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after the death of loved ones we all dream about them but here are 2 dreams i cant explain has any one had a similar experience

dream one my cuz sam was murdered he and i used to live together train and see each other every day . and at the age of 31 he was attacked and murdered by a cowardly gang of vermin any way in my dream sam and i were in America and we were talking about his brother mark and sam told me remember the number 3702 just remember it . when i awoke i could not get it out of my head it was so real i rang mark and said does the number 3702 mean anything no sorry but he had booked a holiday yes in the u s and no one not even his mum knew strange i thought then 4 hours later mark rang me in tears he had just been overtaken on the motorway (free way ) by a van from a firm called sams van hire and yes the last four numbers on the van were 3702

dream 2

my uncle Fred the greatest man i ever knew died not long after sam was murdered . in this dream i was with my uncle he was holding a big wooden handled screw driver and he was standing in his socks on the grass he said in his west country accent how about that mush (mate) they give you your tools but not your shoes and he laughed go and ask your aunt Jane about me shoes he said .. when i woke up i was laughing it was a nice happy dream for i thought the world of him a missed him terribly .as the day went on i could not stop thinking of the dream and rang his son mark i asked about the screw driver and the shoes and drew a blank on both . A few hours later my cuz mark rang me back he said Jim you had better sit down my dad( uncle Fred) was laid to rest with no shoes on the shoes were too tight . no one but my mum and the undertakers knew that Jim i cant explain it then the next day i was sorting my shed out and there next to a pair of trainers that uncle Fred's other son Jess gave me was the wooden handled screw driver i've got goose bumps on my goose bumps writing this make of it what you will but i for one think the chances of all these things being coincidence are zero

Do you ever watch John Edward or Colin Fry on tv?

I think they'd both tell you that these dreams are an affirmation from your loved ones, telling you they're still there and watching over you. :-6

Awww Hun..:-4



I agree with Rapunzel.... for whatever reason... these dreams mean "Something". It can't possibly be just a coincidence and even if it was, what a lovely coincidence eh... :-3



Take strength, love & courage from these dreams...



Let them put a huge smile on your face and remember the good times..



Sending you lots of love and hugs your way to you and all your famliy :-4

thanks for your replys guys , i,ve not really a forum type of person really though to be honest i really look forward to seeing your views on things that have troubled me and its not really the sort of thing i can talk about with the lads , most of my good friends are women dont get me wrong here i'm well into my matial arts, football lads nights out i'm a real mans man but i just get on with women better , they seem to have a much more interesting realistic view on the world to me , the lads wont talk about about any thing that makes them seem weak in case they dont look less manly now me i dont care what any one thinks about me if i need to cry i'll cry if some one thinks i'm a softy i dont care .. now i have a few questions about the forum .. i have a friend now do i reply and say thanks for being my friend or is that a bit much .. though its nice not to read jim has no friends ha ha it just makes me feel better .. another thing is if i want to start a thread where do i start it i cant keep using the introduction thing or can i

Hello Jimbo.



I agree with both the ladies, I do think that these dreams mean something. Clearly you had a great connection with your uncle and cousin, and as you will never forget them, they will never forget you. Perhaps these dreams have appeared to show you, that they are both looking out for you, and telling you to keep strong, especially if you have had a tough time recently. My advice would be to keep staying strong with a smile on your face and know that people out there really care for you!

its hard to believe there are not many men out there that have lost loved ones and want to get a few things off of thier chest,honesty guys talk about it i know its hard buy you will better if you do

jimbo wrote: thanks for your replys guys , i,ve not really a forum type of person really though to be honest i really look forward to seeing your views on things that have troubled me and its not really the sort of thing i can talk about with the lads , most of my good friends are women dont get me wrong here i'm well into my matial arts, football lads nights out i'm a real mans man but i just get on with women better , they seem to have a much more interesting realistic view on the world to me , the lads wont talk about about any thing that makes them seem weak in case they dont look less manly now me i dont care what any one thinks about me if i need to cry i'll cry if some one thinks i'm a softy i dont care .. now i have a few questions about the forum .. i have a friend now do i reply and say thanks for being my friend or is that a bit much .. though its nice not to read jim has no friends ha ha it just makes me feel better .. another thing is if i want to start a thread where do i start it i cant keep using the introduction thing or can i


Regards to starting a thread, you can start one whereever you like technically, but if you look at the top elft side of the page, you should see a tab titled 'forums' here you will find all the types of topic that can be thought of, so I'm sure you can find what you are looking for, and then add your new thread into there.



