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Never had one, what about you? Did you regret it? Or was it the best sex you had. Remember sex and love are to some people two different things, Mars and Venus! Thinking about it. Dont know if I could though. Dont color outside the lines and starting to at this age might be good, might be bad.

Been there, done that. Would not do it again. I think being older is the deciding factor there. Wiser.

Indian Princess;601746 wrote: Never had one, what about you? Did you regret it? Or was it the best sex you had. Remember sex and love are to some people two different things, Mars and Venus! Thinking about it. Dont know if I could though. Dont color outside the lines and starting to at this age might be good, might be bad.


I'm sure that you mean't this post for females. Pemit me to add a male point of view. After the death of my first wife I had every intention of eventually re-marrying. Until that time I had every intention to have sex with as many females as possible. I won't go into the numbers, it's not important. I realized that I was a hot item (widower, grown children, assets, owned home, successful career). I took full advantage of the sympathy that many of women had towards me and milked it for all it was worth. I am an extrovert and love to dance and had no difficulty meeting a variety of nice women. I never lied or made any promises so I feel no guilt about my brief relationships. I have no idea what these different ladies felt when I never called again. Could be that we each got want we wanted, I don't know. To this day I can only remember the name of two. So---who did I eventually marry? Someone who's income and assets were just about equal to mine. Why? I knew she was not marrying me for $$$, security or to help raise her chilcren.

Marie5656;601775 wrote: Been there, done that. Would not do it again. I think being older is the deciding factor there. Wiser.


I hear you there. Been there done that will never do it again. Would not recommend anyone to do it eithier.

When I was young, it was the era of... women can do whatever they want to, and not have to feel badly about it. So, I had a couple of risque experiences. In the morning, Id feel liberated cool, and well adjusted. By the afternoon, I would feel like total ****. The double standard has always existed, it still exists now. Without feelings, the act for males isnt unique, its just an act.

weeder;601820 wrote: When I was young, it was the era of... women can do whatever they want to, and not have to feel badly about it. So, I had a couple of risque experiences. In the morning, Id feel liberated cool, and well adjusted. By the afternoon, I would feel like total ****. The double standard has always existed, it still exists now. Without feelings, the act for males isnt unique, its just an act.


Bravo!

Thanks for your honesty

to be honest, i've had a couple and both were so different, the one made me feel good, i had just come out of a long term relationship,the guy made me feel good and there was no expectations from either of us

the second one on the other hand was the most humiliating experience, suffice to say i was drunk and told him i didn't want to do it but...well its in the past now but that is one experience i will not be repeating

I've done it a few times. I don't recommend it to anyone. I was at a point in my life where I didn't fully value my own sexuality or think it was worth not throwing around without discretion. What pulled me out of it? I grew the hell up and realized that I was cheapening myself with young, immature boys with the stupid hope that if I just screwed 'em one of them would want to stick around. Dumb, dumb, dumb way of thinking!! So my happy ending was meeting a man who absolutely adores me and I can't stand to be away from, and I've never been more fulfilled sexually or emotionally.

Only one way back in my early 20's it was steamy and fun, no strings attached, and we parted ways never to meet again but that was ok. It was most memerorable. Now days, no way would I. Far to risky with STD's and strange behaviors out there... NO THANKS.

no that is something i have not done but the 2nd night i did but it is something i would never do again

Been there and done that when I was younger. I felt awful about myself afterwards and will never do it again. In my opinion, doing the deed is so much better when you are in love. :-4 - it's worth the wait.

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NotToday;602790 wrote: Been there and done that when I was younger. I felt awful about myself afterwards and will never do it again. In my opinion, doing the deed is so much better when you are in love. :-4 - it's worth the wait.


Definitely agree on that one. Sex is much better with feelings involved. Although there are people who enjoy sex with no feelings. Not me though. Just don't think we're really made for it.

weeder;601820 wrote: In the morning, Id feel liberated cool, and well adjusted. By the afternoon, I would feel like total ****. The double standard has always existed, it still exists now.


I think it's just part of general human nature. The same goes for many other animals, too.

I never have because I met my husband at a young age. :-5 :wah:

I have stayed out of this thread, cause I'm a big fat ho!!:-5 :-5



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No, We have two night stands in our bedroom.

Note to self: Read thread to fully understand it before posting.

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