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Pinky,

I would go, but thats me...if you want to see the peeps...I have had similar situations...I stayed away for a long time from somewhere I really like to go, just because of certain people...but I finally decided after a period of time it was time for me to do what I enjoyed and they would need to deal with it...I've apologized for what I did wrong and moved on with my life...I hold my head high...and they hate it...I can't help that...

Of course I know every situation is different, that's just my way I look at it....Good luck in your decision...I know it's a hard one...

You mentioned you know it's wrong and destructive. Isn't avoiding that group also destructive?

i would also say "GO" Pinky, and stand proud. then shoot him with an arrow.

Pinky;461886 wrote: Yup...there's the conundrum...which is the lesser of two evils?
Well if it's between him and you, I'd say you're the lesser.

If you think you can handle it, then i would go. time heals all hurts pinky. you might look at this guy and wonder what in the world did you ever feel for him.

what he thinks or feels would not be my first concern. dont let him run you off from your other mates. be true to yourself. :-4 go and have fun......and shoot him in the arse if he bothers you. lol