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Whats right about you ?



Whats wrong about you ?

right i think i'm a kind happy go lucky baloo the bear type of guy

wrong ..it seems i may slightly annoy the odd person .... and one really odd person :yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

I consiously try to be fair and kind, Polite and firendly. i dont sweat the small stuff or stress over something spilt on the rug, i enjoy life and all its small pleasures:D

I find it hard (sometimes impossible) to forgive sometimes. I am irrtatingly reasonable and lack passion sometimes for stuff other people get really worked up over i am an ostrich:sneaky:

What's right about me - Just not enough hours in the day to list all that is good. :yh_rotfl :yh_rotfl

What's wrong with me - Once again just not enough hours in the day to list what is wrong. :yh_rotfl :yh_rotfl

CARLA;1207701 wrote: What's right about me - Just not enough hours in the day to list all that is good. :yh_rotfl :yh_rotfl

What's wrong with me - Once again just not enough hours in the day to list what is wrong. :yh_rotfl :yh_rotfl
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Right-I love to joke and laugh.

Wrong- I'm overly passionate about my country, abortion and religeous beliefs.

kazalala;1207697 wrote: I consiously try to be fair and kind, Polite and firendly. i dont sweat the small stuff or stress over something spilt on the rug, i enjoy life and all its small pleasures:D



I find it hard (sometimes impossible) to forgive sometimes. I am irrtatingly reasonable and lack passion sometimes for stuff other people get really worked up over i am an ostrich:sneaky:


Do you work on forgiving ?

Maybe 1 person 1 incident to start.

Forgiveness can be a tough one but its extremely rewarding and in a way humbling. It has a way of changing you.

Thats kind of why I started the thread.

I was wondering if people are aware of their shortcomings and if they make an effort to evolve away from them and into a new way of thinking and acting.

Nomad;1207704 wrote: Do you work on forgiving ?

Maybe 1 person 1 incident to start.

Forgiveness can be a tough one but its extremely rewarding and in a way hunbling. It has a way of changing you.

Thats kind of why I started the thread.

I was wondering if people are aware of their shortcomings and if they make an effort to evolve away from them and into a new way of thinking and acting.


I think i am aware of my shortcomings,, maybe not all:sneaky:

forgiving,, hmm yes i do try,, but i feel i fail just occasionally,, i can say to that person ok its done and over with, and if they apologise most likely will accept it,, but i never forget and its always at the back of my mind,, i suppose even when sometimes another person may not realise,, i stop thinking of them in the same way i used to ,, of course it all depends on what it is we are trying to forgive dont it Its probably more,, or tied into,, lack of trust ,, sort of like once bitten twice shy.

yes i think it would feel good to be able to just unconditionally forgive

Whats your right snd wrongs:-2

kazalala;1207713 wrote: I think i am aware of my shortcomings,, maybe not all:sneaky:



forgiving,, hmm yes i do try,, but i feel i fail just occasionally,, i can say to that person ok its done and over with, and if they apologise most likely will accept it,, but i never forget and its always at the back of my mind,, i suppose even when sometimes another person may not realise,, i stop thinking of them in the same way i used to ,, of course it all depends on what it is we are trying to forgive dont it Its probably more,, or tied into,, lack of trust ,, sort of like once bitten twice shy.

yes i think it would feel good to be able to just unconditionally forgive



Whats your right snd wrongs:-2


I think forgiveness is a really good one to work on. It opens up your heart and frees you from the tether of fear. I think it makes you stronger.



Mine...so many.

In a nutshell.



I have beautifuful things that live inside of my heart and my soul. I wish to share them and touch people. I have a gift.



But because of my childhood and then years of drinking I desperately struggle to allow myself the freedom to be who I am. Im afraid and anxious and it prevents me from being love. I do try and I have moments and Im learning.

we can always only keep trying:):-6

Right: My total, overwhelming enthusiasm and inquisitiveness for almost everything.

Wrong: Not realizing that at times that trait can be misunderstood and unwanted.

what's right? I know what I want.

I worship the things I love, my friends, family and animals.:-4:-4

I'm sociable, funny and always seeking to help people.





what's wrong?.......to many to list!:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

Odie;1207740 wrote: what's right? I know what I want.



I worship the things I love, my friends, family and animals.:-4:-4



I'm sociable, funny and always seeking to help people.









what's wrong?.......to many to list!:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl


With your permission I happen to have a list right here.

Nomad;1207762 wrote: With your permission I happen to have a list right here.


oh oh.............I will say no more today!:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl



now, where's you list?:sneaky:

Whats right about you ? I would not proclaim what is "right"about me. I would just let others who know me do that.

Whats wrong about you ? This is between myself and my conscience.







Thanks for asking, anyway, Nomie.

:)

Whats right about me is I am a very mild mannered and easygoing person.

Whats wrong........I'm very overly sensitive and thin-skinned, plus I'm a terrible procrastinator!

Nomad;1207720 wrote: I think forgiveness is a really good one to work on. It opens up your heart and frees you from the tether of fear. I think it makes you stronger.



