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everything that can go wrong seems too? one little thing triggers a day of hell? when you wish you had never gotten up? when you feel ignored..overlooked..belittled..when you have the desire to slam your laptop across the room..drive off in your car and never return..burn your house to the ground..cut your wrists? i am having one of those days..:-1



surely i am not the only one that feels like saying..feck it all..sometimes..:-5

guppy;1150129 wrote: everything that can go wrong seems too? one little thing triggers a day of hell? when you wish you had never gotten up? when you feel ignored..overlooked..belittled..when you have the desire to slam your laptop across the room..drive off in your car and never return..burn your house to the ground..cut your wrists? i am having one of those days..:-1



surely i am not the only one that feels like saying..feck it all..sometimes..:-5


Of course.

But the days when I soar kind of balance it all out.

Take a deep breathe and understand its temporary.

thanks Nomad..think i will just go to bed and pretend this day never existed..





I will never understand some people..i am very very tired of people that disappear on me..of people that dont think their friendship mean **** to me..all wrapped up in their own crap..I am tired of people not speaking to me for weeks on end and then telling me they miss me..earth to rhonda...you dont miss me too much if i am the only one making contact.I am tired of people that just go away...and dont realize how much their silence hurts...months down the road you pop back up and everything is grand? i have news for you..it aint..and another friendship circles the drain..flush................:-5 I am tired..

Better out than in....get it off your chest. :-3

guppy;1150138 wrote: thanks Nomad..think i will just go to bed and pretend this day never existed..





I will never understand some people..i am very very tired of people that disappear on me..of people that dont think their friendship mean **** to me..all wrapped up in their own crap..I am tired of people not speaking to me for weeks on end and then telling me they miss me..earth to rhonda...you dont miss me too much if i am the only one making contact.I am tired of people that just go away...and dont realize how much their silence hurts...months down the road you pop back up and everything is grand? i have news for you..it aint..and another friendship circles the drain..flush................:-5 I am tired..


Hi Guppy. Yes, I've had those horrible days where all you wanna do is go back to bed:wah:

ok, i will..to hell with it..i have had enough of pretending i dont care when selfcentered people delete their memberships everywhere..disapear for weeks and then pretend it never happened..i thought we were friends..you hurt the hell out of me..and i am done..

guppy;1150149 wrote: ok, i will..to hell with it..i have had enough of pretending i dont care when selfcentered people delete their memberships everywhere..disapear for weeks and then pretend it never happened..i thought we were friends..you hurt the hell out of me..and i am done..


Maybe you should go back to the fishtank and chill for a bit.

Wouldnt this be best done in private Guppy?

Hamster;1150153 wrote: Wouldnt this be best done in private Guppy? Excuse me??? Why should she do it in private? If Guppy has friends on this forum, why shouldn't she post this? You may not be interested in what she has to say.......others are.

oscar;1150330 wrote: Excuse me??? Why should she do it in private? If Guppy has friends on this forum, why shouldn't she post this? You may not be interested in what she has to say.......others are.


Stop carping. I'm not disagreeing with her. Did I spell that right?:D

qsducks;1150343 wrote: Stop carping. I'm not disagreeing with her. Did I spell that right?:D Are you 'baiting' me? :wah:

oscar;1150346 wrote: Are you 'baiting' me? :wah:


Cod we have an intelligent conversation that's not halibut you?:yh_rotfl

oscar;1150330 wrote: Excuse me??? Why should she do it in private? If Guppy has friends on this forum, why shouldn't she post this? You may not be interested in what she has to say.......others are.


Because I am the friend she is talking about. I was giving her a chance to not do this in public.

Hamster;1150356 wrote: Because I am the friend she is talking about. I was giving her a chance to not do this in public.


Ah, you have a way today of letting the fish off the hook.:yh_rotfl

Hamster;1150356 wrote: Because I am the friend she is talking about. I was giving her a chance to not do this in public. She has other friends on here as well..... maybe she wanted to see what they thought?

oscar;1150367 wrote: She has other friends on here as well..... maybe she wanted to see what they thought?


Yeah.. whatever.

oscar;1150367 wrote: She has other friends on here as well..... maybe she wanted to see what they thought?


Tuna in to see tomorrow.:yh_rotfl

Hi Guppy,

Yep I have days like that also, sometimes their not as bad as I think they are though:-4:-4:-4:-4

Some chocolate and a hug coming your way:-6

Holy Mackerel! Chez mentioned chocolate!

qsducks;1150375 wrote: Holy Mackerel! Chez mentioned chocolate! Did some-one mention chocolate?????? :wah:

oscar;1150377 wrote: Did some-one mention chocolate?????? :wah:


Chezzie did. It's all her fault and now she has us all craving chocolate.

Where are those Cadbury Easter Egg chocy thingies?

Chezzie;1150385 wrote: I've got to go to the 24 hour petrol station now. People will think i've been smoking the wacky backy and queuing up for munchie's. It's all your fault if my street cred is ruined

qsducks;1150389 wrote: Where are those Cadbury Easter Egg chocy thingies?

oscar;1150390 wrote: I've got to go to the 24 hour petrol station now. People will think i've been smoking the wacky backy and queuing up for munchie's. It's all your fault if my street cred is ruined


:-3:-2:-3 Dont they read the papers?:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

Chezzie;1150393 wrote:


Ok, I'll settle for marshmellow bunnies instead.

Chezzie;1150396 wrote: :-3:-2:-3 Dont they read the papers?:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl That's why my street cred is so good. :yh_rotfl It's raining so i will get my chocolate delivered. (I'm not joking either).

oscar;1150400 wrote: That's why my street cred is so good. :yh_rotfl It's raining so i will get my chocolate delivered. (I'm not joking either).


Like OMG:-2

Chezzie;1150403 wrote: Like OMG:-2 If i phone our friends take-away, one of his drivers will get me some and drop it off. Well it is raining!!!!!!

oscar;1150407 wrote: If i phone our friends take-away, one of his drivers will get me some and drop it off. Well it is raining!!!!!!


Do you supply the umbrella?

oscar;1150367 wrote: She has other friends on here as well..... maybe she wanted to see what they thought?
And maybe some things are best left either unsaid or private, why should FG have crap from another forum dredged up here?

abbey;1150450 wrote: And maybe some things are best left either unsaid or private, why should FG have crap from another forum dredged up here? I suppose it's what one considers to be crap?

guppy;1150129 wrote: everything that can go wrong seems too? one little thing triggers a day of hell? when you wish you had never gotten up? when you feel ignored..overlooked..belittled..when you have the desire to slam your laptop across the room..drive off in your car and never return..burn your house to the ground..cut your wrists? i am having one of those days..:-1



surely i am not the only one that feels like saying..feck it all..sometimes..:-5


Like Nomad said......it's just a temporary feeling. Tomorrow IS another day. Don't take things so personal.

I have had some in-laws ask me a question then look distracted and drift away before I have a chance to answer them. I see that they don't really care, so I walk away. I've had employees confront me about a problem they have"with attitude" in Personnel, but I'm ready for them. I look them in the eye and try to assisit them as calmly as possible. They usually cool down so we can deal with the issue at hand.

I'm at the time of my life when I don't let certain people have power over my feelings and affect how my day will go.

Wow! Friends are there for one another no matter what, no conditions. Some of my friends don't talk to me for weeks, we all have busy lives that we all get caught up in. People's lives change constantly, priorities change constantly. People may may not hear from me from week to week, sometimes month to month. One thing never changes though, they are forever constant friends.:-6

qsducks;1150409 wrote: Do you supply the umbrella? I got my chocolate :wah:

oscar;1150330 wrote: Excuse me??? Why should she do it in private? If Guppy has friends on this forum, why shouldn't she post this? You may not be interested in what she has to say.......others are.


Personal issues about one and another should be done by pm's....not on an open board.

Odie;1150543 wrote: Personal issues about one and another should be done by pm's....not on an open board. But we didn't know it was Hamster Guppy was talking about in the opening thread until Hamster came on. :)

oscar;1150585 wrote: But we didn't know it was Hamster Guppy was talking about in the opening thread until Hamster came on. :)


That's why My dear its best to say nothing;)

Chezzie;1150589 wrote: That's why My dear its best to say nothing;) But if i hadn't of said anything, then no-one else would have said anything...... see, i kept the thread going :wah:

Seriously...... where is Guppy..... haven't heard from here for ages.

I think people should try to solve their issues in private, especially when they're friends, or consider themselves friends.

Badmouthing people in public, especially "FRIENDS", for the world to see is pointless and is a pretty good way to lose a friend and even divide forum members by forcing them to choose a side to support.

And no, I'm not saying this because of my relationship with Hamster. that's my opinion. dont mix the two up please

thats my two cents, or bits, or shillings or whatever

Hamster's Knight;1150651 wrote: I think people should try to solve their issues in private, especially when they're friends, or consider themselves friends.



Badmouthing people in public, especially "FRIENDS", for the world to see is pointless and is a pretty good way to lose a friend and even divide forum members by forcing them to choose a side to support.



And no, I'm not saying this because of my relationship with Hamster. that's my opinion. dont mix the two up please



thats my two cents, or bits, or shillings or whatever


You Bastard !

betty boop;1150528 wrote: Wow! Friends are there for one another no matter what, no conditions. Some of my friends don't talk to me for weeks, we all have busy lives that we all get caught up in. People's lives change constantly, priorities change constantly. People may may not hear from me from week to week, sometimes month to month. One thing never changes though, they are forever constant friends.:-6


well said betty boop,we all have bad days wen we think we are being ignored,i get it all the time,but hey lots more friends on here so not to worry.cheer up guppy.:-4:-4

oscar;1150603 wrote: But if i hadn't of said anything, then no-one else would have said anything...... see, i kept the thread going :wah:

Seriously...... where is Guppy..... haven't heard from here for ages.


Maybe guppy didnt need anyone to say anything...she could have just been venting. And I cant help but wonder why you would want to keep the thread going after you stated your opinion. If anyone would want to keep it going it would be Guppy. What possible motives could you have for wanting to keep it going other than personal intent? I just cant see it.



Nomad...I am not...I have 2 living parents and I know them

Nomad;1150654 wrote: You Bastard ! :yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl You just crack me :yh_rotfl

Hamster's Knight;1150657 wrote: Maybe guppy didnt need anyone to say anything...she could have just been venting. And I cant help but wonder why you would want to keep the thread going after you stated your opinion. If anyone would want to keep it going it would be Guppy. What possible motives could you have for wanting to keep it going other than personal intent? I just cant see it.






I fully agree on this and that personal issues are personal, not to be displayed on a public board for everyone to see and judge.

Maybe Guppy just needed to vent.

People should take up their own issues privately and not be harassed, degraded, belittled or bullied here.

Plus other members takes sides and then the forum just become evil.



take it up in a pm or email!

Hamster's Knight;1150657 wrote: Maybe guppy didnt need anyone to say anything...she could have just been venting. And I cant help but wonder why you would want to keep the thread going after you stated your opinion. If anyone would want to keep it going it would be Guppy. What possible motives could you have for wanting to keep it going other than personal intent? I just cant see it.



Nomad...I am not...I have 2 living parents and I know them
Forst of all, members who visit every day do not trawl the forums. As i do, they click on today's posts. If it should happen that a thread is the top of page one, then it means that some-one has just posted on that thread. I do not have to explain anything to you however, i posted on this thread because it was on page one when i logged on, there-fore the last post before mine was very recent.

Any member has the right to post any subject they like on here and it is not for you or anyone else to say they shouldn't. You and Hamster are not the only members here.....this is a very large site with many many members. Equally, you can not dictate who comments on who's threads.

If you have a problem with Guppy posting personal stuff on this site, then i suggest you contact the mods, tell them your problem and ask for it to be composted. Until you do that, you can not tell anyone who, what, when or why they can post.

oscar;1150668 wrote: Forst of all, members who visit every day do not trawl the forums. As i do, they click on today's posts. If it should happen that a thread is the top of page one, then it means that some-one has just posted on that thread. I do not have to explain anything to you however, i posted on this thread because it was on page one when i logged on, there-fore the last post before mine was very recent.

Any member has the right to post any subject they like on here and it is not for you or anyone else to say they shouldn't. You and Hamster are not the only members here.....this is a very large site with many many members. Equally, you can not dictate who comments on who's threads.

If you have a problem with Guppy posting personal stuff on this site, then i suggest you contact the mods, tell them your problem and ask for it to be composted. Until you do that, you can not tell anyone who, what, when or why they can post.


Just because it's at the top of page one it's not mandatory that...what shall I call you....a "real member" since you check every day? it's not mandatory that you reply to it.

Please dont include Hamster in my comments. I said that it is my opinion and to please dont associate her with that. but you're doing it anyway, again trying to illicit a response of anger or something...who knows what. I dont/wont play that game.

You're right, I cant dicate who posts what. If you want to flame threads to keep the controversy alive, go for it. I never said DONT POST. I just said I didnt understand your reasoning for keeping the thread alive. dont twist my words please.

Again, I didnt tell anyone what to do, you're twisting my words. Go back, read my post again, and you'll see my opinion that personal stuff should be kept personal. I never told you to stop. I never said Guppy shouldnt have posted that comment, and I never said Hamster should have or should not have responded. I was neutral.

I'm not going to add fuel to the fires you like to build but I also have an opinion and a right to post to any thread, response, topic i like and if you or anyone else says something I dont agree with, I'm giong to say it if I feel like it. so...feel free to go intimidate someone else. it wont work on me.

Chezzie;1150589 wrote: That's why My dear its best to say nothing;)


exactly.