatigue the worst. The Oncology department is marvellous and doing all they can.

Thankyou all again :-4:-4

Thinking of you both Jules:-6

Keep strong and always positive :-4

Let us be grateful to people who make us happy;

they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom.

- Marcel Proust

Chezzie;1247823 wrote: Thinking of you both Jules:-6

Keep strong and always positive :-4

Let us be grateful to people who make us happy;

they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom.

- Marcel Proust THANKS CHEZZ.

We have laughter... much laughter as you have to.

He has had to stop smoking. Oh dear... he's so grumpy.

Lon;1247418 wrote: As a Prostate Cancer Survivor my self I send good thoughts for a positive outcome.
Glad you survived it Lon. I'm afraid Pete had very little symptoms years ago and the surgeon believed his tumour had been in there for 12 years before he felt any pain.

Nomad;1247470 wrote: Peter has more fish to catch.
He went fishing the other morning but was too tired to cast so he spent four hours just looking at them. Only my husband !!!!! :wah: