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Ok ladies, what would you do if you had been talking to a giy on the internet, then got the chance to talk to him on the phone, ony to fimd out that he has a girlfriend? Wouldn't you be upset ? I mean. he went on a dating website.

wneelz42;557151 wrote: Ok ladies, what would you do if you had been talking to a giy on the internet, then got the chance to talk to him on the phone, ony to fimd out that he has a girlfriend? Wouldn't you be upset ? I mean. he went on a dating website.:mad:Not all men are scum wheelz,

Is'nt it better to find out sooner rather than later that he has someone else?

wneelz42;557151 wrote: Ok ladies, what would you do if you had been talking to a giy on the internet, then got the chance to talk to him on the phone, ony to fimd out that he has a girlfriend? Wouldn't you be upset ? I mean. he went on a dating website.


hey you , not all men are bad , just most of them



me and wise guy are nice , you cant throw all the apples out coz one of them is rotten

Hmmmmm, women can be scum too!! Most of us arnt though Yeah, would be really annoyed, but lies are easily told over the internet and you could be whoever you wanted to be. So are you going to keep talking to him?

jimbo;557161 wrote: hey you , not all men are bad ,
I read that as "not all men are bald" :wah:

abbey;557166 wrote: I read that as "not all men are bald" :wah:




balding

This has happened to more than one good woman. Count yourself lucky, Wheelz.

Lies are told all over the net, in real life everyday.

All men can't be thrown in the "SCUM" basket though.

Just forget about him. You found out something about him was crappy (really crappy). leave him alone, dont lose any sleep over it and find someone else. People lie all the time. Its wethere you choose to associate with liars is the real question. there are good men out there, I got one.

He says even though he has a girlfriend he still wants to go out for coffee and be friends. Should I go?

RedGlitter;557175 wrote: This has happened to more than one good woman. Count yourself lucky, Wheelz.


Isn't it better to find out early in the "relationship" than before it is to late?

Must be so devo for those who get sucked in by a con job.

when you meet people for the first time ,its not unusual for a certain big bald guy to shave about 10 years off his age my face was a picture when she found out though

wneelz42;557179 wrote: He says even though he has a girlfriend he still wants to go out for coffee and be friends. Should I go?
The answer is in your avatar.

NO! Run as far away from thsi guy as possible! If he'll lie to her, he will eventually lie to you! Love yourself more than that!

YZGI;557198 wrote: The answer is in your avatar.




i guess he has the x factor now though

I wouldn't meet him, he wouldn't have told his girlfriend about you. There are loads like this on the net sadly.

If men are scum then women are the feeder fish that dine upon them.

koan;557221 wrote: If men are scum then women are the feeder fish that dine upon them.
I like being scum. Keeps the expectations low.

YZGI;557226 wrote: I like being scum. Keeps the expectations low.


I'm guessing you just warmed to the idea of being some woman's dinner.

koan;557229 wrote: I'm guessing you just warmed to the idea of being some woman's dinner.
I must admit,:wah: that was part of it.

I don't mind being friends with a guy in a relationship. But the thing is I don't know this guy or his girlfriend. I don't want her to run into us an then kick my ass.

I was told recently that I should go to church to meet nice, moral people.





:wah:

wneelz42;557233 wrote: I don't mind being friends with a guy in a relationship. But the thing is I don't know this guy or his girlfriend. I don't want her to run into us an then kick my ass.
He doesnt want to be friends. He wants sex. Carry on.

koan;557236 wrote: I was told recently that I should go to church to meet nice, moral people.





:wah:


It took me going to church to realise how normal I am

wneelz42;557151 wrote: Ok ladies, what would you do if you had been talking to a giy on the internet, then got the chance to talk to him on the phone, ony to fimd out that he has a girlfriend? Wouldn't you be upset ? I mean. he went on a dating website.


Hi ya,

I think if he a member of a dating site and he already has a girlfriend it is pretty obvious what he's after. Please stay well away, people like that have no respect for others and don't care who gets hurt.

If he is that keen for a meet and you really want to see him, why don't you say ok but only if his girlfriend is there too, you could make two friends in one hit

Did you ask him if his girlfriend knew he was on this site?

And then I would put him on ignore..............................

wneelz42;557179 wrote: He says even though he has a girlfriend he still wants to go out for coffee and be friends. Should I go?
Did'nt your mother ever have the talk with you? All men want is sex. If we ask you to coffee we are actually saying I want to have sex with you. If we say you look nice. We are saying we want sex. If we say we love you we are saying we want sex. When the lovely ladies on FG post their pictures we men undress them in our minds. This applies to every man on here (except spot of course, oh and maybe ted) Lesson over. Oh do ya got any pics you could post?:D

It all strated When he asked me about my previous relationships, an I told him. Then i asked him about his an he said Im in a relationship.

Yes, all men are scum or are at least working toward that goal. Moving on. :p



No seriously, you have to take as you find, if someone is proposing you cheat with them then you have to think about it, and if you are happy with it, do it, but don't be surprised if that person is also perfectly capable of screwing your best friend behind your back into the bargain, because people are as they act, and talk is cheap.

At least he was honest with you.

Years ago I joined a dating site and am still a member as I got to know lots of people on there. It was a free 10 year membership for the first certain amount of members. I go on there now maybe once a month to catch up, if that. If his profile says he is single on whatever site you met him on then he's scum I agree but I put, 'in a relationship' and had a photo of us on there as well so I didn't see anything wrong with staying a member.

wneelz42;557151 wrote: Ok ladies, what would you do if you had been talking to a giy on the internet, then got the chance to talk to him on the phone, ony to fimd out that he has a girlfriend? Wouldn't you be upset ? I mean. he went on a dating website.


Did he have the girlfriend when he joined the dating website?

Yep

Maybe they were looking for a threesome

eww

Don't even bother with him. Does his girlfriend know he still want to go out with you? I just don't think this can be a good thing for you.

wneelz42;557363 wrote: Yep


It's difficult to respect that. He should have broken up with his girlfriend before actively engaging in finding the next one.

He's too young. Wait two years, then phone him.

wneelz42;557179 wrote: He says even though he has a girlfriend he still wants to go out for coffee and be friends. Should I go?


Hi Wneezl42. You could go, but request (and make sure) that he takes his

girlfriend for coffee as well. That'll sort him out!



I wouldn't say, actually, that the 'net is a good place to "meet" people. It's

very easy to get a distorted (either "good", or "bad") impression. If the person

you are "talking" to has some "history", you could look it up, and see what

they're like overall. If they've *no* history, then *beware*. Also, if you actually

meet the person, make sure you do it in company, or at least in a busy place!

If this guy is associated with a on line dating forum - then he's shopping.

Does this guy live with this girlfriend? or just dates her?

You can't label this guy as scrum - he was honest with you regarding his relationships (girlfriend).

I can't imagine finding anyone on line with any ehtics.

Move on

Patsy

wneelz42;557179 wrote: He says even though he has a girlfriend he still wants to go out for coffee and be friends. Should I go?


No!

No way Jose. That friends line is as old as the hills.

And he probably is that old too!

koan;557236 wrote: I was told recently that I should go to church to meet nice, moral people.











:wah:


ah hell, that is where my dad got his seventh wife....its the epitomy of satan picking up a choir girl........:-2

Men are scum





Yes they are ! :-5

scum has it's own kind of beauty if you look at it without bias.

koan;558145 wrote: scum has it's own kind of beauty if you look at it without bias.




are you talking about the film scum

Pinky;558141 wrote: I wouldn't say that...some are just sooo great!!!:D




Too few and far between to count, scum it is.