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Hiya all. Not been about much lately. It's been a real hard few months. Ryan has been in Foster Care since July. He has now been assessed and was found to have ADHD as I have said for years, also Asperger's and Conduct Disorder. Worse than I thought but at least now we have a diagnoses we will hopefully get the right help at last when he comes home.

Jade is 6 months old now and still well and happy. We just want Ryan home now so we can be a proper family again. I get to see him 3 times a week but it just isn't the same. He won't be allowed to come home until he has been on medication for a month and that won't start for at least another month. I hope to have him home over Christmas though, finger crossed.

I hope you are all doing well and are happy.

Claire X

hi cg missed ya

el guapo;710581 wrote: hi cg missed ya


Hiya hun thanks. I won't be posting like I did still as I don't spend much time online anymore but rather than replying to many PM's I thought it easier just to do a post. :wah:

I hope you can be a family again Claire, and i hpe Ryan starts to get better and feel much happier:-4 dont give up love:yh_hugs

kazalala;710586 wrote: I hope you can be a family again Claire, and i hpe Ryan starts to get better and feel much happier:-4 dont give up love:yh_hugs


Thanks and I won't. He used to escapre through the windows but I now have double-glazing with good locks so he can't, that's a start. I thought it would be easier when I got a diagnoses but it's harder, I feel so sorry for him. He has a lifetime of trouble ahead.

jimbo;710593 wrote: i hope all goes well its like no pain on earth being apart from your children





i aint missed you at all :p:p:



ok just a little bit it has been quiter (spewled wrang ta anniy ya ):D


No there isn't, it doesn't get easier either does it, gets harder. I ache for him so bad.

I miss you too Jimbobblybob.

Where have all of your posts gone?

crazygal;710592 wrote: Thanks and I won't. He used to escapre through the windows but I now have double-glazing with good locks so he can't, that's a start. I thought it would be easier when I got a diagnoses but it's harder, I feel so sorry for him. He has a lifetime of trouble ahead.


dont think like that,,, he can have a good life, now he is getting help.. but of course he is your son,, so i know you will feel for him. take care:-4

jimbo;710599 wrote: good grief is he getting married :wah:





i know how you feel my daughter will never be well i will always have to look after her :( ask jes how bad she was the other day


Oh I am sorry. Not getting married. Once I get him home I am keeping him and his sister.

Good to see you Claire. :-6

abbey;710606 wrote: Good to see you Claire. :-6


Thanks hun, how you been?

kazalala;710598 wrote: dont think like that,,, he can have a good life, now he is getting help.. but of course he is your son,, so i know you will feel for him. take care:-4


Yes I know and thanks. Bit late though, I had to get desperate to get help. They wouldn't listen! I am seeing him tomorrow, can't wait.

Hi ya, it's lovely to see you here :-4 Glad to hear that Ryan is going to get the right help at long last :-6

Its good to hear that they have finally diagnosed Ryan - I know its not nice finding out that your child has problems, but at least now someone has listened to you and is finally helping. I can understand the 'med. stabilization' time is very frustrating and upsetting for you - but when you finally get him home, you will all be able to enjoy the happy life you deserve. :-6

Hey ya CG good to see ya here Huge Huggs for ya...I hope it all gets worked out and Ryan thrives good to hear Jade is doing well.

Miss ya

Minks

jimbo;710609 wrote: not you getting married numb nuts





ryan , you said he has a lifetime of grief ahead of him so i joked oh no he is not getting married :wah:


I know what you meant and I mean once he is home, nobody is getting their hands on him, he is mine forever. *tongue smiley*

SuzyB;710613 wrote: Hi ya, it's lovely to see you here :-4 Glad to hear that Ryan is going to get the right help at long last :-6


Thanks Suzy and thanks for always being there. *hugs*

ThePheasant;710619 wrote: Its good to hear that they have finally diagnosed Ryan - I know its not nice finding out that your child has problems, but at least now someone has listened to you and is finally helping. I can understand the 'med. stabilization' time is very frustrating and upsetting for you - but when you finally get him home, you will all be able to enjoy the happy life you deserve. :-6


Thanks a lot hun. It is good that at last they are listening to me, have no choice now it's been proved.

minks;710655 wrote: Hey ya CG good to see ya here Huge Huggs for ya...I hope it all gets worked out and Ryan thrives good to hear Jade is doing well.

Miss ya

Minks


Cheers me dear *smile smiley* Hope you are doing good too.

Are many of you guys on Facebook? I love that place. Can do some real silly stuff.

I saw the pictures of Ryan and Jade at facebook, Ryan looked as though he was having a great time at his party and I can't believe how much Jade has grown, she is gorgeous :-4

Nice to see you posting again CG missed having you around

Hi! Nice to see you again, so glad things are going well. :-6