Hope that helps.

jimbo wrote: its hard to believe there are not many men out there that have lost loved ones and want to get a few things off of thier chest,honesty guys talk about it i know its hard buy you will better if you do


I agree with that, a lot of men think it's not macho to express their feelings, and try to keep it contained inside, and as you say that really isn't doing them any good. That's why FG is so good, because evryone here will understand you, and you have no fear of feeling silly or insecure, as we are all here to help and lend any help or advice we can.

spoke to soon , thanks chris your input is well needed

well i'm not cute mate but i am big and bald and very very funny oh and honest did i mention i'm funny very funny

jimbo wrote: spoke to soon , thanks chris your input is well needed



well i'm not cute mate but i am big and bald and very very funny oh and honest did i mention i'm funny very funny


hehehe well you will fit in brilliantly here my friend, we are always having a laugh at all kinds of things. Good to have you with us!!

My advice (for what its worth)



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POST POST POST......



REPLY REPLY REPLY....:wah:



Just be yourself, say what you feel, bugger what anyone thinks lol :-3



Just make sure you have....





..... FUN FUN FUN....... :-4 life's too short



mwah

thanks guys jim has 2 friends yeay , idont know what it is but i get a real buzz out of making people laugh i blame my grandfather he was by far the funniest man i've ever known when my mum died he and my gran bought me up for a while i remember if i was naughty ( which was quite often ) my gran used to read me the riot act and my granded used to be behind her pulling faces at me so i'd get into even more trouble i mean what chance did i have it's no wonder i've turned out like jack nichlesons long lost love child is it , but my grandfather , a sad film and the tears would roll down his cheeks well at least i'm not that bad cheers grandad look what you've created :wah:

chrisb84uk wrote: hehehe well you will fit in brilliantly here my friend, we are always having a laugh at all kinds of things. Good to have you with us!!


Chris, what a lovely thing to say! You're such a sweetheart! :-4

Rapunzel wrote: Chris, what a lovely thing to say! You're such a sweetheart! :-4


Thanks Rapunzel!

Hi Jimbo...



Have you had anymore dreams lately...:-4



Maybe we can analyse mine... I dreamt I strangled my ex b/f and threw him down a stairwell.... he he he... it was well weird!!!



Hope your settling in & enjoying LIM....



If you need any help just YELL!!!! :rolleyes:

my posts look soo boring compared to every one else's no matter will bribe a 9 year old to show me how to use a PC ha ha no more dreams since i went to a medium and she said i had to go to sleep and dream i was with my loved ones that had died and in my dream i was too tell them i was fine but the dreams were unsettling me pretty much the dreams have stopped my uncle Fred pops in now and again , oh and uncle Fred if your looking down on me right now if you visit me again soon next weeks lottery numbers would be really handy ha ha

ps what does LIM mean

just thought my daughter is called chantelle and when she was young we used to call her shelly belly

jimbo wrote: my posts look soo boring compared to every one else's no matter will bribe a 9 year old to show me how to use a PC ha ha no more dreams since i went to a medium and she said i had to go to sleep and dream i was with my loved ones that had died and in my dream i was too tell them i was fine but the dreams were unsettling me pretty much the dreams have stopped my uncle Fred pops in now and again , oh and uncle Fred if your looking down on me right now if you visit me again soon next weeks lottery numbers would be really handy ha ha

ps what does LIM mean


Hahaha your posts aren't boring Jimbo, I mean look at mine, nothing special here either hahaha.



Oh and if your Uncle Fred should so up, and be kind enough to let slip any lottery numbers, don't suppose you would be kind enough to let me know them would you...please! :p :wah:

thanks chris you seem a really nice guy if i have any luck on the lottery you have a nice holiday coming your way .. on me and uncle Fred

jimbo wrote: thanks chris you seem a really nice guy if i have any luck on the lottery you have a nice holiday coming your way .. on me and uncle Fred


Thanks Jimbo, you are a very nice person too, and I'm glad to have met you. Oh and if you do see Uncle Fred, tell him I said hi!!