Mine...so many.

In a nutshell.



I have beautifuful things that live inside of my heart and my soul. I wish to share them and touch people. I have a gift.



But because of my childhood and then years of drinking I desperately struggle to allow myself the freedom to be who I am. Im afraid and anxious and it prevents me from being love. I do try and I have moments and Im learning.Lovely to see another side of you Nomad and one very honest and moving....a clown to the world at times but one that has so much feelings inside.Takes many experiences in life to become who you are today so although at times it was such a struggle for you...you made it didnt you and yes we are all still learning I guess.

What's right about me : Everything

What's wrong about me : Nothing, I'm absolutely perfect.

Right-IRL, People know where they stand with me. They know if I like them, hate them, or merely tolerate them.

Wrong-If it pops in my head, it comes out my mouth.

Odin;1208204 wrote: What's right about me : Everything

What's wrong about me : Nothing, I'm absolutely perfect. Me too mate. Although coping with the jealousy for being perfect is tough some-times.

oscar;1208246 wrote: Me too mate. Although coping with the jealousy for being perfect is tough some-times.


And people question our modesty, I just don't get it.

hmm ,, i find it interesting how many people dont want to say whats wrong with them?:-3:sneaky:;) i dunno ,,, whats wrong with you people!!!!!!!:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

Odin;1208204 wrote: What's right about me : Everything

What's wrong about me : Nothing, I'm absolutely perfect.


yeah yeah, sure sure!:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

kazalala;1208296 wrote: hmm ,, i find it interesting how many people dont want to say whats wrong with them?:-3:sneaky:;) i dunno ,,, whats wrong with you people!!!!!!!:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl




okay, okay, I'm over sensitive and my feelings get hurt easily.

If people show they care about me and ask me how I am and really mean it, fine, if not, I don't bother with them....and I can tell who does and doesn't mean it....it has to be a two-way street as I am one who does care a lot for people and their problems.

-I won't give sympathy to those who constantly have nothing better to do in their lives but constantly complain......its just an attention getter.:rolleyes:

I hate rain.......I am grouchy then.



so there!:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

kazalala;1208296 wrote: hmm ,, i find it interesting how many people dont want to say whats wrong with them?:-3:sneaky:;) i dunno ,,, whats wrong with you people!!!!!!!:yh_rotfl:yh_rotflCause Id be here all day fgs:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

Right-I have a big heart

Wrong-I have a wall around my heart

Odie;1208304 wrote: okay, okay, I'm over sensitive and my feelings get hurt easily.

If people show they care about me and ask me how I am and really mean it, fine, if not, I don't bother with them....and I can tell who does and doesn't mean it....it has to be a two-way street as I am one who does care a lot for people and their problems.

-I won't give sympathy to those who constantly have nothing better to do in their lives but constantly complain......its just an attention getter.:rolleyes:



I hate rain.......I am grouchy then.



so there!:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl
Thats not whats wrong with you ,,, thats just moaning about what you perceive as other peoples faults:rolleyes::yh_rotfl

so you are over sensitive and grouchy when it rains,,, noted;):sneaky:

kazalala;1208310 wrote: Thats not whats wrong with you ,,, thats just moaning about what you perceive as other peoples faults:rolleyes::yh_rotfl

so you are over sensitive and grouchy when it rains,,, noted;):sneaky:


always ask Odie if it is raining before engaging in conversation.... :yh_rotfl

Carolly;1208308 wrote: Cause Id be here all day fgs:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl


yea yea:rolleyes::yh_rotfl wait a minute,,,,,,,,,,,,,yes thats probably true:sneaky::yh_rotfl

kazalala;1208310 wrote: Thats not whats wrong with you ,,, thats just moaning about what you perceive as other peoples faults:rolleyes::yh_rotfl

so you are over sensitive and grouchy when it rains,,, noted;):sneaky:


Its not moaning at all, it is what I perceive some to be, and I have no patience for them....patience is a downfall with me in more than one respect.:-5

besides, are you the boss here?:sneaky::yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

minks;1208313 wrote: always ask Odie if it is raining before engaging in conversation.... :yh_rotfl


if its raining here, you'll know it!:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

minks;1208309 wrote: Right-I have a big heart

Wrong-I have a wall around my heart




I hear you Minks!:-4

Odie;1208319 wrote: Its not moaning at all, it is what I perceive some to be, and I have no patience for them....patience is a downfall with me in more than one respect.:-5

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but you were not asked to perceive what others faults are to be ,, stay on topic please:p and yes i am the boss here Nomie said i could be:p:D

dont get ye knickers in a twist Odie ,, was just havin a bit o fun:-4

kazalala;1208328 wrote: but you were not asked to perceive what others faults are to be ,, stay on topic please:p and yes i am the boss here Nomie said i could be:p:D

dont get ye knickers in a twist Odie ,, was just havin a bit o fun:-4


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knickers, what is that?

Odie;1208334 wrote: :yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl



knickers, what is that?

kazalala;1208343 wrote:




those are underwear here.:guitarist

bloody hell eh?:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl