WHAT TO YOU IS a TRUE FRIEND??

hoppy · Post by **hoppy** » Thu Mar 04, 2010 7:30 am

A woman who shows up at my door wearing nothing but a robe with nothing on under it, carrying a 12 pack or two, and goes home next morning and don't bug me until I want her again.

YZGI · Post by **YZGI** » Thu Mar 04, 2010 9:24 am

hoppy;1294447 wrote: A woman who shows up at my door wearing nothing but a robe with nothing on under it, carrying a 12 pack or two, and goes home next morning and don't bug me until I want her again.

Thats a hooker, but close..

Affinity One · Post by **Affinity One** » Mon Mar 22, 2010 8:50 pm

In this materiallistic world a really TRUE FRIEND is very hard to find.

A true friend is someone who cares enough to tell you if you are wrong. Who does not let you go in the wrong direction. A mother is a good example of this true friend. She does all she can to direct you in the right direction. give you unconditional love.

As it is in this world we may find true fiends alot easier!!!!

Affinity One

K.Snyder · Post by **K.Snyder** » Mon Mar 22, 2010 9:03 pm

Someone that never feels the need to ever lie to you and one that expects the same.

southern yankee · Post by **southern yankee** » Mon Mar 22, 2010 9:40 pm

k.snyder;1298803 wrote: someone that never feels the need to ever lie to you and one that expects the same. amen!!!!!;)

K.Snyder · Post by **K.Snyder** » Tue Mar 23, 2010 9:44 am

southern yankee;1298808 wrote: amen!!!!!;)

:yh_wink

:yh_kiss

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Tue Mar 23, 2010 11:19 am

Lon;927512 wrote: I can only speak for myself, but during my lifetime I have had many friends but when it comes to what we might call a TRUE FRIEND, it's a dog. They demand and ask so little of our friendship. Ditto to that Lonnie.

A TRUE friend to me Is one who knows I have commitments, a busy life and personal worries In the family. A TRUE friend steps back to let you breathe and keeps In touch to check how you are but does not selfishly bombard you with e mails and messages and demand you reply Immediately.

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Tue Mar 23, 2010 11:20 am

hoppy;1294447 wrote: A woman who shows up at my door wearing nothing but a robe with nothing on under it, carrying a 12 pack or two, and goes home next morning and don't bug me until I want her again.

That'll be me then... But I always brig a 24 pack

southern yankee · Post by **southern yankee** » Tue Mar 23, 2010 12:07 pm

Being a true friend takes a lot of hard work. like a flower bed. it can't be just PLANTED. it has to be cared for Daily;);):)

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Tue Mar 23, 2010 12:11 pm

southern yankee;1298924 wrote: Being a true friend takes a lot of hard work. like a flower bed. it can't be just PLANTED. it has to be cared for Daily;);):) I totally agree with you and It's why I don't entertain any-one who demands attention when I'm having a hard time. Some-times you can over fertilise that garden and It ends up buried up to the neck In S*it.

;)

southern yankee · Post by **southern yankee** » Tue Mar 23, 2010 12:19 pm

oscar;1298925 wrote: I totally agree with you and It's why I don't entertain any-one who demands attention when I'm having a hard time. Some-times you can over fertilise that garden and It ends up buried up to the neck In S*it.

;) it takes time and practice;)

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Tue Mar 23, 2010 12:20 pm

southern yankee;1298931 wrote: it takes time and practice;)
I've had plenty of practice, that's why I now don't entertain the Selfish.

;);)

southern yankee · Post by **southern yankee** » Tue Mar 23, 2010 12:24 pm

oscar;1298932 wrote: I've had plenty of practice, that's why I now don't entertain the Selfish.

;);) some i know are hard to be their friend. but i like a challange. it is great when it works out, for the better:)

Post by **Oscar Namechange** » Tue Mar 23, 2010 12:29 pm

southern yankee;1298937 wrote: some i know are hard to be their friend. but i like a challange. it is great when it works out, for the better:) True... But some-times you reach a point where you know nothing will change and your flogging a dead horse with more fertilizer piling up on that garden.

;);)

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Tue Mar 23, 2010 4:13 pm

K.Snyder;1298803 wrote: Someone that never feels the need to ever lie to you and one that expects the same.

I won't tolerate lies from a friend...there is absolutely no justification for them.

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Tue Mar 23, 2010 6:14 pm

oscar;1298925 wrote: I totally agree with you and It's why I don't entertain any-one who demands attention when I'm having a hard time. Some-times you can over fertilise that garden and It ends up buried up to the neck In S*it.

;)

I would gladly bury you up to your neck in fertilizer in the name of friendship.

Manure or fish ?

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Tue Mar 23, 2010 6:52 pm

southern yankee;1298924 wrote: Being a true friend takes a lot of hard work. like a flower bed. it can't be just PLANTED. it has to be cared for Daily;);):)

your right and if some cannot be there daily, then they are not a true friend.

Everyone has a busy life.

- just a daily hello, how are you? is all it takes.

katanne · Post by **katanne** » Tue Mar 23, 2010 8:06 pm

for me, a true friend is the one that says everything to you. specially if its something really bad that you have done..=)

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Tue Mar 23, 2010 9:15 pm

Some one that after I fall in an alligator infested river doesnt let me fend for myself then pull out the camera because how many chances do you get to see that !

southern yankee · Post by **southern yankee** » Tue Mar 23, 2010 9:39 pm

oscar;1298941 wrote: True... But some-times you reach a point where you know nothing will change and your flogging a dead horse with more fertilizer piling up on that garden.

;);)that may be true. But true friendship has to be on both sides. I do get what you mean. Being a doormat is not cool.

southern yankee · Post by **southern yankee** » Tue Mar 23, 2010 9:40 pm

Nomad;1299107 wrote: Some one that after I fall in an alligator infested river doesnt let me fend for myself then pull out the camera because how many chances do you get to see that !AHHHHAHHH good one;)

southern yankee · Post by **southern yankee** » Tue Mar 23, 2010 9:42 pm

Maybe i am lucky. with my best friend. we have the TRUEST of frienships. Both of us have gone to hell and back for the other:-4

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Tue Mar 23, 2010 10:32 pm

A true friend is somebody who can take your jokes, your ribbing, your laughter at silly things, they can tolerate you even if they don't agree with you, they don't judge you, they become your friends online or in the real world...at least mine have and believe me, I walked away from this place w/quite a load of friends. As for NONFRIENDS, they are the jealous types, the ones who manage to try to kill friendships, threads, etc., well it didn't work did it, but we all managed to leave with our heads held high with enough respect to not make ourselves look like effing idiots...we walked out with class & if you look classy, you are classy and we are also posh chicks!:guitarist

G#Gill · Post by **G#Gill** » Wed Mar 24, 2010 5:48 am

Good for you, and your friends.

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Wed Mar 24, 2010 5:54 am

G#Gill;1299158 wrote: Good for you, and your friends.

amen.

qsducks · Post by **qsducks** » Wed Mar 24, 2010 6:03 am

Odie;1299161 wrote: amen.

Coming from you what a commical little charade on your signature...the lies & deceiving, the webs you weave...says millions.

koan · Post by **koan** » Wed Mar 24, 2010 11:43 am

We've all got problems, lets not put names to them. People can learn to coexist... you just choose your conversations.

flopstock · Post by **flopstock** » Wed Mar 24, 2010 12:27 pm

Nomad;1299107 wrote: Some one that after I fall in an alligator infested river doesnt let me fend for myself then pull out the camera because how many chances do you get to see that !

Oh for gods sake!

IT WAS ONE TIME!!!:-5:-5

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Wed Mar 24, 2010 8:15 pm

someone who doesn't always whine!

god, I hate continual whiners!:rolleyes:

southern yankee · Post by **southern yankee** » Wed Mar 24, 2010 8:44 pm

Odie;1299368 wrote: someone who doesn't always whine!

god, I hate continual whiners!:rolleyes: yep, i think my best friend and i take turns!!:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Wed Mar 24, 2010 8:52 pm

southern yankee;1299378 wrote: yep, i think my best friend and i take turns!!:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

whiner!:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

southern yankee · Post by **southern yankee** » Wed Mar 24, 2010 9:06 pm

Odie;1299381 wrote: whiner!:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl somebody gotta do it!!:yh_rotfl

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Wed Mar 24, 2010 9:08 pm

southern yankee;1299386 wrote: somebody gotta do it!!:yh_rotfl

that's okay sis, you can whine to me all day if you need to.:-4

Lyn59 · Post by **Lyn59** » Wed Dec 19, 2018 5:17 am

Carolly;1077632 wrote: And how very true Hope.

A true friend is someone that is always there for you.

Post by **LarsMac** » Wed Dec 19, 2018 7:17 am

Best definition I have heard for a True Friend is, Someone you don't ever have to explain yourself to.