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Hey guys most people i talk to on MSN says its weird that i don't want a Relitionship cause i find it hard to trust people because of the amount of times i've been backstabbed by so called friends and as a result i don't want anyone in my life when i get my own house e.t.c cause knowning my luck it'll probably turn out to be the exact same thing that caused me to end so many friendships

I don't think it's weird at all mainly because you're 17. Please don't take that as me being ageist because that's not it. When I was 17 the last thing I was thinking about or wanted was a relationship with anyone. It's hard to continue your faith in people when you're being repeatedly screwed but as time goes by (and it will) you get better at knowing when the screwing's going to come so you can avoid it. And you learn to avoid the wrong kinds of people for the most part. I honestly think you have plenty of time to move around, get "wiggle room" without worrying about relationships just now. I wouldn't throw out the opportunity if a good one comes along but I wouldn't be that concerned right now either. Somebody else may tell you differently; I'm just telling you what I think of it. :-6

Sorry man, but that’s a dumb paranoid reason. Talk about stopping your life because what might happen¦..

Here is a theory you may want to consider:

If Joe has a problem with Bill

And Joe has a problem with Jack

And Joe has a problem with Bob

And Joe has a problem with John

Guess who has the problem?

RedGlitter;641966 wrote: I don't think it's weird at all mainly because you're 17. Please don't take that as me being ageist because that's not it. When I was 17 the last thing I was thinking about or wanted was a relationship with anyone. It's hard to continue your faith in people when you're being repeatedly screwed but as time goes by (and it will) you get better at knowing when the screwing's going to come so you can avoid it. And you learn to avoid the wrong kinds of people for the most part. I honestly think you have plenty of time to move around, get "wiggle room" without worrying about relationships just now. I wouldn't throw out the opportunity if a good one comes along but I wouldn't be that concerned right now either. Somebody else may tell you differently; I'm just telling you what I think of it. :-6


And I thought that was the best part of a relationship :rolleyes: :wah:

mikeinie;641967 wrote: Sorry man, but that’s a dumb paranoid reason. Talk about stopping your life because what might happen¦..

Here is a theory you may want to consider:

If Joe has a problem with Bill

And Joe has a problem with Jack

And Joe has a problem with Bob

And Joe has a problem with John

Guess who has the problem?


Errrr .................Mike :rolleyes: :wah:

mikeinie;641967 wrote: Sorry man, but that’s a dumb paranoid reason. Talk about stopping your life because what might happen¦..

Here is a theory you may want to consider:



If Joe has a problem with Bill

And Joe has a problem with Jack

And Joe has a problem with Bob

And Joe has a problem with John



Guess who has the problem?






er yzgi

SuzyB;641969 wrote: And I thought that was the best part of a relationship :rolleyes: :wah:


:wah: It is! It is! Don't listen to me! It is! :wah:

No I don't think its weird cos as Red said you are only 17 and you have the rest of your life to worry about being in a relationship, just enjoy yourself and worry about yourself for now and what you want to do, :guitarist

Musiclover89;641952 wrote: Hey guys most people i talk to on MSN says its weird


Stop "talking to people on MSN" and get down to the pub, or somewhere.

SuzyB;641970 wrote: Errrr .................Mike :rolleyes: :wah:


jimbo;641971 wrote: er yzgi


Nooooo i think it's

Paul ?

:wah:

Musiclover89;641952 wrote: Hey guys most people i talk to on MSN says its weird that i don't want a Relitionship cause i find it hard to trust people because of the amount of times i've been backstabbed by so called friends and as a result i don't want anyone in my life when i get my own house e.t.c cause knowning my luck it'll probably turn out to be the exact same thing that caused me to end so many friendships




well i like ya ,you have always been pleasant and have always shown a great sense of humour when being teased by the mj hater





in fact you have never been nasty to any one .. lets send suzy round mikes she will sort him out

littlemissgiggle;641984 wrote: Nooooo i think it's

Paul ?

:wah:


Did you notice he copied me :rolleyes:

jimbo;641985 wrote: well i like ya ,you have always been pleasant and have always shown a great sense of humour when being teased by the mj hater





in fact you have never been nasty to any one .. lets send suzy round mikes she will sort him out


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Whats the address

SuzyB;641988 wrote: Stop volunteering my services......................................................



















Whats the address


:wah:

I can't stop giggling now

nothing weird about it you are young but don't close the door for good, you never know what you may miss out there.

Wow never seen so many replys in so little time :wah:

Musiclover89;642001 wrote: Wow never seen so many replys in so little time :wah:


we're a chatty bunch.

We aim to please. :-6

Musiclover89;642001 wrote: Wow never seen so many replys in so little time :wah:


Sorry, I was posting but nothing constructive

RedGlitter;642009 wrote: We aim to please. :-6


oh sorry I digress but everytime I hear or see that line I think of a sign over a toilet

We aim to please

you please aim too.

Soberano;642014 wrote: When i saw the "We aim to please" i thought MMMmmm wonder if her mate is good looking too.


Y'all....... :rolleyes:

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:sneaky:

Soberano;642020 wrote: Well is she?:D


She???

:sneaky:

Soberano;642028 wrote: You did say "We aim to please", i thought it might be a team thing.


Ohhhh...right. Well see, it's actually just me.

I do the work of two women.

Yeah. That's the ticket. :wah:

You are not weird at all. At the end of the day you are still very young. You have a whoel life ahead of you. One day that right person will come along. When my ex left me, the last thing I wanted was another man in my life. I was on my own for 18 months before my boyfriend came along, and even now, I cannot have him living with me, maybe things will change in months to come but right now I am not ready for taking that big step.

Just enjoy your life as you are right now.

Bill Sikes;641983 wrote: Stop "talking to people on MSN" and get down to the pub, or somewhere.


Bill, I like you. That is all, move along.

Excellently put, Pinky. :-6

it's so hard living with someone :-5

i have had all my friends that i have had in my whole life well except one but they went weird on me for some reason???? i never get let down by friends but i never ask anything of them ,i think buddy you need to open up and trust people and make loads of friends and if a couple turn out to be not so good dont worry about it ,if you never open up and trust people how are you ever going to make real good friends any way ????



I wear my heart on my sleeve and am a trusting person anyway

Like most people after a divorce, I said pretty much the same thing. I think you should say if someone special turns up, why not just roll with it?.

What you are basically saying is that you won't just settle for anyone. Thing is though, at your age, maybe some experience will help you see when someone worthy turns up.

You're a young man so what you think now isn't necessarily what you will think in a couple of years time. Do what feels right at the time mate and good luck.

SlipStream;642369 wrote: it's so hard living with someone :-5


Yes I agree with you and it's not until you live on yor own again do you realize how hard it is living with someone.