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I am having abit of a Problem with a Friend just now he is really arragont and i hate Arragont people but we've been best friends for about 14 years any adivce on dealing with it cause i don't wanna do anything stupid

First thing that popped in my head when I read your post was talk to him about it. If his behavior is offensive to you then IMO you have the right to speak up about it. Arrogance is one of those character traits I simply can't tolerate, and you shouldn't have to either.

I was really close friends with someone for over 17 years and she started treating me badly.

I'm intolerant at the best of times, but I really gave her a stack of chances and she blew each one.

So I simply stopped seeing her.

You need to decide if your arrogance is something that can't be addressed and if it's something that upsets you.

My ex-friend is working very hard now to rebuild the relationship.

Pinky, hit it on the head, I agree with her 100%

Be busy for awhile.

Like... a year.

magenta flame;568148 wrote: I'm with Koan, I'm always busy these days for a particular person. Had to, she was draining me:rolleyes:


that is because you hog all the water.......:sneaky:

yea, i remember our last fight.....

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Musiclover89;565729 wrote: I am having abit of a Problem with a Friend just now he is really arragont and i hate Arragont people but we've been best friends for about 14 years any adivce on dealing with it cause i don't wanna do anything stupid


Has he always been arrogant or is this something new? Coud there be a reason, like some underlying insecurity?

I'm kind of in the same boat with my friend of 20 years. She is never wrong or at fault for anything. Always critiquing others yet failing to see the errors in herself. So far I've said nothing but the time is coming. I'll probably use humor when I have to call her on it, hoping thet will diffuse hard feelings and open up a dialogue. Have you thought of that?